ElEloheSterling

• Submissive woman AGED 18-30


• Woman with knowledge this will not be an overnight process.


• Pictures. If you do not send pictures, we will not even read your response. Pictures are not judged on looks, and chances are we won't even look at them at first, but it is a way to determine if you read this profile.


• Honesty. Read below for the reasons.


• Someone who is willing, if things go well, to relocate.


• Someone who realizes that we are both apartment managers, and if you join us you will be sharing in the responsibilities, or to aid the household by getting a job. All of us help in househould and you will be expected to aid in this. Laziness is not tolerated.

Our Relationship.

Maria

Master

“The only rules you have to remember are that I require respect, obedience, honesty and loyalty.”
“Treat me with respect. Never be sarcastic, manipulative, or unkind.”(Interpretation: The submissive partner should never be any of these things to the dominant; it shows a lack of trust.)
“Obey me. Whatever I direct you to do, I full expect you to do. If it is beyond your abilities I expect to see you struggling to succeed. It will be OK to ask for help but never question my right to give you a direction or the wisdom behind a direction. If you do not understand why I tell you to do something, just do it. The very compliance will enlighten you.” (Interpretation: Part of accepting a D/s relationship is allowing the Dominant partner to help the submissive, to make decisions in the relationships, and always test the relationship in various forms.)

“Honesty is desperately important to me. Don’t ever lie to me. Not even as a joke. Don’t hide behind omission or distortion.”(Interpretation: Back to the trust thing)
“Loyalty means you protect me and our reputation fiercely. You do not gossip. You do not place anyone’s needs before mine.”(Interpretation: Not neccarilly above the submissive’s own desires, but the submissive should realize and know that the Dominant desires are to fufill the submissive’s desires to the best of his/her ability, to make you a better person, to stretch that person into the best they can be.)
________ put down the hair brush and turned her to face him. “If you filter your anxieties through these four principles of respect, obedience, honesty, and loyalty. You will find that you will allay many of your fears.” _________ looked up into his eyes and nodded. (Interpretation: If these four principles are understood by the submissive, the normal struggles and discomfort in a relationship will disappear, the submissive will have their place and the dominant will have theirs.)
“I have rules I have to follow too.” (Interpretation: Dominants have more responsibility, due to the fact that the submissive is laying all the decisionmaking on the Dominant’s shoulders, s/he has to make the best decisions that he can.)
“I must treat you with the utmost respect. I will never ask you to submit to any experience that will degrade or humiliate you. It is my hope that every moment we share makes you feel stronger, more beautiful, prouder, and more capable.(Interpretation: While asserting his/her role as dominant, in normal relationship issues and in making decisions, the Dominant needs to keep the growth of the submissive in mind, that everything s/he does needs to make the submissive feel more capable, stronger, and surer. ANd a better person at that.)
“I must be obedient to myself. My role requires I always place your safety, desires, and discipline at the highest priority. This commitment is a responsibility that cannot be forgotten for even a second.” (Interpretation: While asserting his/her role as dominant, the dominant can’t let the power get to his head and disrespect the submissive, this can cause harm to the submissive’s psyche and well-being. Furthermore he can not punish the submissive in such a way that it causes permament, or dehabilitating physical injury. A dominant must also remember, that in agreeing to the D/s Relationship the submissive stated a desired to be punished for any transgressions, that punishment must be fair and consistent, or the development of the Sub can go wrong, and the Sub may find a more abusive partner, either physically or mentally to “punish” the submissive in a way that satisfies the submissive’s desires. )
“I will not ever lie to you.” (Interpretation: Selfexplanatory)
“Loyalty flows in my veins. As long as you are loyal to me, I will do nothing to betray you. (Interpretation: Selfexplanatory)
Your safety is also my responsibility. I have and obligation to protect you from physical and emotional injury. It is my duty to insure you are always safe. It is likely that at some point in your eagerness to submit you will wish for more than is safe for you. I must always be there to protect you, even from yourself.” (Interpretation: See above, refer to the punishment clause)