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Male Dominant, 40
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Male Submissive, 40, Oakland, California
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Male Dominant, 60, Santa Cruz, California
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About EastBayAlpha
Outside of the bedroom I'm a compassionate, perhaps even shy and innocent-looking gal, but in the bedroom is definitely where I stand out as dominant. ;) I'm inquisitive and decently educated (still being educated, in fact), and I truly value intelligent and curious people with a good sense of humor. But where to find men who are of this type and in my age range (26-40) - especially the single ones? I'm not much into the bar scene, and I'm not interested in wild partying. Hopefully the magic of the internet will allow me to connect with a guy with compatible kink... Ultimately I hope to end up in a ltr with someone kinky, and perhaps collarme can help me connect with someone worth my time, attention, and effort both inside the bedroom and out. :)
My kink, in particular, is my dominant bent. I love to ~sensually direct~ in the bedroom, and prefer that my partner be submissive and legitimately interested in pleasing me. A lot of the fun for me, though, is getting to know my partner and their turn-on's, and having the opportunity to be creative and controlling enough to not only make sure that my needs are satisfied, but also create an experience that is mutually satisfying. Most of my experience has been in gentle domination with a hint of corporal punishment, which I definitely enjoy. However, I'm open to exploring more, though it must -always- be safe play. (I do have some unquestionable limits: no scat, no blood, and no one can ever block my airway, ever.) That being said, I'm fairly open and non-judgmental, and I believe in partners meeting each other's needs, and hope to be with someone of the same mindset.
Importantly, I want a connection that extends beyond my sexual role. I'm not just your mistress, I'm a person; you're not just my personal sex toy, you are a person too. I want a connection and mutual respect with another person, not just fulfilling fantasy roles. This means that I simply won't respond to messages that are a sentence long and convey nothing more than the fact that you are sub and you need a domme.
Lastly, I have a particular affinity for crossdressers. I only have limited experience with a previous partner in this realm, but it is something I truly enjoyed and something I really want to explore more. So if you are an intelligent, cute crossdresser (especially living in my part of the country), you'll definitely get my attention fast. ;) |
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Taking a break for a while... I'll be back in a few months restored and ready to take up the search again. |
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Ack, technical difficulties. If you messaged me sometime in the last 4 weeks or so and haven't gotten a response, please message me again. I'm traveling and have spotty internet access, and have managed to delete a batch of messages trying to navigate the site on my phone. |
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