FirmExpectations

I currently live in Western Canada. I am not new to this lifestyle in any way. I have been actually "practicing" since 1994 and I was still kinky as all get out before that. I have taken on leadership and support roles in the local kink communities I have lived in. I also simply enjoyed the role of supportive community member. I do not think of what I want as simply "slap and tickle" every second Friday. I accept this as part of who I am and try my best to lead a balanced, healthy life.

I would describe myself as an aggressive dominant man who enjoys all aspects of power exchange. I enjoy the mental aspect just as much as the physical and feel I am very skilled at it. I enjoy many control aspects of this lifestyle and really enjoy the connection this type of interaction allows. I am hedonistic in my approach to life and tend to "colour outside the lines" when it comes to my relationships. While I do enjoy a helpless playmate or submissive before me, I do not believe in bullying or actual exploitation. I do not condone or endorse some of the immature and downright sleazy behavior I see passed off as "the lifestyle".

I believe in communication. It can be hard at times to actually achieve it but it is the most important component to any play in my opinion. I also believe that with communication people can be honest in what they want and do NOT want. There is nothing worse then getting deep into something only to have it blow up because someone wasn't either honest in what they wanted or open about what they did not want.

I think I will stop here, enough rambling.

If you have questions I invite you to ask me.

Have an excellent life.