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Male Submissive, 38, bronx, New York
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Male Dominant, 40, Detroit, Michigan
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About Duke6669
I'm often asked, what does being a Dom mean to me specifically....
I am in control. I make the choices, I give the orders, and I deliver the punishments when appropriate. The sub has the ultimate power. It is always up to her what is unacceptable, she always has the final say as to what I can or cannot do with or to her. The only choice a sub has to make in a full power exchange relationship is continuing to choose to give away her control and power. Make no mistake, no matter what the dynamics of the relationship this ultimate control must always be willfully given. As a Dom it is my job to be confidently in control of the situation at all times. I need to adopt the ideology that mistakes are unacceptable. This seems a contradiction, as no one ever intends to make a mistake, but somethings should not be done in practise until i am confident I can accomplish them with skill and precision. For example, you do not learn how to land an airplane through trial and error.
My job as a Dom is to be pushing the limits and boundaries of my sub, without ever going too far and breaking them. I push them as hard as I can, with my sub yearning to come back and see me again when I am finished. If she don?t want to come back, I did not do my job well. Just about every aspect of D/s and kink is dangerous, either physically or mentally. Just because you see something hot in a video doesn?t mean it?s a good idea to pull it out in the middle of a scene. The best way to ensure you don?t make any mistakes is to have an honest and open line of communication with my sub, long before playtime ever starts.
I am always a gentleman first. While it is me making all choices and holding all control, I understand that everything i do is for and about her. Every choice I make needs to be the best choice for her, often this requires me to be selfless. For a sub to give away all control and power, she needs to trust you and your choices implicitly. To gain this level of trust you need to prove, with every choice I make, that she will be rewarded for putting her trust in me. Everything i do should be done for a reason, and that reason should always be positive for my pet. |
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