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We have moved to using our new joint profile ... DavidnBabs This profile will be kept "live" so anyone who knows us via this profile can more easily find us again. However, any messages sent to this profile will most likely not get replied to for an extended period of time.

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Journal Entries:
9/14/2014 1:23:58 PM
Well ... we've got to the end of a bit of a strange weekend.

We had arranged for a kinky lady friend to make her first visit to us ... so we could take her to some of the West Midlands kinky venues.

Then Friday afternoon came around and instead of all the work that needing to get done being got done, some last minute "my do" work appeared ... which meant a visit to work on Saturday morning was required ...
... so, what should have been a lazy start to the weekend was suddenly a manic few hours.

However, come lunch time things we back on track and we managed to make our planned visit to Exodus in Birmingham.
Not too many people at the Play Munch, but we of course still managed to have a play  :)
Then, back home for a quick change before getting off out to The Facility in Walsall for a great night out ... lots of socialising with friends, and of course getting to enjoy that venue's great equipment  :)

Sunday dawned quite good, till our visitor had a phone call from work and she had to cut her visit short ...
... and Babs' ME decided it needed to make an appearance
... so we've just had a "chillin' out" Sunday.

6/28/2014 5:12:51 PM
Sunday 29th June 2014 We are attending Cirque de Chaos @ Xtasia, West Bromwich ... feel free to come over and introduce yourself if you see us there.

1/1/2014 2:08:56 AM

A happy New Year to all our friends, and any one else reading this.

Here's hoping you have a happy, healthy, prosperous and sexy kinky 2014

10/27/2013 3:03:17 AM

Just thought I'd let interested people know that you'll get to see me, David, at the BBB today (google brumbazaar), so if you do see me feel free to come over and introduce yourself.

Unfortunately Babs won't be with me as she's awaiting the birth of a couple of litters of puppies and doesn't want to miss their arrival.

As to us, and who & what we are seeking, the summer has seen 1 meeting with a lovely kinky couple, and 2 "no shows" from subby ladies ... even after we'd talked to them on the phone.  Hey ho ... their loss ! 

9/22/2013 1:24:03 PM

We've been a little quiet for the spring & summer with "normal life stuff" taking the priority ...
... but after spending a lovely afternoon at  (  as part of the 10th Anniversary celebrations of the formation of FreakClubWear ( we thought we'd just post a comment to say that the Xtasia is a lovely venue and their kink focused events are becoming something quite special  :)

12/31/2012 5:42:20 PM

Happy New Year to one and all ...

... and if you think you match who and what we are seeking

... or we are a match for what you are seeking

... then do get in touch and let's see if 2013 will be "our year"

David & Babs xx 

12/16/2012 12:26:44 PM

Just at the end of a lovely weekend :

- Friday night at The Facility's Xmas party ~ having fun and watching others have fun too  :)

- Sunday afternoon at the BBB ~ including participating in the World Record attempt to have the most people being flogged at the same time

12/1/2012 4:01:01 AM

Mmm ...

... so many ladies saying they want to become a full time slave,
    so few willing to progress to a real life vanilla meeting,
    let alone commit to the relationship they say they desire !

... and they same goes for those who want to become the
    occasional plaything of a couple  :(

... but we aren't disheartened ...

... we know the right lady, or ladies, are out there somewhere,
    and that we will eventually connect with them

... so our search continues

... may be Santa will have a nice surprise for us !

8/3/2012 3:14:53 AM

We've not commented for a while now ... but needless to say we've not been doing nothing ... in fact we've made a number of new scene friends, and enjoyed a number of parties in a new play venue near to Banbury

(see >

We will write again here in a couple of weeks time as we're off to mid Wales for next week (7th to 12th Aug), so if anyone from around that area (home base will be Builth Wells, but happy to travel for an hour or so from Builth) who is interested in meeting for a "chat about things", even if nothing else is expected other than to socialize with a like minded kinky couple, then do feel free to get in touch.

We'll be back to Builth for the middle 2 weeks in September, so next week needn't be a one-off meeting.

2/25/2012 10:21:46 AM

It's been a while since we posted an update to our journal ... so thought we'd do so now as we're having a quiet weekend at home.

We had a lovely autumn & Festive period attending both public events like the BBB and semi-private & private parties at venues like ExodusUK & The Facility.  We also managed to spend some very kinky times with our special friends at their places and at our home in Bedworth ... and it looks like this spring is going to be more of the same.

However, as to finding "new special kinky friends" and "potential family / household members / house slave(s)", that has been less successful.
We have recently entered in to discussions with a couple of ladies, and we do hope that those discussions progress as we hope they will ... but many of the people we seemed to be making a connection with last year have just drifted away ... may be the prospect of turning their fantasies & desires in to cherished memories was just too much for them to contemplate.
Hey ho ... we will continue to search for suitable new friends, and hopefully ladies who want something more than "just friends".

8/29/2011 12:02:39 AM

Mmm ... we had a lovely "BBB weekend" ... another great party @ The Facility on Saturday evening, meeting friends we hadn't seen in ages, and of course having a nice play :) ... then @ the BBB on The Sunday I managed my best ever finish in the annual the whip boxing competition ... I managed to get to the semi-finals !
(I was beaten by the eventual winner).

We're in the middle of a lovely Bank Holiday weekend now ... had Saturday night out at a Birthday Party held @ ExodusUK in B'ham ... a lazy day at home yesterday (Sunday) ... and today, a bit of Ikea, Go Outdoors & food shopping ... with may be a visit to The Facility in Walsall later for a bit of a play at their Bank Holiday BBQ ...
... such a shame that our cyber connections have not yet turned in to real life ones as they could be with us now, sharing all this fun ... so we'll continue to "work" on that over the next few weeks.

In the meantime we've now got next weekend all planned out ... a "pet show & subby gymkhana" @ ExodusUK in B'ham on the Sat night ( Then, on Sunday afternoon & evening, a return to The Facility in Walsall for a kinky "bring & buy" & play Munch (

The weekend after is also planned out ... more fun on the Saturday evening @ ExodusUK followed by a visit to SWAMP in Bristol on the Sunday if all the Avon work is done ....
... and then the next weekend is the BBB weekend again ... so we'll be at the Pre-BBB party on the Saturday night at The Facility & then the BBB on Sunday afternoon in B'ham ...
... and the weekend after that is my Birthday Weekend, when I & a good scene friend are co-hosting a party at the Chambers of a Dominatrix friend of ours ... a lovely cottage with 3 rooms dedicated to kinky goings on (it's my Birthday on the Saturday & his on the Sunday).

... such a shame that those who accuse us of being fake can't see all the fun that they are missing out on ... but we guess that they are really the fakes.

Anyway ... back to a cuddle with Babs before a bit of Ikea, Go Outdoors & food shopping later.

David ... for David & Babs

8/19/2011 2:43:20 PM

Looking forward to lovely kinky party at "The Facility" ( on Saturday night,

then on Sunday, off to the August BBB ( at which David will be hoping to progress all the way to the final of the Annual Whip Boxing competition.

If any of you do get to the BBB and spot us, please feel free to come over & say "Hi"

8/7/2011 11:39:31 AM

Babs & I spent another very happy evening @ ExodusUK last night.  Meeting & socializing with friends, and or course having fun in the various rooms that that venue has to offer.

If you are interested in where we were, see their web site here :

8/7/2011 11:36:54 AM

Profile updated, re-arranged and shortened for those who have trouble reading long profiles.

5/21/2011 1:54:54 AM

Time for a quick update ...

Work & "normal life" pressures & commitments meant that we had to put to one side our early May plans for having fun out & about in the West Midlands kinky scene.
However, plans continue to evolve and it looks like we have a semi-private Fetish/BDSM party to attend each weekend for the rest of May ... and we are starting to firm up some of our plans for June.
... if you want to know more, or where we go to for those parties, just see the links in our earlier journal entry.

As to us finding suitable people who match what we have described in our profile ... that remains as difficult as ever.
Some interesting little chats have been held ... and we'd hope that we can move those "chats" forward ... but overall we're still finding too many fakes, fantasists & wannabes ... or time wasters who either can't be bothered to reply to our polite approaches, or just aren't honest enough to say that all they are interested in is having come cyber contact.

So our search continues ...
If you feel you are a match for what & who we are seeking, and could be interested in us, please feel free to write a polite message explaining who you are, what you are seeking, and where you think you align with what we are looking for. We do respond to all messages ... even if that's with a "Thanks, but 'No Thanks' reply".

If we write to you it's because we see the possibility that you could be the sort of person we have been searching for.
If you aren't interested in us a polite "No thanks" will not offend us and we won't contact you again.
However, if you are interested we will be happy to prove we are "real" at an early stage in discussions.

So ... if you are interested in us and what we are looking for, do get in touch as we may just be the couple who can provide you, and us, with the future life we are all seeking.

5/7/2011 11:04:56 AM

Well ... it's been a while since we posted an update to our profile ... and there's a fair bit to report ...

We've spent time with our like minded kinky friends just socializing (yes ... life is not all ropes & floggers ... going to a pub for a drink, a meal, and a chat does happen !)
We've attended kinky play parties at a couple of the West Midland's premier private play venues : see > and > ..................... (both of which can be hired for private play)
We of course attended the April BBB on Sunday 17th ... see > where we really enjoyed the demo on "take-down bondage" (or "kidnap bondage" ... don't try this out in the streets !)

but the most important event during April was the fact that we had our first session with one of our "Under Consideration" ladies ... and she's now moved from being "Under Consideration" to "In Training".  The only sad thing to report is that her, and our, work commitments, and the distance between us, means that that "training" will only happen on an infrequent basis during the summer months.  However, we hope that come the autumn she will be under more regular hands-on guidance.

As to the forthcoming month of May, we again have a couple of private party event attendances scheduled ... as well as a return to the BBB on Sun the 15th (This month's Demo is going to be somethings special ... for those that like things a little edgy at times)

If you ever have any questions, please feel free to write.  We try to reply to all messages ... so long as they are polite

3/23/2011 5:45:38 PM

Well ... thought it was about time for our next journal entry.

Last weekend was a bit manic with both kinky & vanilla life things all getting in the way of each other ... never a good thing having to balance such interests ... so although we did have a great party on Saturday evening, we didn't manage to get to the March BBB on the Sunday ... Hey ho, such is life !

We've just finished planning our outing for the end of March and on in to April.
So we'll be off out to ...
~ an all afternoon & early evening event on Sun 27th March,
~ a late evening & early morning event on Sat 2nd April, a second one on Sat 16th April, and on 3rd on Sat 30th April
Finally of course there is the April BBB on Sunday 17th

So ... a good April in the offing.

3/13/2011 8:52:56 AM

Hello to all our readers ... {#}
Well, last Friday was another lovely evening at the new venue that is rapidily becoming our "home from home" for kinky play outside of our actual home.  This time we were at the B_D_S_M team's private party (i.e. entry is only by pre-arrangement with the organisers, or by being hosted in to that venue by an established attendee).
As ever there were a few of our friends & acquaintances in attendance, so not only was the evening a time for us to have some fun on the equipment that that venue has to offer (this time Babs enjoyed the delights of the new gynie chair {#}), but it was also a bit of a social event where we could chat to our friends and catch up with what's been happening since we last saw them.
If you want to see what that venue has to offer, have a look at this web site >

We're now looking forward to next weekend ... a very private party at the chambers of a Dominatrix friend of ours on Saturday ... and on Sunday our visit to the monthly Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar (the BBB, see >

Anyway ... must get off and enjoy a bit of this lovely sunny Sunday afternoon.

Bye for now.

3/7/2011 5:18:45 PM

Our first outing in March, i.e. on Sat 5th, to a private EXODUS party at a venue in Birmingham ... see > ... was just lovely.
Lots of friends there to socialise with, the great venue to enjoy ourselves in, and watch others enjoying themselves to ;) ;).
Each time we go the venue has been improved ... with some new piece of equipment to try to fathom out and enjoy ... this time it was a suspension bondage bed that tilts you all which ways ... most entertaining :)
We look forward to returning there many times in the future.

3/2/2011 10:20:19 AM
We've finally got some idea as to what we'll be up to during March.

Our first outing will be on Sat 5th March (yep ... in just 3 days time *grin*) to a private EXODUS party at a venue in Birmingham ... see >

Our next participation in some kinky goings on outside of our home will be on the following Friday, i.e. Fri 11th, when we'll return to that same venue for a B_D_S_M private party.

The weekend after that (i.e. Sat 19th & Sun 20th Mar), on the Saturday evening we're off to another private party, this time at the Moonglow Studios ... see >
and on the Sunday daytime we will be enjoying our regular attendance at the BBB (the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar ) .. see >

As ever, if you see us out & about (and we're not indulging in some kinky goings on *wink**wink*), then please feel free to come over to say "Hi".

2/22/2011 5:11:25 AM
What a wonderful weekend we've just had. Lots of socialising with like minded people ... seeing & catching up with friends, some of whom we haven't seen for ages ... lovely "play-time fun" at Saturday night's party ... and we even managed to fit in some retail therapy at the BBB on Sunday ... ... we managed to find some special fashion stockings for Babs (very stylish) ... and finally we had the cash for a new vibrator I've had my eye on for a while. It has proved as popular as I hoped it would be ... in fact we are "2 for 2" so far ... 2 days & 2 sets of batteries ! (Looks like I'll have to get some rechargeable batteries soon !) We're now looking forward in to March and planning which events / parties / etc. we'll be attending ... ... we'll write more about those "March plans" once we've finalised them. TTFN

2/12/2011 3:52:00 PM
Looking forward to next weekend ... Saturday 19th & Sunday 20th Feb 2011.
On Saturday evening we'll be off out to a private party at ~
Then during the day on Sunday we'll be attending the monthly BBB ~

2/12/2011 3:43:12 PM

Spent a lovely evening on Friday night (Fri 11th Feb 2011) in a really great location

see ... ...

lots of kinky people enjoying the factilities of a venue that seems to be getting better & better every time we visit.

2/10/2011 6:44:46 PM

Grrgh .... getting behind with the Journal updates again !

So ... just a quick summary ...
We got to the New Years Eve party @ Club Spice ... and had a great night.
We also attend the "pre-BBB" play party, and the BBB, in January ... and plan to do the same in February.
Other updates to be added when we have some spare time.
TTFN to all our readers.
David & Babs

12/18/2010 11:35:10 AM

For those of you interested in such things ... here are our next 'kinky outings' :

Friday 31st Dec 2011
If this snow ever lets up we plan to get to the New Years Eve party @ Club Spice ... the newest Fetish/BDSM party venue in the West Midlands.
If you want to see what the venue is like, have a look at this link >

Saturday 15th Jan 2011
In the evening we hope to be off to a semi-private play party at a dungeon in Walsall.
If you want to see what the venue is like, have a look at this link >

Sunday 16th Jan 2011
During the day we will be attending the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar

and may be the After Market Party afterwards

if we're not too tired that is !

If you see us at any of the events we're attending, please feel free to come over & introduce yourself.

12/18/2010 11:30:30 AM

Due to the bad weather in the West Midlands, the pre-BBB Saturday night party on Sat 18th Dec, the BBB on Sunday 19th Dec, as well as the BBB After Party, have all had to be cancelled.
So we're stopping home, keeping warm and having the odd cuddle or two.

12/4/2010 7:35:15 AM

Unfortunately due to both of us coming down with a bad cold ... so on ... 
Saturday 4th Dec 2010 ... we didn't attend ...
The Arch of the Exodus' Christmas Party, and we were really looking forward to seeing their new venue.

Hey ho ... guess we will just have to wait till 2011 before seeing what their new venue is like.

12/4/2010 7:31:36 AM

Last night, i.e. Friday 3rd Dec 2010, we helped celebrate the opening of the new Club Spice, see >

 ... a
new stylishly modern play space, with some lovely equipment.
We didn't "play" as our colds really prevented us from going that far, but it was good to see many of our scene friends that we hadn't seen for a few months ... and we look forward to spending some happy evenings at Club Spice.

11/20/2010 1:43:33 PM

Our plans for this weekend (i.e. Sat 20th & Sun 21st November) have had to be cancelled and we will not now be getting to the Play Party & the BBB [

 ] as we hoped me might :(.

However, that said, the next party & BBB are only 4 weeks away, and that will fly by with all that's happening for us ... so keep watching & reading.  We'll be back "out & about" before you know it.

11/5/2010 2:54:15 PM

Saturday 30th Oct 2010
A lovely evening was spent at a private kinky Halloween Party held at the chambers of a Dominatrix friend of ours.
We're not sure what the shoppers in Tesco thought seeing Babs as a Goth bride, and me, David, as the dark count (complete with full length cape) whilst we went shopping before the party, but we did enjoy seeing them "checking us out".
The evening was a great success, with lots of socializing with some of our very good friends ... and of course having a bit of a play as well *big grin*.
Saturday 6th Nov 2010
Our plan to attend a kinky party has had to be cancelled as Babs has come down with a nasty cold and is feeling quite under the weather at the moment.
However, that won't last forever, so we're now looking forward to this month's BBB.

10/28/2010 10:21:23 AM

We had a great time at the October Birmingham Bizzare Bazaar, the BBB

on Sun 17th Oct with it's demo on "Electrickery" ... especially when the Dom inadvertently shocked himself rather than giving his absolutely gorgeous subby lady a little jolt {#}.

We spent the following weekend with some good friends of ours ... a lovely kinky MF couple.

We're now looking forward to this coming weekend and a kinky Halloween Party that has been planned by a Dominatrix friend of ours at her Warwickshire based chambers ... shame we've not got a subby lady to join us at that little gathering as we're sure she'd have a great time ... HEY HO, one of these days we will find a suitable lady ! 

10/14/2010 5:26:55 AM

Mmmm ... just realised we'd not said how much we'd enjoyed the September Birmingham Bizzare Bazaar, the BBB

 with it's demo on "wacky wax" play ...

we'll certainly have to getting into such "play" once we've got the right sheeting to protect the rest of the house ... the wax splashed all over the place !

We're now looking forward to this coming weekend's BBB on Sunday (i.e. the Oct BBB) and it's "Electrickery" demo ... and of course the pre-BBB Saturday night dungeon party which is always a pleasant way to spend a Saturday evening   

10/2/2010 5:59:50 PM

Finding the bloging site mentioned previously not to our liking ... so we'll see if we can get along with the CM journal for now.

We're just in from a lovely evening at a semi-private party at the Arch of the Exodus {} in the centre of Birmingham.

A lovely evening was had by all ... with Babs entering subby space on two occasions :). 
We also got to socialise with some nice people, enjoyed catching up with old aquaintances & friends, and of course discussing kinky things with like minded people (inc. some interesting words on knife play).

7/12/2010 10:40:09 AM

As we've got a few sites to try to keep blogs, journals, etc. up to date on we've decided to centralize all our blogs here > ... so if you are interested in reading about what we've been up to, please follow that link.
David & Babs

7/12/2010 6:04:42 AM
Babs & I spent a lovely evening last Friday (i.e. Fri 9th Jul) in the company of a select group of friends and kinky like minded people.

We were all there to help a Domme lady friend to celebrate the formal opening of her brand new chambers in the centre of Birmingham (just 10mins walk from Moor Street Station).

Of course, as part of the celebrations, we just couldn't resist trying out some of the installed equipment

If you want to know more about her, then with her permission, here is the relevant web link >

6/25/2010 7:29:43 AM
We had a great time @ last Sunday's BBB - the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar ~ see >

We did lots socializing (as ever !), and David took part in his first public demo ... as he was one of the Doms involved in the "Ready, Steady, Top!" demo.  So much fun .

5/21/2010 5:27:01 PM
Arrgh !
We're totally unable to find any free time to keep a realistic journal going on here, or anywhere else for that matter, at the moment.
As soon as we find the time for such a journal we'll post a link on here.

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