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filthybear

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While I've been kinky all of my life, I'm new to the BDSM scene.  I seek an older man to play with who is open-minded to safe and sensual exploration.

I'm finding as I explore BDSM activities, there are some things that I enjoy doing as a top (flogging) and some things I enjoy as a bottom (heavy bondage). There are things I want to explore (wax play, mummification) and things I know very well (I love getting messy - mud, food, paint, raunchy play).

I tend to be more dominant, even when I'm in the bottom role in an activity.

I do have a partner, but he isn't sexually active, so we have opened things up for play.