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Male Dominant, 45, Fairbanks, Alaska
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Dominant Couple, 48, Brooklyn, Michigan
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About FirmestHand
Some people think I come across as a bit arrogant, but in fact I am fully aware that I am not the best Dom in the world.
To be honest, I am only just in the top five... )
What I will say, is that I am definitely one of theluckiestDoms in the world...
My slave is softfcktoy, and I am looking for a playmate for her. A sister sub, perhaps a female switch, or even a Domme (softfcktoy will be very obedient!). Wed be open to a couple with a straight male, if there is a bit of give and take, so to speak! Either way, wed be interested in chatting, meeting, playing, and maybe letting things develop further if the chemistry is right...
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A word of advice to females who are hoping to be owned... Alpha Males don't chase, not even when we are interested. Playing hard to get, hoping to get "taken", isn't the right strategy.
In vanilla male/female sexual relationships, men compete for women, and women select which men they sleep with. Biologically speaking, females are a scarcer resource than males (given the opportunity, men are capable of producing hundreds of babies; women not), so females are biologically driven to choose more carefully than males.
But Alpha Males are scarce, and the rules are different.
you should of course be discriminating when it comes to your submission, but if a particular Alpha is intriguing to you, keep in mind he will be intriguing to lots of females. If he's interested in a submissive female, he wants one who knows what she is, and what she's for. "Taming" a female isn't a challenge, it's tedious.
Speaking for myself, I like a submissive to be creative, articulate and intelligent, but to know her place, and to be prepared to ask me for what she wants, right from the start. I am not going to seduce or coax her into anything.
Yes, I know it's a bit arrogant, but I have an inbox full of depressingly uncreative coyness. |
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