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About EndingConfusion
Hello and Welcome!Im a pretty straightforward, straight-shooting kinda guy. So to start things off here Im going to lay down some ground rules so youll know where you stand, exactly what to expect and exactly what to do next. (If I were a submissive woman I would appreciate that.)First, Im writing this profile so you can contact me if you think we may be a match. I wont be contacting you from reading your profile. It is my opinion that for a dominant man to contact a submissive woman, basically saying, please consider me, then that just starts things off on the wrong foot altogether. I think well be off to a much better start ifwhen you decide of your own free will to contact me. As you read below, you will find specific instruction that will tell you what to say when you respond to me.Im probably not nearby you but to the right woman that will make little difference. If I say we go live on a sailboat in the Caribbean, we go live on a sailboat in the Caribbean. If I say we go live in an igloo in Alaska, we go live in an igloo in Alaska. In whatever surroundings you find yourself I expect your complete and total devotion. So, it doesnt really matter where we live at this moment in our lives. Yes, this is a test.When you contact me, I would like you to include the phrase, My purpose in contacting you is and I would like you to finish that phrase sentence thought. Yes, this is another test.Second, as far as a relationship with a mate wife slave submissive is concerned, Im all about dominance. You should be all about submission. You must desire a 247, TPE lifestyle structure relationship. The relationship you seek must be the most important thing in your life. Most of us have children andor careers andor other family. We all have responsibilities, hopes, dreams, desires and other of lifes complications. But! When you are part of the kind of relationship I demand, all those things become a part of that relationship. There is no conflict! Ds is not something I keep in a closet to be brought out for playtime. Ds has permeated my life. Ds is a part of my very soul and being and part of everything I do. You must want that to rule your life.When required by what is best for the relationship, we change careers, we relocate, we travel, we do what is best for the kids in the present with an eye to what will be possible as they grow older and become more self sufficient. At all times my focus remains on the relationship and the relationship is inseparable from Ds. You must want this to rule your life.I am financially secure. If you are destitute, that is no problem. If you are wealthy, I couldnt care less unless youve let it go to your head (which I wont put up with for one instant). If youre in between, it is a nonissue. The issue is, do you need to be in a complete and total Ds relationship?I have a life. Im sure you do too, for that matter. Neither of us is without baggage. Together, and under my guiding hand, we will organize, structure and otherwise deal with your life baggage. You will embrace my baggage. You will become part of my life. Of course you will change my life. But more so, I will change your life and you will glory in making those adjustments, whatever they may be, in order to be with me, serve me and become my property.You should not contact me if you do not understand or if you disagree with what Im saying here. Yes, this is a test.Feeling secure, feeling loved, feeling controlled, instructed and taught and so on must be the primary internal drive and dynamic of your personality. Having love, service and surrender to give in immeasurable quantities must be the offerings you have to place at my feet.The woman for whom I write this profile will understand and embrace that her submission is what she needs to make her happy, whole and fulfilled. Being in the type of relationship I describe will reinforce for her every day that she is loved, wanted and cherished. The woman for whom I write this profile will understand the hand-in-glove symbiotic nature of a Ds, Ms, Ownerproperty relationship. If you think submission is some sort of gift, then you probably do not understand the concepts Im describing in this paragraph. Yes! This is a test.Third, you are going to have to be a very, very special person to pass my tests and become my property. In our society a woman who feels an internal drive to be held as property, to be completely under the control of her owner usually ends up living her life with that passion unfulfilled. Virtually all our societys teaching will guide her away from her instinct. Indeed, she will be taught by society that the only way to self-worth is through her exercising full control over herself. Paradoxically, she submits to societys control when she allows these destructive theories to rule her life.Likewise, it is only through rejection of societys destructive teachings and through embracing her own internal drive to submit that she is truly what society says it wants her to be, i.e., free. It is only through this process of being true to herself that she actually is independent, self-reliant and equal to find her own happiness in her own way. Is it any wonder if she ends up unhappy with her life and relationships when she follows societys demands to reject her submission and her longing for control?The woman for me will be intelligent enough to see through this smoke-and-mirrors charade. And she will be strong enough to reject these self-contradictory, destructive, Victorian values. If you are the woman for me you will understand that like the lioness you must deal with the rest of the world on the basis of survival of the fittest, most aggressive and most competent. And like the lioness to her mate you will crawl to me, lick my feet and offer up all of yourself to my benefit and pleasure. Like the lioness, you will understand there is no conflict or confusion in the difference between the way you deal with the rest of the world and the way you respond to me. If you feel the need to write in your profile something like all correspondence and decisions must be approved by my mentor then you are not showing me the individual strength and resourcefulness of the lioness I describe above. And, you are probably not a good match for me. Similarly, if you feel the need to write within your profile I am no doormat, then you are not showing me that you understand the lioness ability to lead the hunt one minute and in the next moment crawl in subjugation to her mate. And, you are probably not the woman for me. Of course, this is a test.Do not contact me saying, I am poly and demand a poly freedom. Do not contact me saying, I am monogamous and will not share my master. Do not contact me saying, I want to be forced to service all your friends. Do not contact me saying, I must never be shared. Do not contact me saying, I must be whipped, or, I can not bear being whipped. As time goes on, I will be quite(!) interested in your desires, fantasies, inhibitions and so on. I will want to know your deepest, darkest, wildest thoughts, feelings, dreams and fears. But I have no patience with you telling me what will and will not be allowed, or what will or will not be done.It is my observation that in the vast majority of cases in which a woman submissive accuses a man of dishonesty, her accusation will be somehow related to sex. He had an affair. He had a fling. He had a one-night-stand. He played with someone else. He was married. And so on, into infinity. If you read and understood the paragraph above, then you should be able to understand that I dowill have absolutely no reason to lie to you. I am not going to allow you to tell me what I may and may not do. I am going to be the one who dictates your actions, not the reverse. Once you understand the preceding three sentences, then you should be able to understand that I have no need to deceive you. Think about it! I do not lie. I can say that because I am very vigilant about not allow |
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