I am an attentive and compassionate man who is rather patient. I believe the dominant can not and should not always demand and take without giving back, for the submissive, slave must trust and know, feel that she is appreciated on some level or she will never serve to the fullest capacity.

The softer side is balanced, augmented by the side that is strict, stern, some what sadistic. I am seeking one for a long term or permanent, preferably permanent relationship