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Female Dominant, 46, Hendersonville, North Carolina
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Male Dominant, 38, Reading, Pennsylvania
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Switch Couple, 25, Dallas, Texas
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About DoNotDisobey
I have experience as a Dom but there is always something a good sub/slave can teach her Master... what can you show Me?
A true submissive or slave is a rarity, and as with all precious things you will be cherished, protected, and loved - in other words, truly owned.
Any fool can "dominate" a person who will say "yes, Master" to anyone who puffs out his chest and says "I am a Dominant". When you become Mine I want to feel I have achieved something, that you are worthy of owning, and that I am worthy of owning you.
Equally, I have no time for subs who don the persona of the submissive to play bedroom games the way they might put on a nurse's uniform or pretend to be Wonder Woman. Fantasy is healthy and good - but I want reality.
If you have a sharp mind, a cynical outlook (which you're only too keen to express) and integrity that runs as deep as your need to submit, then chances are W/we will find one another interesting.
I have few limits, but yours will be negotiated and respected... though our journey will include exploring and perhaps expanding those limits consensually and sensually, together.
I'd consider relocating for the right person, and would be more than prepared to relocate you.
There is much more I can tell you, so write to Me, telling Me enough about yourself to allow me to begin to understand your mind, and hopefully, in time we will know all there is to know about one another.
This could be the beginning of a journey where the first of many milestones is placing My collar around your neck...
So if you are female or femme trans... and particularly if you are Goth (but even if you're not) write... and perhaps begin your journey to pure, sensual, servitude.
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We meet so many people in our time - and the online world has increased that figure exponentially - yet me "connect" with so few.
Perhaps I am arrogant (it's an accusation levelled at me often enough), but life is not only too short to drink bad wine it's too short for tedious conversation.
I'm aware that someone's entire worth isn't measured by their intelligence. I'm talking of the people who are incapable of thinking beyond the tiny portion of the world which they personally inhabit. And even that goes unanalysed.
How is it possible to go through life obsessed by one's job, one's possessions, one's favourite sports team or whatever but not have paused to wonder "why?" about any number of things.
Or then again, perhaps I'm a curmudgeon.
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Life continues apace, though some changes I had anticipated have not occurred. For one thing, still no submissive / slave occupies that place reserved for her in My life...
I make a point of extending courtesy to everyone (till such time as they prove themselves unworthy of it, anyway) and that includes responding to communications.
Yet it seems to Me that such simple good manners are no longer important to people - whether it's submissives/slaves on this site, people with whom one is doing business, or strangers one may meet at a social function. I was told at a party recently that I was "soooo nice", yet all I had done was listen to the girl speak without looking constantly over her shoulder for someone better, and paid her enough attention to ask her intelligent questions based on what she'd just said.
How must it be for submissives, then, when so many Dominants mistake lack of common courtesy and manners for some sort of display of superiority. You prove your superiority by acting better than others, not worse.
While I may listen to music which tells me "People = S**t" (edited not for my own sense of deceny but because I suspect the moderators of this site quite rightly discourage profanity less it start being directed at others) I try to give each individual the benefit of the doubt. But I'm beginning to doubt they deserve that benefit...
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An idle moment and so I thought I may muse here, having no other online outlet at present...
Why, I wonder, are people of one kink so intolerant of those of another persuasion? I have found far deeper disapproval running through the psyches of people who would themselves be considered far from mainstream, yet who pursue an interest different to Mine. And others in the lifestyle report the same kind of prejudice. Odd... and most unhelpful at a time in history when the forces of puritanism seem to be ascendant.
Kinksters of the world, unite! ;-)
Still no submissive in My life... perhaps it's a function of living in a relatively isolated place, meaning a smaller pool of prospective submissives. But still... I'll stop now before I feel a chorus of "Someday my prince(ss) will come..." coming on ;-P |
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