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Spin1987
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how to write to me:
* some kind of greeting should be contained in your opening. try to come up with something other than just "hello."
* tell me who you are. this should cover things that are not in your profile. and for the love of whatever god you follow, please don't just cut and paste your profile into the letterbox.
* tell me why you are writing to me. this is your opportunity to shine. every person on this site who is looking for someone has reasons why they are searching. if you are writing to me there is a reason you chose me out of the thousands of other candidates. make me feel like you took the time to think about it. talk about the interests expressed in my profile and how they relate to you.
* something like a conclusion should close out the piece. then check your grammar and punctuation before hitting send.
what i'm looking for:
* a submissive/masochist who is between the ages of 21 and 39, and comfortable with a poly environment. what this means, is "you" would be around my boypet and any other people i am either playing with or sharing my bed with, and potentially playing with us.
* someone who has an exhibitionist streak, since i play in public most of the time.
* i really don't care if you have training, or if you're a novice, so long as you're willing to do a bit of work.
* a pony. because let's face it, what girl hasn't wanted a pony at some point in her life.
* and of course, friends.
what i'm NOT looking for:
* tops of any kind for any relationship other than friendship. period.
* flaky, clingy, needy people. i'm willing to be there for someone who needs the occasional shoulder to cry on, but there comes a point when enough is enough. ya know?
*emotionally stunted or developmentally challenged individuals. i am not your mommy and i don't want to be. i love to mold a sub into a better person (and yes that's by my deffinition) but i'm not here to raise you.
hard limits:
* anything having to do with scat, needles, or knives. although the last one is quickly becoming a maybe.
* water sports.
stuff you should know about me:
* i am very social and very sociable. anyone involved in my life must be willing and able to get out of the house with me regularly. not necesarily anything fancy, just coffee with friends, the occational club event, or whatever other fun thing we can think to do. but i am very much a be with me, be around my friends kinda girl.
* i am also poly. which means you will have to share. be able to deal with this, or don't bother me.
* i'm a writer, armature seamstress/costumer, and i love clubbing. i'm very social, and love going out almost as much as i love to stay home.
* be articulate if you're going to write me, because people who cannot express themselves really don't do it for me.
* my spelling sucks on occasion. forgive me when it does.
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long time, no entry. still in seattle, but mostly spend my time on under the same handle. i check back in from time to time.
in other news, i married my boy pet so anyone interested in me should know they're getting a duo.
also... i dyed my hair black with purple streaks. no good picture yet, but maybe soon.
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row of ducks? check.
but seriously, i've been feeling like i was on vacation for the better part of the month. no job, no cares, nothing to deal with. had my first day of work today, and everything seems real now. this awsome place is my home? serious? sweet.
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so, we've landed. and while i'm going to have to revise this in december, i'm sure, i love it here. it's so pretty and the weather has been so perfect. i know this is as good as it gets here and not to expect loads of this, but having so many green things around is just bliss making. still getting out to explore the city and eventually we'll make it to the wet spot. right now we're getting settled in and such. so please, feel free to get in touch and say hello. especially if you happen to be a gamer geek type looking to start a really fun new game that isn't vampire.
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have finnaly found my new home in the seattle area. mercer island, sometime in july. finalizing the details with the soon to be roomates, but it's looking like a great set up. i'm excited to start my new life there, and pet is too. now, i just need to get those last few ducks all lined up.....
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so, seattle end of june with my new pet. would love to chat with locals and get to know people before we journy up that way. not really looking for anymore subs, unless the perfect girlpet cums along.
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it's amazing the changes that one week can bring. to those who have been interested, thank you but i think my dance card is full. to you, and you know who you are, thanks for helping me through a tough week and keeping me from getting bored.
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so, once again my thoughts turn to moving. seattle looks good for the end of june. so for now, those of you in the san digeo area, please know i am only here temporarily. those of you in the seattle area, please feel free to contact me.
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please understand that, if i am on the site and you think you would like to talk to me, a letter of introduction is in order before the chat invite. i don't chat with people i don't know. so please, write me a letter. wait for me to respond. then, if you still want to talk via chat, you can send me the invite.
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so, i have decided that no, i'm not overly fond of san diego. perhaps it's the lack of time to explore but i have found myself quite bored. i love my housemates, as odd as the situation is, but miss the constant activity of living in los angeles. my plan for moving out of state are on hold until this summer, hopefully no longer than that. and until then i'm looking for someone to show me why this town is awsome. so, if you live in san diego and are part of the bdsm or goth/industrial scene please drop me a line. playmates and clubbing friends are both welcome.
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so seattle seems to be on hold for a few months anyway. but i have finnally gotten out of the blandness that is orange county. san diego is my new home for now. who knows, i might decide i like it here.
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so, i'm moving in three months. officially. los angeles to seattle on basically a whim. but good things can often start that way. might be going alone, might not be. i'm refusing to count that chick as hatched until i get out of the car in washington. hoping for not. but if you're in the area and would like to show a girl around, send me a line. |
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ah 25. wow my birthday rocked. i dressed up as a zombie and went shambling along hollywood boulevard with about two hundered other freaks and wierdos. happy birthday me. |
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UNDERSTAND! NO OUT OF STATE, OUT OF COUNTRY OR FOR THAT MATTER OUT OF THE GREATER LOS ANGELES AREA APPLICANTS WILL BE CONSIDERED. PERIOD. |
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i wrote this a few weeks ago in responce to someone wanting to "know more." and it was just too good not to share. thanks christina for inspiering me.
i got into "the scene" just over a year ago, and i'm compleatly in love with all of it. while i'm an s/m switch with very mild service leanings, i'm really more domme than much else. i just started back to school with an eye toward becoming a coustume historian. basically, i just want to play with really old clothes and restore them and put them on display in lexan boxes. nearly everything victorian facinates me. i love caramel more than i love chocolate. and i'll take black currant jam over strawberry any day of the week...and twice on sundays. i spent my summer vacation in ireland and scottland (with my mom and kid sister), and have this newfound lust for edinburgh. i prefer dogs to cats, but can't have them in my appartment. i'm getting kittens in a few weeks. and chances are if it's made of leather, rubber, or velvet i'm going to want at least one.
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i don't understand people who tag me as a favorite user, but then never write to me. if you like me enough to moniter me, then you should like me enough to at least say hello. i'm not that scary. really. |
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hello everyone! well, i'm leaving for ireland on monday and won't be back until august. so write me, i welcome that, but don't get upset if you don't hear from me until august. |
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someone here asked me what my deal breakers were. since then i've had that question put to me a few more times, so here is a reprint.
"deal breakers? purple monkeys flying out your rectum would have to be one. but moreover, for me, the biggest deal breaker is respect...or lack there of. you (and here i use a general you) have to respect yourself, your mind, and your body. it's all well and good to say, i want to be used and abused and degraded, and................but when it comes down to it, i don't want a person who has an inferiority complex. if you think you deserve to be degraded because in your mind you are scum, you need a therapist and not a dom/me. and you have to respect me. i am not the living embodiment of your fantasy life. i am not an automiton who is going to do to you everything you've ever dreamed of. i'm going to do what i want, because you belong to me. and if those two wants mesh and coinside, then all the better. and you have to respect my guy, because disrepecting him is the same as disrespecting me. power plays and head games will not be tollerated." |
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has anyone noticed the multitude of subs/slave who have all kinds of information in thier profile about how amazing they are and how much training they have? is it a badge of honor or some kind of desparate attempt to stand out. i personally am uninterested in all the things your former master/mistress trained you to do. i'm interested in the person behind the profile. i want to see you, not your training. and frankly that's all that seems to be in the profiles i'm seeing lately. and what's with the laundry list of wants and demands on the top/master/mistress? yeah, it's a good idea to know what one wants, but it strikes me as a bit of topping from below to demand that any top who approches be x,y,z and a bag of chips.
but maybe i'm just frusterated. |
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new picture just added of me and Sir. i think it's a sucky pic of me, but a great one of Him. He's the "bad man" you'll have to play nice with when we play together. |
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more rain...YEAY!!!!!!!!!? i know everyone in LA hates it when this happens, but i happen to disagree.? i'm also very happy because i recently got an e-mail from a potential.? and while i'm not going to disclose his name or the contents of his message, i just have to give him some praise for writing one of the best intro letters i have ever read.? he was articulate, and polite.? he talked about things in my profile, and responded to them.? he asked me inteligent questions.? he told me relevent things about himself (in that they were in a similar vein to things in my profile) while refraining from blathering on about his kinks and what he wanted me to do for/to him.? so ladies (and gents) if you were wondering if they exist.? i'm telling you, they do. |
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the compter died. i'm very mad. especially since all my corset pics were on there, and i don't seem to be able to retrive them. so i only have the few of me in my corset. but i have a few potential clients, so maybe i'll have some new pieces made soon and i can post more pics. |
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22 February 2005
woohoo!!!!! got some pics of one of my corsets up. finnally. starting work on a web page to up load more to, but it's slow going for the now. hoping to get my site and Sir's up and running soon so we can show off all the pretty things we make.
beyond that, just enjoying the rainny weather. probably the only one in LA who is, but whatever. |
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7 february 2005
so far, i'm liking my new kinky home. everyone's been really nice, and i haven't gotten any hng e-mails yet. makes me think people actually read profiles round here. yeay!!!!! of course, now that i've said something, my in box is going to fill up with stupid "KNEEL B***CH. I AM YOUR TRUE DOM AND MASTER AND YOU WILL OBEY ME. NOW WRITE ME AND TELL ME HOW YOU WILL WORSHIP ME AND DO MY BIDDING IN ALL THINGS." or some such drivle. ahhh well. such is the net. |
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25 January 2005
so here i am. looking. hoping for a good catch, and some good friends. i'm sure i'll get far more of the latter. and i'm ok with that. |
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