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Lets get this out of the way right now just to save everyone time. I am always willing to chat. I am pretty friendly and love talking to people however: I never meet people I only talk to on here, I also am not gonna call you I am NOT willing to relocate I do not cam I don't give out personal info Won't date or have sex with anyone over 30 NO LDR whatsoever unless it is just penpals It does not mean anything if I reply other than that I am willing to talk to you. It does not mean I am attracted to you unless I say otherwise. I am not looking for a daddy. It isn't my thing at all.
Hi all, I am shy until you get to know me then I tend to open up more. I am currently working on becoming more assertive. I am a generally nice person and a lover of soft fuzzy things. If I had transportation I would do more community service such as talking to old folks and volunteering at the animal shelter. I have a dog and often say she is the love of my life(she is the sweetest thing on the planet), but no worries, I am not into animals.
I enjoy costuming and fashion. I enjoy wearing nice clothing. My favorite designers are Yves St. Laurent, Christian Dior and Riccardo Tsici. I currently go to school for clothing design and sewing is one of my favourite past times but I also enjoy doing things like rock climbing and scuba diving(though I am not certified yet and lack the funds to do it currently) I watch anime and read manga on a more rare basis now. One of my favorite things to do is tear apart bad movies with my friends. I also love to cook for people I care about. I prefer rainy summer days to hot ones and actually enjoy the snow(when its white and not muddy black). I have drunk before but never become drunk and only certain alchohols are tolerable(I love vodka but can't drink beer). I do not partake of drugs of any sort and very rarely drink alcohol.
I have recently discovered an interest in guns and rediscovered a love of history.
I really find German sexy. Not sure why but to me, it is probably one of the sexiest and most beautiful languages out there (right up there with Russian for me, and certain British accents). This really holds no bearing on anything, I just wanted to share my favorite language.
I do not tolerate alchoholism, drugs, abuse, or crazy. I am clean and you should be too. I am also not open about being a part of the lifestyle so if you are one of those who go around bragging about it kindly gtfo.
I suppose one could say I am a masochist with sub tendencies. I do love people taking control but not to an unhealthy level. I am a naturally independent person so someone trying to regulate every aspect of my life is really irritating. At the end of the day I am a big girl and I can take care of myself. However I still do like when a date holds the door open, pulls out my chair, and all that but I do not make it a requirement. To say I am a masochist doesn't describe ME, but merely a part of me. I don't think that people are one dimensional enough to describe in just a few words. Not to mention I cannot say how you will see me. Depending on who you are I can be different things.
For me, one of the sexiest things a potential partner can have is confidence. If you are confident and present yourself in a polite way, it will go a long way with me. I am also more-so looking for a sadist who has no problem topping than a dominant. If you are a dominant this does not mean I will ignore you but if you don't feel comfortable causing physical pain then we probably won't be compatible in the bedroom.
Height really isn't a concern, intelligence and hygiene are though. Intelligence is high up on my list of traits I find sexy, though I do not mean to say only people who have IQ's of 200 are on my radar, just that I do not suffer the fool. Honesty is also a big one. If there is something that you need just be upfront and honest. I hate those games where you beat around the bush and let the relationship deteriorate beyond repair. I care about looks about as much as everyone else. This doesn't mean that I make it number one priority to be with only good looking people but I do need to feel some level of attraction. I suppose it is just that I have standards. (sorry to people that this may offend)
Hope this wasn't to boring of a read, have a good day and thank you for actually taking the time to read this. .
I realized I haven't been on in a while. Pretty much all of my free time has gone to sewing. Its weird now because I am in between projects. Quite frankly I hate not having something to do. Its so boring and that is generally when I start to become less interested in doing crap. I may complain when I have a lot on my plate but I honestly love it. It is the greatest feeling in the world and it rivals my love of the rush after a good session. Its the rush and satisfaction. I do love being one with stuff but I miss having things to do.
so due to schoolwork, I am extremely busy. Not really coming on here very much anymore, I'll check it occaisionally but not really gonna be on here or looking for anything right now. Friends perhaps but I will not be actively seeking anything right this moment
I don't get why people don't understand respect. Honestly is there really a difference between a bdsm relationship with no respect for the sub and blatent vanilla abuse? I don't think so. Please learn that we are people first and items second
ok. When I say close, I don't mean the next state over, or 100 miles away, I mean actually close. I want something that it isn't a weekend trip to come out to serve you. I do not feel comfortable with long distance relationships, I sorry but I need some sort of physical thing. Also still do not want to be just play partners. I don't think people are reeading my profile, thats how it feels.? I NEED an actual relationship sorry
