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Evenflow

Male Dominant, 39, Warsaw, NC, North Carolina
Male Submissive, 33, Pleasant Hill, California
Male Switch, 39, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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It amazes me the level of maturity that "Dominants" seem to posses.

Has the realization that a submissive is only a submissives to the one she decides to give that gift to not dawned on them?

Because someone says they are submissive, doesn't mean you've earned the right to treat them like dirt. They have a precious gift to offer and you need to earn that gift. Then, and only then, have you earned the right to treat them as a slut, slave, pet.

Treating someone with respect doesn't take away your "Dominance" it shows that you really have concern for that person and that their well being is in your mind. It shows that you are ready to earn that gift.

Don't just send an e-mail to a submissive telling him/her you demand their instant subservience and blind obedience, calling them every filthy name you can think of and expect to earn any respect.

Just my two cents, flame away.
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