What drives the master-slave relationship? What are its dynamics? Do they evolve between doms or are limited to only bdsm roles and not in vanilla ones? In the coming few weeks will try and answer some of these questions and also show wht master/slave means and how it evolved and  is now adapted to the bdsm scene and is often confused with dom/sub or ds relationship.

Well I have learned about so many fakes here on collarme that I am beginning to think its just a role-playing site like orkut , and the pity is that whenever i write a list of fakes on this site some of the fake ids that i have discovered after chatting and messaging the many such here online,  they create a new id and then report my journal entry and get it removed by the administrators of collarme thus the work i have done for many potential and real people goes waste. Well let me tell you some of the easiest ways to spot a fake and again give the list of the fakes in a blog which i shall share with real and genuine people along-with the conversation and chat records of the people i busted here in collarme. Have fun and keep it clean and enjoy this wonderful lifestyle and most important remain safe and practice safety in sessions.

One male who uses aliases and is a wannabe master who has  many fake ids is

(sirsbitchswetha ,arpita ,ashley) ,  strict general and many more ids of the same person.

Its been a while since i have found the time to write some words in my journal. The past few months have been busy trying to mentor some slaves and help one sub who was in the name of bdsm hurt and physically maimed. It pains me to see people misusing the name of bdsm and ms and blackmail people into doing things which are not safe and compromise the health and mar a person for life.

It pains me to see the number of fakes and roleplayers in collarme and people pretending to be into this lifestyle without having any inkling as to what it pertains ,kinky sexual acts are akined to this lifestyle and treating women as doormats makes someone a master.

hi I logged in to collarme to find that a fake who had pretended to be a slave and had closed her profile is back again pretending to be the same, Its funny to see roleplayers scamming and pretending to be in this lifestyle for real whereas what they seek is an online fulfillment of their sexual fantasies being read aloud to them

Have begun training my youngest slave, teaching her , controlling her mind, educating her its going to be challenging because she is too young and inexperienced in anything in life except that whihc every young girl sufffers from at her age- failed infatuation. making her drop her education which I have also taken up and am making her learn and study and strive to be the best, the elitist of all slaves and when her training shall be complete I shall reveal her here and make her share her experience and be a role model for any slave who strives to be free from all inhitbitons and where she holds her head high in submission proud to be the chosen one, and free from the shackles and bonds that life as it is presents anyone with. The rigors of daily living a game for her to play and the challenge of submitting to me and improving herself and seeking beyond her adrenalin , her orgasm complete when she has been freed by me in her mind a sate of oblivion and beyond.

As my journey in this community continues, I have encountered some strange people, mostly fakes and roleplayers lost seeking a master when all they wish for is a decent roleplayer who is rough and crude.

Most people fail to understand about the basic tenement of a master- slave relationship, which is such a pity, but have found one or two promising ones, so wont say my journey has been in vain.

For every second slave who proclaims herself a slave have found fakes or roleplayers at best, is it that I am seeking the wrong ones.discovered one more fake today

it seems this new slave i am in talks with should prove interesting, am sure she would make a great slave

Well let me say am finding it very interesting, seeing how msiguided some are or how some are just roleplaying this lifestyle as a fantasy that they can nver really fulfill.Missing the whole point somehow of it all

I have spent some more days talking to few people i met here and have found difeering viewpoints about this lifestyle, it has helped me learn more about the human mind and also to help me evolve as a master. True freedom can only be achieved when one is truly emanciapted and in control of his every emotion and then he can control another.I would like to thank a special person here who has helped me to learn and evolve as a better master.

roleplay -I have been acuused of having a bias or selctive thought process against roleplays, I would like to clarify myself here-

I am not against roleplays if they are a means to achieving and communication but when they become and end to the means then it is just that a game.

Ms for me is a serious matter and there is no play or game involved

Trust between roleplayers does not exist because that is the sole purpose of rp not revealing oneself because one wears a mask and wishes to hide behind tht mask forever.

If a Roleplay is done with the aim of enhancing ones experience or as a safety valve or a method of communication it is fine.

Have met some real and some fakes here but I cannot say the journey here in collarme hasnt been a satisfying one.

Some very knowledable people and some wannabes all rubbing shoulders with one another, finding many unaware of what they have experienced and what it meant and how it changes them. Some have found solace in what they seek but one thing for sure the challenge of someone who shall thrill me and make me feel  that I have met my match yet be able to make them submit to me mentally keeps me seeking on and on.

Sometimes I have been told that i am very soft and caring and somehave accused me of being harsh, maybe they are both right or maybe one of them is confused. The thing is a true master /slave relations exists because one cannot live without the other and trust is the thing tht binds them.

Online relationships are sometimes threatened more easily thean rela life ones because like the roleplay at one time this does turn into roleplay and the virtual lifestyle has many more variations and faults compared to real life ones. the advantage of virtual life is one can do things and be pushed beyond ones limit because the face is always wearing a mask.

Have found many fakers here specially the female slaves from India, most of them men and the others just for roleplay making it sad to see they dont understand the seriousness of this lifestyle.

Some are here to cheat financially, so a word to other masters and subs and slaves be careful, very careful abt this aspect here.

i have begun training my new slave, although it is too soon to see if she will be the one who takes the place of my most elite slave but am sure my care and attention to details will make her sense of being owned a matter of pride for her

Training a new slave has its own issues but the challenge of controlling somones mind and making them submit without fear of pain is a high i have known and am feeling it again.

last night i suspended my slave from two ropes fromhooks in the ceiling and caned her ass. The welts onher ass a tstimony to her punishment and she soon was wet with desire and i brought her down and paraded her in front of some of my friends her ass cut and slashed with my whip and used her as a table for us, after a while felt her pussy getting wet so we got up and peed all over her and made her lick it up. She was in seventh heaven my slut whore and i made her serve me and my friends before letting her sleep on the floor