femalehazeleyes

Well after my last journal I recieved a lot of emails from people feeling bad for me that I run into so many "fakes"  I really hate that word.  With the exception of men beating their women, hurting them in a way that the women does not like, or Dommes that are only dominant when there is money involved; I do not believe there is any such thing as "fake"

So many of us seem to use fake just as a way to say "we don't fit."  Please anyone reading this that has ever said "there are too many fakes" email me and tell me what you think is fake?

Some call people fake because they have limits, some call people fake because they are not 24 7, others are fake because they do not show you their cam, or they don't get naked on cam, or they don't voice cyber, or a submissive does not automatically obey every word of a stranger.  The fake dominants are even harder to list.  Any dominant that does not totally match every view and interest of another dominant then that person will call the other fake?  Or submissive that "top from the bottom?"  sure it might not be what your looking for, but this site is about finding people that we enjoy, if you don't want someone that tops from the bottom than say goodluck to that person and move on.

That does not make anyone fake.  There are tons of people that I would not fit well with, but that does not make them fake to me, it just means I keep looking and wish them the best of luck.

You know what is always funny to me.  There is not many things I am not interested in, but there are a couple.  But sometimes I don't believe people listen.  Let me give you an example...

Him "do you like age play, like being a mommy to a baby" 

Me "no thats not something that I get any satifcation from, sorry"

Him "Would you ever consider being a mommy to a abdl?"

And this happens pretty much every time I talk to someone submissve that asks if I like something that I do not.  What is the point of asking the first question?  Hey read the jounal bellow this, see!!! another proof to that point.  lol

I thought submissive means you wanted to please, I guess I was wrong.

Okay.   So sorry I am going to rant.  I have come to find out that there is just a tiny window of both submissives and dominants that I like.  Here is what I learned.

Submissive men-  Normally they are more demanding and more set in their ways then those men who say they are dominant.  Most of the time I am more submissive with submissive men (trying over and over to keep them entertained and happy)  I am not really into the "girly submissives"  I don't want to turn them into a girl.  I like the idea of having a "big strong man" and have him obey me.

Dominant men-  It really seems like so many of them are afraid of women.  That the only reason they say they are dominant is because they are so afraid of women they need a shy quiet girl that will never speak her mind to be able to have a relationship with her.

I am not saying there is anything wrong with these types of people.  I am friends with many.  But as far as looking for a relationship goes it's frustrating.

Sorry this is not kinky, but I still want to say it.  You know how there is game shows where famous people try to earn money for charity.  Well there are tons of famous people that are broke now.  I would love to see a game show with famous people that lost all their money trying to win money for themselves.  One of those crazy game shows too.  Like Wipeout.

i just started coming here. It does not seem that bad, i feel bad though, because i dont know what i want and people here are very serious and already know what they want and expect the same from me. That might be a good thing, i am not sure yet.