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Male Submissive, 33, Sterling, Virginia
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About EligibleOwner
Im an intelligent, educated man in London - and Im seriously perverted. Im looking for a serious relationship based on 247 dominance and submission. I want to feel that I own my wife and I want to dominate and control her completely. Im happy to meet any woman who whod like to be owned.
Im more interested in the intensity of dominance and in expressing my power and leadership than I am in sex, which is something I enjoy, but can live without. Id rather be single all my life, so I could devote myself to my work, than to be in an unfulfilling relationship - and Ive found vanilla relationships and even moderately kinky ones are unfulfilling for me. I need more control than that. So Im not suited to being in a relationship with the average woman. I have a lot to offer, though, to a very unusual and special woman. If you need a man to discipline and control you, if you feel a need to serve, to be owned or to be a slave, then you could do worse than to be owned by me.
I dont mind whether you think of yourself as submissive, or as a slave, or simply as wanting to be a traditional wife. I think terminology can be a trap in this business, and is often less rather than more helpful. Whats important is that the detail of life with me appeals to you. In some ways what I need is extreme, in others its less so.
A relationship or marriage with me will be a 247 thing. Im realistic enough to know that the authority I want will take time to establish. Im intending to make you mine, and dont expect you on a plate. But you need to know now where my sights are set.
Itll be important for me to dominate you in every aspect of your life, far beyond the bedroom. Ill decide how you dress, what and when you eat and drink, and when you go to the toilet. Youll be under control all the time, with rules and restrictions all around you. Youll also receive a lot of instructions, and will be expected to obey them. Youll be inspected and monitored, and regularly appraised. If you displease me you can expect to be punished, either with my hand or, if its more serious, with a belt, strap or cane.
I dont go to fetish clubs, and youd have no latex outfits. Your appearance would be very normal. Nor would life with me involve dungeons or torture, or anything like that. You would sometimes be confined in a small space and tightly restrained - but you should imagine something real and domestic. Im not interested in role-play or fantasy. You would not be shared to any extent, ever. Youd be mine.
Im deeply interested in sexual dimorphism, both physical and psychological. That doesnt mean I think all women are essentially the same or that I understand them all. Thatd be beyond any man, I suspect. Nor does it mean I think all women should behave in particular ways. What it does mean is that, although Im far from being a stereotypically blokeish man, I am very aware of my own masculinity, and of my need to be with a feminine partner. So Ill wear the trousers in every sense. If leg-shaving, makeup and womens magazines are anathema to you, then were probably not meant to be.
Finally, over time Ill expect you to put your pride to one side, along with most of your limits. Youll have duties in the toilet as well as in the kitchen, lounge and bedroom, and Ill expect you to learn to fulfil them well.
Oh, no - the real finally is about sex. I mentioned it earlier, and just want to reassure you that therell be no shortage of it, if the relationship works in other ways. Im quite firm and demanding about sex. I like to be different and unusual, but I have to admit that my sexual needs and desires are pretty much what you might expect from someone who calls himself dominant.
More about me. Im firm and decisive, I have a reasonable level of experience in dominating women, punishing them and so on - I have all the dominant instincts youre looking for in a man, and a fair amount of the skills and experience you need from him, too. Im also very stable and sensible, apparently normal and in control of my own life I am not lost, addicted or afflicted by misogyny or anger. I admit, absolutely, that love and sex, power and dominance, my pleasure and my partners pain, humiliation and even degradation are all mixed up in my mind in a heady brew. But what is not mixed up in there is any sort of rage, hatred, frustration about my own life, or lack of respect for women.
Im clever, funny, literate and creative, Im a natural teacher and leader, and I have no difficulty attracting women. I have a need to take a woman deep into submission - and to go to places few men and women imagine. I am patient, too, though, have a decent EQ as well as IQ and am not the sort of dullard whose whole life is BDSM. For all these reasons I really think I am the sort of man a seriously twisted woman might hope to be owned by. I would take care of you, and would consider what was best for you - not just when with me, but your future too, if you asked at any point to be released. If you chose to be mine, Id want to be your Lord, your law and your life, permanently. But in any case, youd find Id remain your committed friend and strong supporter all your life. I would respect and value your service for ever.
Im not rich, though I am impressive and successful in my own way. If youre a very materialistic woman, Im probably not for you. If you admire a man whos different, too independent for ordinary sorts of success, and determined on his own path, then youll like me. Im not short but not all that tall either, so its best if youre average height or petite. Im reasonable looking and they say I have charisma.
To be clear about my needs, Im looking for a woman who
needs a highly intelligent owner or master
wants to serve him 247
aspires to obey unhesitatingly and without reservation
is prepared to accept strong discipline
wishes to be micromanaged and closely controlled and directed
aspires to be her owners urinal.
In my experience youre more likely to enjoy being with me if youre intelligent, passive, patient and quiet, capable of focus and concentration, and enjoy obedience and service. It helps if youre quite precise and a perfectionist, if you prefer decisions to be made for you, and if you have quite an orally-centred emotional life and sexuality. You may well enjoy self-improvement, and are the sort of person who responds positively to criticism.
In the past Ive had some girlfriends who are very shy, and who have had issues with anxiety, social phobia and depression - and I think Im good at giving a woman like that strong support. Im not specifically looking for someone with any of those issues, of course - but if you are like that, you neednt worry that youll freak me out.
I have no interest whatever in bragging to mates or to the world about the nature of my relationships with women. In public I appear vanilla and would like always to do so. Only a few ex-partners and old dates-turned friends (I have those too) know about my sexuality. I wont out you, and will protect your privacy as much as I can. I would never parade your submission for the titillation of others.
Theres a very good reason why I dont have a face photo on my profile. Youll see one soon if youre interested enough to want one, and if we intend to meet youll find me very open about who I am.
I am not bothered about your age (as long as youre over 18 and under, say, 70), your size, your race, how big your tits are or even where you are - what matters is that you want to be with a man like me. |
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