Collarspace.com

I'm adding a little text to this since nearly every message I get starts with "your profile doesn't say much". Sorry. I guess I assume the likelihood of meeting someone I actually want to be with on this site is pretty slim. Why am I even here? I have had a lot of vanilla dates knowing I won't be interested in them romantically. I wish it were that easy, but I can't force myself to be interested in someone just because they're sweet. I'd like to find a long term, monogamous partner who has a life outside of the sexual realm. I'm not looking for someone extremely sadistic. I like some pain, but some of the things people tell me on this site scare me. I don't have a long list of demands from a partner. I would like to find someone reasonably healthy who is interested in being friends as well as lovers. I really need you to be intelligent. I have a hard time thinking I could be attracted to someone if they don't understand what I'm saying. I will send a photo if you ask. I just don't want to post one.
hellena
 
 Age: 37
 Upland, California