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Male Submissive, 49, Rogers City, Michigan
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Submissive Couple, 27
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Dominant Couple, 36
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About Ellipsis
I define myself as a submissive first and foremostly; the mental D/s power dynamic is what I crave.
Bondage comes next in the equation, tied with S&M. Sex comes in after that. Fetish comes in dead last (it's nice if the other things are taken care of first).
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Before I go on, this bears mentioning...I'M A BIG GIRL (i.e. fat chick), so if that wigs you out, now is the time to hit the exit door, mmkay?
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To summarize, I'm looking for the following, in this order:
1) Meaningful D/s (mental play/interactions).
2) Bondage & S/M play.
3) Sexual play.
4) Fetish play.
I'm not here for casual sex. If that's your primary goal, don't bother emailing me. Really. I need something much deeper than a fling with someone I don't know very well.
I hail from the DS part of the BDSM acronym. For me, the bondage and sadomasochism parts, while definitely nice, are truly peripheral; I feel that both fall utterly flat if the D/s dynamic is missing. The brain is the body's true erogenous zone, and to date, my deepest trips to subspace were all triggered by purely mental, non-sexual D/s interactions. In my humble opinion, the best kind of dom is the one who can make you feel like you've just had the fucking of a lifetime without his even laying a hand (or any other body part) on you. :D
Ultimately, though, the flesh demands attention also, and complains loudly if the brain gets all the fun (after all, the body overhears all the fun stuff going on up there, like a lonely apartment tenant listening to the upstairs neighbors fuck like crazed weasels on their squeaky bed)...sooo, my "DomQuest" has commenced. ;) Being a shy sort, I don't approach things like this lightly or casually, so I expect it'll take me a bit longer than those brave folk who can go from "Hi!" to a hotel room in 2.5 minutes, but I don't mind so much. They say patience is a virtue, after all, right?
Good BDSM is physical. Transcendant BDSM is mental. I wanna mash 'em together now to see what I get.
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