Exorduim

Agreeing that this lifestyle is not for everyone; certainly it is not for the individual who believes that it can encompass an entire existence to the exclusion of all else.

I love to be pampered and submissive's are supposed to Pamper us, right? Then how come a real service submissive is so difficult to find?

How come they never do EXACTLY what you want?

Why can't the sub make a decent cup of coffee/Tea?

Not knowing what to say, are when it’s the right time to say it “don't overcooking eggs? Or wash clothes the very simple things, folding clothes putting them correctly not knowing what I want.

Being willing to learn and from me to show her what I want from her. Demonstrating training in proper protocol. Learning to remember my likes and dislikes. I'm always willing to listen to you when the time is right. worst of all or secrets, telling the truth. submissive's lies are unacceptable to train and learn, how to do things like serving at a formal ladies' tea. knowing how to Spoil the Dominant and realize that there are many rewards in specialized training in personal service. free to admits her needs to spend more time training and understanding personal slave duties, in formal protocol, getting her to make coffee/tea for I and my guest taste. Or Offering herself as a platter and making herself decorative...."In ways to be amused me with her feminine beauty grace and style. When told to drop everything thing, go to bed. Willing to except words are statements from me at any time knowing that the gift of her and her body is highly respected saying(Get over there and I'll chain your ankles) and not getting frustrated of the times when things don't go her way, but understanding that life is D/s not all about ropes to gags and just standing still waiting for the next command. Not to forget prudence and being feminine. "I don't want to sleep with you, and how would you respond to that? What you'll be thinking all the time. And being able and comfortable to speak at the right time having the respect for the knowledge I have to share statement like." "Get on that bed." "offering to be chain on the floor for the night; I expect that's where I belong "SIR"...and not feeling somewhat ridiculous because somewhere in the back of your mine something pops up and remind you of what you may have been taught before as a child M/s is not what you were before but what you will be for I and yourself ” saying to yourself well done I've done my best to please Sir” understanding that there is a time and place for everything, as a slave says "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" every time. There are some things we always do, and some things we do only when we are able. But even in the absence of certain conditions, we remain fully aware of whom the Master is and who is the slave or that slavery should not be a "first step" into the world of BDSM. It is only through the course of time that a Dominant or a submissive becomes capable of integrating the special needs of a full time relationship into an everyday life. It is the rare individual who can sustain this kind of lifestyle as a beginning step. In fact, I've have never met anyone who claims to have done so.

What I want you find here is what I think will work for you and I, based on my experience. Not because I believe any one thing to be true for everyone.