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I am a firm but fair Master who seeks a slave for a 24/7 live in poly situation with my lovely slave, janus1966. (O/our couple profile is fidesandjanus) I am an intelligent, articulate Master who possesses a good sense of humour and an appreciation for sports and the outdoors. I enjoy both the physical and psychological aspects of BDSM and am always seeking new ways to train and encourage the growth of my slave.

I am looking for someone that comes to Me with an open mind and an adventurous spirit. A woman with intelligence, the ability to laugh and a passion to serve. Someone who is interested in growing in her submission, taking it to heights she never imagined possible and always being challenged and used for My pleasure. I am also interested in developing My slave as a person, allowing her to mature and grow into a strong and confident woman.


If My vision describes you and you are serious about making the leap to explore your inner self and reap the benefits of being owned by a Master who will return your servitude tenfold, then let’s get to know one another. The journey begins here and now.


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5/1/2011 1:37:30 PM

Well wonders never cease, just when you think this is a waste of time someone surprises you and you begin to think that there is a chance of finding what is you seek. here's to hoping against hope...wish us luck!

4/16/2011 3:56:50 AM

Taking some vacation and heading to London and Germany today, for 2 weeks

10/28/2010 5:51:02 AM

Pet peeve #1:

Having your email deleted unread! How much effort does it take to click on an email and give it a quick perusal?! It is a piss off when you take the time to email someone and they then DELETE UNREAD! I get that many subs on here, especially new ones, get inundated with email but be more clear in your profile about what it is you seek. I always read over a profile before I email someone to see if we sound like we have something in common. Maybe it is a sign that I am  getting old, but common courtesy is sadly lacking today, especially online.

Pet peeve #2:

Reading profiles of other Dom(mes) where they denigrate anyone and everyone except themselves. Who's love of the mirror in front of themselves is blatantly obvious. Why is narcissism held out as a virtue with these people?!  What is with that and do subs actually find that attractive? Maybe that is my problem, I am not enough of a self involved, egotistical prick!

 

Sorry for venting but I felt the need and to all those people out there, Dom or sub, that do feel the same way. Keep the faith! I know I am trying...

7/20/2010 4:57:43 AM
A true slave or submissive is not a puppet being guided by her master strings , she has free will and a thirst for knowledge. What I as Master must do is bring to the surface what is already within her, the bending of her will through her own labour, because ultimately it is coming from her. The starting point is her personality, her self esteem, her belief in herself, her strength. It's when she passes through all the mental, spiritual, emotional and physical trials designed by her Master and executed of her own will that makes her submission the ultimate experience for both her and her Master. When she gets through an experience, doing something she couldn't have imagined doing before, submitting more, giving up more, evolving more, placing her trust completely in the hands of her Master, that is what every Master strives for in all it's perfect and natural purity.