dontknowwhatIam

About dontknowwhatIam

I am not new to bdsm or this site. However I recently decided to take the plunge and look for help in becoming what I truly am. A submissive.

I started out as a sub, but due to restrictions, wheelchair, shyness, I was unable to explore to work out what I could offer and what I could do.

After a while a few people told me I would make a good Dom, so I tried. I can dominate, but I think my real place dominating is in a poly group, in charge of any slaves. An alpha sub if you will.

Then I got frustrated and stopped looking and withdrew altogether.

But I want in and only as a sub.

Through dungeons and a friend, I have experienced mild spanking/whips/cbt. All mild. I have done some sensory deprivation with blindfold and cuffs, as well as rope bondage.
I have done needle play and fire cupping.

I am willing to try online, but bear in mind I am confined to a wheelchair.


Happy to play with anyone, but any sort of sexual play is restricted to women. Unless I ask otherwise. I have a couple of times with a guy but it didn't go past petting.