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emaraldbond

Curious and inexperienced looking to learn more about the alternative lifestyle. Not really into s&m more D/s and b&d. I'm a romantic at heart and would like to chat/meet people who are able to romance me as I love to be treated like a lady but with the right person, a naughty kinky girl when playing;)... Most of my friends would say I have an easy-going, slightly querky personality (I like to tease and love to be teased;). I also have a dark side to me in that I don't suffer fools and I say what I think whether you like it or not... Due to that, some people who I've chatted to have suggested I'm more inclined to switch and to be honest I wouldn't rule it out, but the thought of someone having all the control really turns me on... I embrace new experiences/places and love to chat and meet new people (sometimes I chat too much ;) ) but can be reserved and quiet when the occasion calls.

In the bedroom, I tend to like traditional, straight and experimental sex and love my partners to be in control. I prefer one-on-one sex and I'm always willing to try something new. I'm not at all experienced in any physical sense, just staight sex, but would be interested in exploring anything further within agree limits (not into blood, skat, toilet games, severe pain, kids) etc...

My Ideal Person:
A single/separated (I wouldn't like it if my partner was sexual online and I didn't know about it) dominant male who can guide and lead whom I can explore my/his fantasies further with. Hopefully someone whom I can trust wholeheartedly, form a strong friendship and be compatable with on all, well most levels... I'm not expecting to meet prince charming but the closer to it the better for me (and him;)...

I'm attracted to assertive, generous, respectful men with a good sense of humour and not afraid to be spontaneous but who can 'take control' as I'm a bit of a challenge to control due to my fun nature. ;) That doesn't mean I'm like that all the time as I do have a serious side to me and can engage in many different conversations / situations...

I would prefer to get to know a person before exploring the lifestyle, to see if we're compatable on a 'vanilla' level as I'm not one for jumping in feet first. I'm not interested in 24/7 at the moment as I would like to keep an aspect of my life 'vanilla' due to me going into an 'unknown' world. I also think I'd be loosing out on life if everything revolved around 'play' as there is more to life and I see 'play' as an element of fun to enhance my lifestyle, not a lifestyle choice...

Allysexypants516
 
 Age: 37
 LONDON, United Kingdom