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FlameingDesires

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FlameingDesires - Female Dominant, Chapel Hill North Carolina | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About FlameingDesires

I am looking for a long term relationship. I seek compatibility in vanilla life first as the rest of the Ds lifestyle will follow. I seek a man with diverse interests that can hold a conversation. I do not like smoking and uncircumcised penises. Be between the ages of 56 and 72. Be ready to have phone conversations. I am not one to text. No married men, and I do not care if you have your wifes permission. I prefer my own race, no offense. I am not a switch! I like alpha men by day and submissive at night to me. There is no greater aphrodisiac that a powerful man submitting to me. I demand that we converse daily and that I am courted.



I have been in this lifestyle for about 25 years. I am well versed on the psychological aspects as well as the kink play.

Lets be realistic, no foreigners unless you can afford to travel back and forth.


My original profile was either hacked or has a collarspace glitch which precludes me from accessing message. I made this profile on the fly thinking the problem would be rectified. I have given up hope on the problem being fixed. The first profile is more comprehensive.


I am into ownership and chastity.

I am burned out with men that just want to fantasize.?

Rules:

Do not contact me if you are not able to devote an hour a night on the phone to ascertain compatibility.?

Court me, send flowers.

Be ready to meet. No excuses.

If you are not ready to meet me within a short period of our conversations do NOT contact me.

To reiterate,  I am a conservative.  I have no problem with beating some sense into a Democrat. 

This is the second time of posting this. I am a woman first and and foremost. I want to be courted. No wonder some of you men are single. I find it absolutely amazing that sub/slaves think a one sentence in your profile will captivate attention. How about writing a letter of introduction to the Domme that you are interested in? Then, you pathic people wonder why you have not received a response.

I have come to the conclusion that I require a younger sub/slave. Men whom are older than 55 are now being considered. 

Do not contact me unless you can relocate or have a fabulous domicile that I would not mind living in part time.  I am not selling my home.

Do not waste my time with inane chatter.

I have been approached by many younger men wanting to serve me. First, I would like to say that I am flattered. Second, this is merely not about doing the perfunctory duties of a sub/slave. This is a coexistence between two people building an enduring lifestyle. There must be more shared commonalities than just the one aspect of service.  

One caveat, I am a conservative.  I used to vote as an independent, however I can't find even one redeeming quality about the Democratic party. 

 

I also take my time with people to ascertain compatibility.  I do not need a sub/slave, I would like one for companionship. If that does not happen, I am content to be by myself.

I am first and foremost a woman. If you want to garner my attention you must court me. I am not wasting my time. This is not a game but a real search for the right sub/slave. Be prepared to iinvest your time with me otherwise do not respond to my profile.

I have been inundated with requests to converse with me. I want to speak with everyone to see if there is a potential for a relationship.  Therefore, I am moving methodically as I do not want to forget my conversations. 

I do expect that if we have continued dialogue that you will make yourself available.  There is no excuse not to be available during a 24 hour day. If a person wants something bad enough they will make room in their schedules.

FYI, I am aware Flaming is spelled incorrectly. Collarspace would not let me spelling  the correctly. 

My profile has changed and I am not updating it as my new profile may languish for months before being approved.  My husband/submissive is deceased. Therefore, I approach a new juncture in life to start over.

I own a home in Chapel Hill that is secluded in nature. I am NOT going to relocate. I am not adverse to living in 2 places. However, my main residence will be Chapel Hill.

  I am not a polyhome. I am interviewing for a submissive/slave. My old ad can still be viewed under the name VictorianLady02.

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