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Hello there... I have been here before, and I suppose I did not really know what to seek, or rather, I did, but was too afraid to find it. And so I am back, with slightly more realistic expectations, and more of a wilingness to pursue that which I can finaly admit to myself and others that I need. I am not looking for someone who is new to the lifestyle, who is under 35 (maybe 30, big maybe...) or who is simply looking for a woman to abuse. I am not skinny, and not ashamed of that. I am intelligent, and slightly spirited; kind-hearted, nurturing, and a bit of a smart ass. I am not looking for someone who wants to change me. I am looking for someone who wants a future with me, who will love me as much as I love him, and yet know how to keep me in my place. I DO need a firm hand. I do NOT need a cage, a dog dish, piercings, brandings, humiliation and extremism. I am more D/s than BDSM, though I also know a lot about Gor and am open to that as well. Do not expect me to cyber with you, cam for you, or have phone sex with you. I am looking for so much more than that. Do not expect me to submit to you at the snap of your fingers or the command of your voice, or to treat you as I would the one who owns me, if you do not in fact, own me. That is reserved, not for just anyone... but for just One.
trampamber
 
 Age: 23
 Rochester, New York