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Typically, verbal abuse plays an important role in SPH play. The male submissive, or sub, may be called various disparaging names, like "tiny tot", "teeny weeny", "little dicky", "baby dick" and the like.

Humiliation may include (also in combinations):

• forced nudity
• forced cross-dressing
• "forced" sex (including forced masturbation)
• forced simulation of sex
• forced watching of nudity and/or sex
• being kept on a dog leash
• small penis size humiliation (ridiculing a male's penis size as small and comparison with larger men)

Why does cock sucking humiliate you?

And if it does humiliate you, why do you keep coming back for more? The reasons vary from cock sucker to sucker, but here are a few themes.

Cock sucking emasculates you.

For many men, it’s hard to feel like the paragon of traditional masculinity when you’re getting face fucked by a cock twice the size of yours. It’s even harder to feel like a man when this is happening while you’re wearing a pink lace baby doll with a matching thong. It doesn’t help when your Mistress is repeating words like “faggot,” “slut,” and “cocksucker,” either, does it? Cock sucking makes you feel like you’ve dropped from “man” to “sissy bitch” on the figurative social totem pole; and worse yet, you love it.

Cock sucking is your act of total submission.

When you’re sucking a cock, the focus is on his pleasure, not yours. Depending on how far you enjoy being objectified or demeaned, that might mean you’re little more than a warm wet hole – a glorified sex toy – for another man’s pleasure. There’s no reciprocation for a sex toy, is there? This kind of degradation can be very humiliating, and certain humiliation sluts simply eat it up.

Women stop me in my tracks, take my breath away, are always in my thoughts and I am thankful for them each and every day. But, I definitely have a strong bi-curious side and think I would enjoy pleasing another man - for a female audience.

Orgasms are bad for you.  They reward you with the wrong sort of pleasure.  Your pleasure should not come from your own selfish sexual gratification but from pleasing others.  Edging is good; it keeps you hard, and horny and thinking of cock.  You don't want to have to think of anything else, you don't want your brain to have to worry or fret or make decisions - you just want it focused on cock.  You just want it to be on auto-pilot.  You strive to be a dumb, cock hungry obedient submissive that wants to suck the cum out of REAL men.

Pegging Your Way to Being a Sissy

Okay well maybe it’s just another term for the same activity but anyway lets take a look at pegging and all the benefits that come along with it.

Most of you have probably seen endless amounts of strap-on domination pictures and videos which has left you drooling at the thought of going ass over tea kettle for a dominatrix. That’s natural, heck that’s totally normal for submissive closet sissy boys like you. That’s right I called you a sissy because if you think about it, you wouldn’t want to take a full blown pegging if you didn’t have some sissy tendencies.

Pegging is a perfect way to take a borderline fem-boy and turn him into an all out sissy!

Pegging the Sub Into Sissydom

The pegging fantasy boils down to a role reversal, with the man becoming the receiver and the woman being the giver — if you catch my drift. To put it bluntly the submissive male will offer up his man-vagina to his mistress so she can bang it with her strap-on dildo.

The thing about being pegged for the guy is that when he takes on that role their is a psychological change that takes place, like a seed being planted that is sure to slowly grow and eventually blossom. So to will the submissive guy who gets a good deep pegging, he’ll find himself slowly becoming a sissy. All the while his Mistress continues to assert her dominance and ownership over him.

Some slaves reading this might be thinking their is no way this could be pleasurable enough to take. In reality though it’s the exact opposite; men not only find it pleasurable but they will see that their orgasms have never been more powerful — much more similar to their superiors aka women.

I found this article online and thought it was right on...

 Male Bi-Sexuality Let's face it. Most women and many men have "bi-sexual fantasies or dreams". This is normal. It does not make a person "gay/homosexual" to have these thoughts. Now the trick as a Dominant woman is to know your mans bi-drive. Some males have a stronger bi-drive than others OR to a certain extent would consider acting on these desires under the guidance of a woman. For many men, moving the fantasy of say giving head to another man or having sex with them, as the submissive/bottom can become a reality with the presence of a woman. Both in terms of an act of humiliation in front of their Mistress/Wife/Girlfriend or the woman acts as a comfort shield so the man does not feel so "gay". Such events can unlock more of a submissive's nature and take him to deeper depths in his submission through this kind of FemDom exploration and bisexual experimentation. For woman who fantasize about seeing their man or perhaps sissy/crossdresser husband is to work this fantasy in conjunction with chastity. When men are horny and under the guidance of a Mistress anything is possible for a submissive with an open mind.