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ElegantlyKinky - Female Dominant, Philadelphia Pennsylvania | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About ElegantlyKinky

Mistress Zeneca's Next Events:

Every year Mistress Zeneca does 4-7 events per year.



'Cherry Noir' is a BDSM & Swingers play party held at the Saints and Sinners Swingers Club on a non-regular schedule. Truly an upscale and hip lounge environment, with an intimate vibe that encourages new experiences and meeting new people. Play publicly or in private. Party in a 6,000 sq. foot playspace. Cherry Noir is proof that Kinksters and Swingers can come together in harmony for one heck of a good party!


http://www.ElegantlyKinky.com - For Details and FAQ page.


'The Secret Lair' is a NEW venue from Mistress Zeneca. Enjoy nearly 4,000 sq. feet of play space with a Main Dungeon, a Concert area (or secondary dungeon space), Soda/Coffee Bar, and plenty of space to socialize with old friends and new. The Secret Lair is home to Mistress Zeneca's Biennial Villain's Ball.


http://ElegantlyKinky.com - Join the mailing list for email invitations and information.



Join our groups on Fetlife and Facebook to keep up with the news. We're not on this website very often at all.



Cherry Noir on Fetlife - https://fetlife.com/groups/83748

The Secret Lair on Fetlife - https://fetlife.com/groups/33268

https://fetlife.com/groups/33268
Cherry Noir on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/groups/entercherrynoir/
(It's a two-step process. Join here and then there will be invites to join the private group.)

One of the reasons I don't frequent this website is because of the terrible approaches that Submissives on this site email me with. I'M NOT GOING TO BE YOUR MISTRESS! Deal with it. It's never going to happen. Desperation is unattractive - very unattractive.

If you email me with something to the extent of "I want to serve you" - you're never going to. Seek me out as a friend, freind me on another very popular fetish social network of life (My name on there is ElegantlyKinky), and meet people in the scene at events - then possibly we can develop a nice and warm freindship that may lead to servitude later.

I value people who want to help me with my parties WITHOUT expectation of play, money, or my time. I value people who share my vision to bring marvelous events to the Philly area. I value people who truly want to be freinds and have thier own exciting lives that they can talk about. I value people who are self-accepting and trying to learn from other more experienced people in the scene. If you offer to pitch in and help me (and be serious about it), then you can get to know me. But the minute that the energy turns into "Hey, will you be my true Mistress" - you've lost me and I'll distance myself from you.

When I want a Submissive, I'll seek one out myself from the lists of people that I've come to trust and respect as individuals and helpers.

YOU DON'T NEED TO ASK ME TO BE A MISTRESS TO YOU - IF I WANT YOU, YOU WILL KNOW IT!!

 

 

Always looking for Submissives (Female, Male, Anyone in-between) to serve at the Philadelphia High Protocol Dinners and special events. Before anyone starts with the excuses allow me to stop them in their tracks. 

"I can't afford to get a ticket" - is NOT an acceptable answer.  

The admission to the dinner event for Subs is $40-50.  If you can't afford $40-50, then perhaps you have other skills that you would like to barter with. Are you crafty?  Maybe you'd find it fun to help me with party decorations and designing cool things with fake flowers and gold paint. Are you good with home decor? Are you great with computers? Are you a social butterfly and would love to earn your discount by promoting the event at other kinky events and munches?  If the answer to any of these is YES, or you have a skill that can be useful - LET ME KNOW.  I'm totally willing to give discounted tickets to those who are willing to put forth some time and effort to helping the party.  

"I'm not good enough / don't have the right training / never done this before / too nervous to serve." - is NOT an acceptable answer. 

Most of the Submissives participating in this event have never done this before. I offer complete training to get you up to speed. But don't worry! Even for the Submissive that just can't manage to remember when to Courtesy and when not to speak, will have a place at my event. Those that cannot seem to get the protocols right are still going to be useful as House Submissives. These are the ones that pour water, take baggage, clear tables, and plate food. If you are too nervous to attend to a Dominant guest for the whole night, you will be given duties that suit your skills. 

Fear should never be a reason to miss an opportunity to learn! 

Learning high protocol through this party will make you more valuable as a Submissive. You'll be learning what I call the "Art of Attentiveness." Every Dominant loves to be attended to. You will be learning how to do it!  I offer classes, one-on-one training sessions, and partnered couples training. Just a simple one hour class, and some at home practice, and you'll be serving with grace. 

"I'm scared because I don't have a partner / don't know who I'll be matched up with at the event" - is NOT an acceptable answer.

If you do not have a partner to serve, there's nothing to fear. All Submissives get my personal attention in training and in guidance every step of the way. Submissive females are protected and given the opportunity to review the profiles of attending Dominants a few days before the event so they have an informed opinion on who they may be serving during the dinner.

Submissive males (or any Submissive) who desires to serve a female Dominant may purchase a VIP Dominant pass as a donation. We have a list of Dominant females that would like to come but cannot afford to go. I do a bit of matchmaking before any high protocol event and pair a Domme on my list to the Submissive looking to serve a female. There is a whole process for this, so there's no need to worry!

"It's too far / I have no where to stay." - Maybe I'll accept that excuse.... maybe. 

If you do not have transportation, that could be an issue. BUT, as i'm advertising my parties from Toronto down to Miami - there are ways.  Megabus.com has buses into Philadelphia for CHEAP. Trains, planes, automobiles, and public transportation can get you from Point A to Point B.  Guests here in Philly may even host you, so you don't have to buy a hotel room. I personally will be opening my home to overnight guests (as long as they are promising to help me with party details). I know more people in and around the philly area who would be happy to give a couch to crash on or a ride from the train/bus station. Just ask for help and help will be there! 

SO - WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?   

http://www.Elegantlykinky.com

Thanks!

Mistress Zeneca

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