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About EveryBodyPays

Ultimately, everybody pays. Every relationship, every orgasm. You give your time, your life-energy, your being. Both ways, too.

How much will you invest in this fine quality of life?


 

I have been spending some time looking at Dom profiles; I have a former who needs placement, and I've been sort-of checking out what her options might be.  

 

Let me say this about that:  Are you people crazy???  I mean, really, here's a prototypical example of what I've seen.  "I seek a slave with no limits to cook, clean, and provide sexual service.  You will have no choices, no money, and you will do what you're told, when, and how, only."

 

First, are you people crazy???  

 

Secondly, any girl who would truly seek that is seriously damaged, and in need of deep counselling and not your deviations.

 

Thirdly, what planet are you from?  Do you honestly think that this sort of thing appeals to any women of substance?  Have you any idea of what ownership means, how it works, or the dynamics of the D/s relationship.  Does the term power-exchange mean anything to you?

 

Fourthly, if this sort of stand-and-deliver slave, who blindly does your bidding without any energetic considerations magically existed, don't you think you'd be bored to tears within hours?  Really...think this one through guys.

 

Listen up fellas:  Ownership is NOT like that, it's not easy (nor is it cheap!).  This stuff is, necessarily a symbiosis, a back and forth, to and fro, give and take thing.  It is not, ever, so one-sided as you (all) seem to think, at least in your profiles.  That doesn't mean that a slave/sub should/can/does not derive her pleasures from yours in oh-so-delicious ways, but it does mean  that you get out of it what you put into it, like pretty much everything else in life.

 

No wonder the women here are so skittish....get a clue boys, or you'll remain chaste for the rest of your deviant days.

 

'nuff said.

 

 

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