Ellakitten

I'm looking for a poly relationship with a couple in which we are an amazing triad ^^ Please read my (sorry, long) profile to learn more about what I seek and how we could get along! ^^ <3

Vanilla Life

First let me say that while my profile here is extremely well thought out and I put a lot of effort into it, IRL I'm a sarcastic little shit. Not bratty, but sassy. I love joking around and generally just having fun!

Hello! My name's Ella ^^ In my vanilla life I am a portrait photographer, model, editor, and gamer. I love LoL, WoW as well as well made FPS games. I love cooking and learning how to make new things to eat, as well as going to nice restaurants. My favorite games include Pathfinders/DnD, League of Legends, Diablo III, and Kingdom Hearts :3

In my down time I enjoy biking, hiking, swimming, horseback riding, watching netflix, drawing, going to Dave and Busters, gaming, and going to the beach after lathering on pounds of sunscreen- I burn, not tan. :(

Something interesting about myself that is both good and bad. I'm an HSP: A highly sensitive person- http://hsperson.com/. This means a few things: any BDSM play is doubly effective on myself as it is on a normal person. It also means my taste buds and sense of hearing, touch, and sight are very hyperactive and refined. It means I feel emotions more deeply and quickly than others. But is also means I'm very sensitive to bad things too. Loud noises, clutter, crowds, anything 'busy', mistakes, violent movies.... these and other things can set me off in a bad way, giving me anxiety and stress. After long days out, or even just a simple few minute long walk through a mall or city I get very anxious and I need to detox with a stupid comedy or something simple at home.

As far as my personality goes, I'm an ENFJ ^^ Read more about it here:
https://www.personalitypage.com/ENFJ.html

Ideal Relationship and Partner

First I'd like to say that my ideal relationship is a poly triad with one male and one female, a girlfriend and a boyfriend, a Dom and either sister sub or domme.

My ideal partner(s) is someone who likes gaming, animals, and friendship! I want to be able to hang out with your friends you to hang out with mine, and make glorious friendship circles everywhere :)

My ideal partner is someone who is over the age of 21, but under 40. Sorry, I'm not into someone who could actually be my parent lol.. neither do I like the term 'daddy' or 'mommy', but I DO like daddy dom/mommy dom types. I think my ideal is someone who is a daddy dom type but likes being called 'Sir' instead of 'Daddy'.

I would love to be with someone who enjoys Pathfinders/DnD, League of Legends, WoW, and other roleplaying games be it tabletop or console :)

You MUST love dogs, as I really want one in the future, and riding horses is a bonus but obviously not required haha.

Things that are immediate no's for me:
If you have kids/want kids- I will not have children. I very much dislike kids
If you do hard drugs (420 ok)
If you are under 21 (I wanna be able to drink with you lol), or over 40.
If you are possessive/jealous of your sub/gf. I want a poly relationship and theres no room for jealousy there.
Non-local: I'm not moving, sorry, but I have a life and career here :)
Poor Hygiene: If you don't brush at least twice a day, and shower once every other day, we can't be together. Thats gross. :/
Lazy people: I'm a sub, not your mother. I don't want to come over to your house just to clean your room and blow you then leave... D/s is a two way street, and I'm not in it just to play maid because you can't pick up your clothes/trash...

Things that are immediate interests for me:
People with animals
People who love gaming
People interested in art of any kind
Anime Nerds!
Foodies
Sushi lovers!

Kink Life

I'm not very experienced at all so right now I'm open to explore a lot of things. Please take a look at my fetish list if you're interested in learning more about what I'm curious about, or we can talk about it together. ^^

In general though, I like feeling inferior and like 'prey'. I enjoy rope, being spanked, being forced to cum, choking, and wearing collars and such. The idea of vampires or other predator type people turn me on, and I absolutely love being bitten <3

My ideal is one of those 'I'll fucking destroy you in the bedroom, but I'm still your protector' relationships. Someone who knows that I like it rough in bed but want affection and love outside of the bedroom. I like being sassy (not bratty), so someone who can vibe with me there and be just as playful outside the bedroom would be great.

Hard Limits and shit I don't like

Shit I don't like

• Religion


• Being called 'bitch' outside of the bedroom


• When people immediately assume they can call me theirs, or derogatory pet names before getting to know me


• Consent being ignored


• Spiders


• Caramel and Whipped cream

Hard Limits

• Needles: ptsd towards them


• Forced Impregnation/Birth Control Removal: I dont EVER want children. This is non-negotiable.


• Scat, Puke, Piss, any involvement of these


• Anything involving dead people, children, animals, or family relatives


• Speech Restrictions


• Straight Jackets


• Gas Masks


• Heavy Humiliation


• Saran wrap

• Im sure there will be more as I discover more stuff