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Male Switch, 24, Zagreb
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Male Dominant, 40, Chicago, Illinois
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Male Dominant, 26, winchester, Virginia
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About Elessar
I am a 30 year old male, that is actively seeking a submissive. I am more of a DD. With that in mind I am generally seeking a female, granted I am bisexual. However, with the experiences I have had on here with male subs I will not entertain the idea of a male sub. Sissies and transgenders are welcome to approach, but they should be younger than me. Women of any age are welcome, I do have a fantasy of having a submissive mom figure.
Experience, I have been in and around BDSM for awhile, and my general philosophy is love and compassion first, discipline second, and play time is a definite last place.
Love and Compassion: Before any relationship can move forward there must be a vanilla connection, and I know many people tend to put the carriage before the horse and runs straight to play. This however, is not how DD's operate or at least they shouldn't. Compassion is integral, because both parties in any relationship come from different points in their lives and coupled with love makes for cornerstone of a relationship in any relationship.
Discipline: Clear expectations and standards are required before play, because they further facilitate trust building. Make no mistake about it trust between both parties is imperative to ensure neither party harmed when it comes to play. I say discipline here, because some aspects of DD/lg dynamic is worked in and this is done to further demonstrate expectations and standards that will be expected during play.
Play: Play for me means the relationship is in full swing and both parties are happy with the arrangement. There will be no 'play' in the relationship until both parties know each other well enough to move forward into more varied activities such as my 'interests' listed to the left.
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