elegantcdgoddess

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Male Switch, 38, Singapore

Humiliation Humiliation is essential part of BDSM and personally, I like it, and use it often. But after so many similar requests, i am confused. I am not the screamer-domme. I dont go around measuring? penises, nor i get arroused by calling someone cum-eating-dirty-slut-whore. So many subs desire to be humiliated, humiliated by someone like me. And even they humbly admit that their ideas are original and new, you can simply put them into few groups. Not long ago i was approached by a sub, who wanted to be humiliated by wearing female underwear. Humiliated?!?! Well wearing lacy and silky underwear makes one feel like dirty slut, a whore. *looks over to her drawer hmm Frederics, Victoria's, La Perla.* Since i am the one wearing them does that makes me cheap whore? Just hoping next thing they will come up is that only sluts wear 4 inch fuck me heels. opss, here we go, making them wear 4 inch heels they feel very slutty. You mean, wearing heels like mine? will make you feel like a slut? because, only sluts wear shoes like mine? And those patent leather thigh highs are boots for hookers? interesting.... Meny desire to be humiliated by made to polish my shoes or boots. Humiliated? Is that so humiliating? To be allowed to clean the soft leather of my over the knee designer boots, imagining how divine i will look wearing them? polishing thigh high patent boots to the shine for a party? So humiliating, is that desire to make sure that the Domme looks impecable. For years i believed it was the honor, for someone to thankfully kiss my boots after deserved corective measures. Or at least they were happy to clean them so i can look great. But it seems to be humiliating to so many. Maybe next time i go shopping i will get two pairs of each heels and boots i find, so while sub cleans mine, he can feel humiliated, and since he will be wearing same ones, he will feel slutty, double humiliation. How huge is the ego of person who finds all this so humiliating? Do they actually believe that all the girls/ladies around in heels, from girls in their office to the ones in the clubs, are true sluts? just waiting for their 6 inches of pleasure? Do they believe that each time girl puts on a pair of lacy g-string, she wants some? While of course, they, have the mind, and matching outfit, that makes Pope jealous. I really need to refresh my memory of paralel universes from my quantum physics book. ...hypothetical....unproven theories.... Now, dont get me wrong, i actually really like humiliation? *gently slips her hand into pair of soft leather opera gloves*

Sexuality Someone asked me am i bi- or what, and i didnt know what to say. Is omni- an answer? I dont think that person is primary defined by its gender. Am i attracted to boys? or to girls? or to both?? I think right answer is none of above. I am attracted to person, his gender is not important. Size of someones penis, size of their breasts are not what attracts me to someone. It is their sick perverted mind. I have seen boys who look more erotic in heels than girls, and i have been with girls who are simply gorgeous in 3 piece suits. No matter how strange it might sound, but sex shouldnt be about gender, it is about person. So stop wondering am i interested in boys, or girls, wonder will i ever be interested in you.

LabelMe.com For years I believed that collarme is collection of people who are deviant of what is social norm for sexual behavior. Kinky perverts, or pervy kinksters. And the people who are little bit open minded about sex, and its lovely variations. But, even when you sign up for the collarme, you need to pick, pick your gender, pick your orientation, pick your position, pick a LABEL. And? that is not good enough, then we need to pick CD or TV or TS or TG, or whatever. Why? What is the purpose of slapping a label on someone? Reminded me of a party I attended years ago, Dom/mes had red band, subs blue. I guess to make it easier to mechanically approach someone "you domme, boots dirty, me lick?" It would be horrible crime to accidently approach someone of same interest, in closed private club party, and just introduce yourself, or spend few minutes getting to know that person. No, no, no, we shall go to hunt at once. Bring me my two-tone hunting boots, and my band. I need my boots shined. When it comes to labeling CD/TV/TS people tend to get really confused, and really anal about it. Seems like CD is TV-lite. Same orientation, half the work. Well dear kinksters, it is wrong. CDs and TVs are essentially the same. Tranvestite is person who cross-dresses. Person who cross-dresses is transvestite. (CD is also shiny round thing used to play music before iPod was inveted). So what am I? I am not TG, no, i know my gender and i intend to keep it. Well, i picked CD in my name. OR am i TV? Seems like 90% of boys in this category, are none of the above. They are simply Transvestic fetishists. Sorry boys, but if your penis grow as you slide on stockings, you are transvestic fetishist. Don't cry about it, it is still fun. You do not cross dress, you jerk off in stockings. And you love it. Excuse me for now, but i need to tattoo a bar-code on my arm for next party, barcode that reads ...

submission is a gift? really, should i be thrilled that someone so generously is giving me their fantasy? give me a break.

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