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Female Submissive, 23, globe, Arizona
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Female Submissive, 28, Worcester, Massachusetts
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Male Dominant, 63, Corona, California
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About DontBeShyNow
Thanks for checking out my profile. I'm not somebody who does the entire online dating (eHarmony, match, tinder, etc.), but I can't help but feel as if what I want might be here. I am a dominant male, and I have heavily identified with that since I was in my teens. Don't mistake me for a misoygnist, because I am far from that. I'm convinced a lot of the men on here fall into that category.
As you can tell, I have a wide spectrum of kinks. I am able to do everything from daddy/his little girl to the dark and sadistic. I prefer my subs/slaves to have a wide array of interests, kinks, and wants as well. Notice I used the plural, which means I am into poly. I prefer a triad, with myself being the only male. As for the specific details of the household, I can't comment considering it is something that is developed as opposed to forced in. A quad is quite possible as well, but more than that is pushing it in my opinion and highly unrealistic.
All of my vanilla relationships in the past had evolved into having kinky sex, but there was always a specific dynamic missing. I guess it has to do with the understanding of our lifestyles and mentality. Not sure exactly. But I do prefer the idea of my subs/slaves being my gfs/love interests/etc. I ultimately want to settle down and have kids, a mortgage, property taxes, home owner's association fees, and all that crap.
I prefer women with an education (in college or completed), careeer oriented, sane and not having a psychological disorder (bipolar, schizo, etc.), devoted, not overly religious (prefer non-religious women), capable of the vanilla lifestyle, around my age or younger.
The following are some quick bullet points about myself:
- I'm very much into my career and like the idea of my subs helping me and supporting me in it.
- Not into trans men or women. I have no problem with them, and I've met a few of them in the past, but it isn't for me.
- I'm not a complete sadist. Women getting punched, beaten, bruised, etc. is not my thing. I prefer giving a good spanking, slapping, and other lighter pain play.
- I'm not necessarily into all the community events, munches, etc. Maybe I'll give it a shot one day?
- I'm socially a progressive and prefer women with that mentality. Conservatism is a major turn off for me.
- I am a nurturer by nature, have rescued a dog, plan on rescuing more in the future, and love the thought of fatherhood and a big jolly family. Living in a quiet home isn't fun, even if it means a lack of sleep in the future.
- In terms of poly, I won't hide it. I won't leave one sub at home while the other and I attend family functions, go out, etc. I like the idea of having a romantic dinner for three at a restauraunt; they can stare, which is ok with me.
- I've been with a couple of older women in the past, and I like the maturity and life experienes we can converse about and play towards. I don't see myself having an LTR with a woman in her late 30s, 40s, and so on. I do like having a big network and range of friends. Playing with older women is one of my favorite things.
- I expect that if you want to be serious going forward that you can at least prove you're a woman by using a microphone on your pc. I don't need you to cam, but at least making sure you're a woman is important. I had a gay man pretend to be a woman in the past on this site, and it was weird when he admitted it to me.
- I won't give a face pic off the bat. I had my pictures stolen from facebook years ago and someone made a profile posing as me, contacting others, slandering my name, and so on. Not a huge fan of that.
- I love women of all races as long as a physicial and psychological attraction exists. The idea of a multi-racial poly house is very ideal for me.
- I don't expect the women to be model-esque. I've dated petite women with barely any breasts to bbws. I don't mind bbws as long as they're not the morbidly kind. I like the idea of working out with bigger women and slimming them down.
- Not a huge fan of a lot of piercings, especially the face. Same thing with tattoos as well. Not a deal breaker at all.
- I'm a bit introverted and mesh well together with other introverted women.
- I don't fuck a girl in the ass without doing an enema before hand. Absolutely not into scat play; she can do it on her own and release on her own, I just want a clean tunnel.
That's about it. If I sent you a message, it was a very deliberate act based on your profile, kink interests, and journal entries.
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