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Male Dominant, 20
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About dukkha
The simple translation of the Sanskrit word "dukkha" is "suffering", but it means much more than that. It is an acknowledgement of the realm of samsara or illusion in which we live, which is defined by fears, longings and aversions. It does not deny the existence of either pleasure or suffering but rejects any real distinction between the two (or any other polarities for that matter). Any concept that embraces the notion of reconciling contradictions has some resonance for crossdressing folk. In case you care, it is pronounced dookk (rhymes with book, but with a harder k at the end) -uh(fairly soft).
I spent many years in denial and pointlessly trying to make vanilla relationships work. So I don't have a lot of experience but I do have a lot of maturity (despite forum behaviour to the contrary) and a fairly healthy sense of self-preservation. A long, long time ago (well a few years ago) I decided to face up to the fact that I was kinky and at this rather late stage in my life join a community for which I had some of the credentials but knew none of the customs.
I am not of the "slave" mentality, I want to be an equal outside of scene time but that said, I am extremely giving, deeply respectful and place a high premium on courtesy. I am understanding and sympathetic almost to a fault and understand that just because you are a Domme, that doesn't mean you are immune to the battles of self-doubt that we all wage.
WARNING!
I am absent-minded, spread myself way too thin and am at least as stupid as I sometimes appear to be smart. My scatter-brainedness can create pain for others which, in turn, tears me apart. In the absence of any likelihood of changing this, putting up a public service warning is the least I can do.
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