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Domxxxpertease - Female Dominant, Norman Oklahoma | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About Domxxxpertease

I'm 40 161)6 lbs. 5'10 Cuban, WOMAN who's, Dominant, looking for an individual for committed relationship, with someone subservient, mentally and physically, emotionally, financially, sexually stable ( well endowed in all that's listed! )., Too brainwash, control, and keep.

Must be subservient, Black, White, Latino, white or blue collaras profession, you're, able to take on the chattel slave mentality and lifestyle. And eventually when the times right, I may pick you as mine, Spanish speaking is definitely hot, nothing like an American who speaks other languages.

You will take, financial care of me, amongst sexual. When called too, do so by me.
I like sexiness, nothing tacky nor crass. I'm looking for a straight male, Whose never had anal sex. Education and spiritual alignment foundation, mentality, is a must, is a plus, as is willingness to relocate to me for me.

I'm very serious. Come too me! I want to control you.
DECLARATIONS OF INDEPENDENCE 

A lot of people "join" this lifestyle. It seems that the lot who do join it are very unsafe and unstable, individuals who hate men/women! I do not hate the males I own. I am not a Domme because I have some twisted hate issue. I am a Domme because I have twisted control issues and love for Caucasian men who'll deal with it. This is a rare commodity. I enjoy and LIVE the lifestyle as a female supremacist, who loves ruling men. I am going to find an FLR relationship, there's no doubt about that. I like it when I see true submission, lots live by words that sound sincere. I live by SEEING IS BELIEVING, getting to know a person is very fulfilling for me. I am about quality, if I am realistically seeking a good slave, which I AM! This isn't firstly, about the male at all for me, "he" comes second. You think because you "have" or because your "talk game is good" or because you "think" your "LOOKS" or your "diploma" is going to impress me??? I look for pure, unflakey FULL submission in my male. Submission is a very rare role to be. Unique in it'self but a rare find, because it is rare to meld into that character- because you are scared. Firstly, you trick yourselves when you think that a Queen is easily amused by you just stating that you are a sub or slave! If you want to live the life then do so, with integrity. But do not pick any run of the mill Dome/Dom, Sub/slave. I pick my slaves like I pick my fruit. This is tedious annoying, I have been called out (without proof, of course) and told I am really a slave, (lmao) that I am a fake Domme, That my writings are copy and paste, (roflmal), that I have a master, (FUCK YOU BITCH!) HEY, I do not DOMINATE males, then run to my mistress or master...ESPECIALLY A Master! In this lifestyle, we are who we want to be. It doesn't matter who's Domme/Dom, sub/slave or not!! I bow down to no man, I do not fit that role believe me. I tried to find/found my place in this lifestyle through a lot of research, which is important to help you get it right. Hearing about A QUEEN calling herself a Queen but yet having a master is repulsive. Non-of-my-business who's doing this, but it's repulsive. An FLR to me, is an "amazon thing" this want to rule a male completely, I like the feel of his powerlessness and confusion, overturned by pure love and loyalty to me. Not because he is forced by me, but because his gift is to surrender anyhow.

 This lifestyle is fun, exciting and sexy for me. I will admit that I've met a lot of flakes, scary people, not so sure of themselves people, "people who want to prove i'm not Dominant," scarred and hurt people, Dom men trying to change my mind.. the list goes on. I am not in this lifestyle, and blind to that reality of encountering said individuals. That's what happens when you encounter people from all walks of LIFE. I am here to find and receive from your true, submission, as a slave. I enjoy this lifestyle! You should too, just, concentrate on fulfilling your dreams and desires. Do not let anyone break your stride with they're defects. A D/s relationship should always be SAFE, SANE, AND CONSENSUAL!! 

Tell me what's your place. I know mine

When I experimented with kink, to see who i am (Domme/sub/slave/vanilla/kink/bi/lesbian) I learned a lot about myself.. I AM a FEMNIST, DOMME and nothing else. And because my proclivity to want FLR'S I am more in the middle of vanilla v.s kink. 2 months of this, serious, "seeing who I am!" I have learned to appreciate the role of a slave and see what they see and feel.. sorta makes you high. I felt out of place, this is something that takes a special mind to do, as is being a Domme. I got to see how sadistic both male and female can be! WOW, to my experience. You cannot turn down a Journey like that. I encourage folks to try this out. Just do not invite me to it. I am very much sure I am Domme and I am very much straight. I love this lifestyle, I like that I can see and feel someones subservience. Idk what experience you'll have but I felt like I got what I needed after my experiment.

**to those who might want to know
I DIDN'T TRY TO SEE IF I AM A SWITCH FOR AS LONG
that lasted a week- I do not understand the whole concept of switching..that's not for me.

THE "AM I BI/LESBIAN" DID NOT LAST TEN MINUTES- but I find out that if you take the sex acts and the kissing out I do very much like women. that's weird

this type of soul searching is good and provides you with the tools you need to be a better Domme, slave, subs. the level of people claiming to be one thing or another is and should be embarrassing, because when it comes down to it the fear or the reality hits you.. that's another post as to why everyone thinks somes fake! lol

BOSSY-WOMEN.com do your research bitches, there's to many of you claiming to be and want something you know nothing about and that is very precarious, of you. Knowing what you want is important and brings forth better results. Enjoy the read, if you, can even understand what's being said.
Many men these days are attracted to Bossy Women. In fact more men in ever increasing numbers are turning to bossy women so they may have a happy and real relationship. Research has shown that men who marry a bossy wife are more happy in their marriage and the marriage has a greater success rate. Men are also reporting the pleasure of learning to serve and obey a bossy wife. In fact, some research shows that 70 percent of men are seeking a bossy wife. 

Bossy Women tend to have a number of well known traits when it comes to a relationship. Decisions
One thing you will soon find about dating a bossy woman is that they make all the decisions about the relationship and even about the way you live your life. The fact is a bossy woman knows what is best for you and it is a good idea that you understand and accept that. Do not bother to offer your opinion because it is worthless. You know nothing. The fact remains that the only opinion and decision that counts is that of a bossy woman. 

Controlling your clothing
No need to worry about what style of clothes to buy or wear as this will all be controlled by the woman. She will tell you what to buy and what to wear. It does not matter if you like the clothes or not, the only thing that matters is what she likes. 

Food Control
When dating a bossy woman you can forget all about eating the food you like. From now on she will tell you what food to eat, how much food to eat and when to eat. 

Cell Phone Tracking
It wont be long after you get your new bossy girlfriend that she will install tracking software in your cell phone. This way she will know exactly where you are at any given moment. She will also make sure to have access to all your call records and the software will send her a copy of any text message you send others. If your smart you will offer to do this before she tells you. 

Choosing your friends
Once you date a bossy woman you can expect to start losing your friends fast. She will soon make sure of that. Fact is you have no time for friends as all your time and effort must revolve around her. She will of course keep all her friends. It will only be you that is not allowed friends. 

Making You Ask Permission
When you date a bossy women you will soon find yourself in a position that you will need ask her permission on everything before you are allowed to do it. The good news is the answer will be a simple yes or no. Though in most cases expect it to be a no. Eventually though this will not be a problem as you will learn that you have no right to ask for anything and that everything in your life will be managed and controlled by your girlfriend or wife. 

There are many men in a wife led marriage that are serving as a slave husband. Often these husbands started out as a submissive and were trained by their wife to become a slave husband. In many cases the husband asked the wife if he could serve as a slave. For many dominant women they prefer it is the man that asks to be allowed to serve as a slave. These women love to watch their husband beg to be a slave. 

Being a slave husband is for many a higher sign of dedication then being a submissive. Serving and obeying as a true slave husband for many men is the best experience in a wife led marriage. For the wife it may take her many months or years to train her husband to be a slave. The training may involve many things the main one of which is getting the husband in the correct slave mindset. 

For the husband it is the ultimate commitment to become a slave. For those married couples thinking of taking this style of marriage it is best to talk things over first. There are many happy marriages where the husband serves as a slave. 

Men Seeking Wife Led Marriage
An ever increasing amount of men are seeking a wife led marriage. The rise in more marriages that are wife led has allowed other men to gain an understanding of the benefits of this type of relationship. These in return is leading more men to seek out this type of relationship. 

For those men already involved in a wife led marriage they are spreading the word to their friends. The internet has also allowed information to men who are interested in learning more about this style of relationship. 
For many the question is what drives these men to seek such a marriage. There are many reasons and they will vary from man to man. For most it is the attraction of a strict and dominant woman. These men feel the need and desire to obey a strict wife. 

Men in a wife led marriage are often naturally submissive to women. They have a deep inner desire to be controlled by a strict wife. A wife led marriage offers these men the happiness they desire and want in a marriage. 

While many men proclaim to the be the ruler of the roost, the truth of the matter is that in the home, most women are the boss. They are the ones that take care of the house, do the chores and dictate responsibilities, even if they work outside the home. It’s just natural for most women to do this. Their natural leadership and organizational skills lend themselves to this type of work, and their compassion for their kids and husbands make them want to provide a warm, clean environment. So why do we still pretend that the man is in charge? Why don’t we let the women take the leading role and explore their dominant tendencies fully? 

In some BDSM relationships, the men do recognize the superiority of their female partners, and they allow the wife to be the boss fully and completely. This type of relationship gives the power and the authority to the women fully, and allows her to run the home as she sees fit. In addition, the man recognizes that he is the lesser partner, and while he’s at home, he reverts to her guidance and will. This wife is the boss arrangement allows the woman free reign to explore her dominance in the home, and many women find that when given the power and responsibility to be in charge, they truly flourish. 

With a wife is the boss relationship, the dominance doesn’t just stop with the chores and cleaning schedules. Women in these relationships take power fully, and while the man is at home, he does what she says. In fact, he only leaves the home because she allows him to do so. Men in these relationships take direction and obey their wives because they recognize her superior talents, but they also enjoy being submissive and letting someone else take the lead. They also get to enjoy the kink benefits of having a Dominant wife, and when the wife is the boss, what she says in the bedroom is the way it goes as well. The man is expected to please and cater to her needs first, and his goal is to make sure she’s fully satisfied.

Many women find that taking formally taking control and having their male partners recognize their dominance is the one thing they’ve been missing all their lives, especially for naturally superior, dominant women. Living a wife is the boss relationship can allow powerful women to rise to the occasion while their submissive husbands enjoy the freedom of following. It can lead to a harmonious and happy relationship where both partners get their deepest desires of dominance and submission met, and it can reduce the friction and tension that comes from pretending they want what society says is normal. For men and women that recognize this natural female dominance, a wife is the boss relationship is a wonderful arrangement that can create true bliss in the marriage. 
GET TO KNOW YOUR DOMME:

I am a lifestyle Domme and I am not new to this. MY ONLY WAY IS TO RULE 

There's somethings you needs to know about ME: I AM not a switch, I do not seek a sub or a slave who is wanting to experiment with switching,

I see it very pointless for a DOM to message me or want anything other then chat with me, which is also very pointless being as I do never see myself having a Domme/Dom relationship.

There's nothing wrong with emailing but I won't have interest in these things/people, and will quickly grow old of the individual who is causing, POINTLESS APPEARANCES... I accept that we all have our kink and our ways. Don't cross me bitches!
"I have no interest in women who provide a service for submissive males on a casual albeit financial basis. Here the male is in control and sets the boundaries. Neither am I really interested in so called Domme / sub couples where ‘play’ sessions (Mistress and slave) are the order of the day." 


I do have a keen eye for what it is I want so yes, this is why it shows in my profile. I like to research and explore the FLR lifestyle. I am a firm believer in everything to do with it. I rarely know where to start with new FLR relationships... I'd rather not have to find another slave but being as my other slaves moved for work I am back on my search. So I lost my D/s date mojo! I will tell you this communication that's straight forward, respectful, in it's place & honest is definitely the way to go with getting my attention. Whatever your motives are will always come to light, I like to live by that rule.. it's truth! I am interested in the art of Dominance and how it begets servitude... I am pleased by a male who will be collared, owned, trained.. I do not like miscommunication or lies.

WHAT DO YOU WANT?

I cannot do the pointless back and forth of a vanilla relationship, no longer! Im here for one male and one male only he's rare I know, so I'm not looking for any run-of-the-mill, all talk, looks at the lifestyle to be about is sexual urges type of male, it's not what I want! I will not accept it!


A female led relationship is also called wife led marriage. It is also known as loving female authority. In a female led relationship, the woman serves as the household’s head. It is the woman who is responsible for all major decisions. Female led relationships do not involve chains and whips (it can!). It just involves a different arrangement of powers.

Fake dommes are really starting to anger me, as well as fake subs. I am so tired of these stupid "dommes" just trying to get money while the rest of us just enjoy controlling our subs and the most intimate part of their life. I for one just enjoy having control of how they survive. Without money a person can not survive, I get it, so get a job! Subservient natures, arouse me. I like having them around my finger and controlling the most direct thing that can make them or break them. I control what they do, buy, and how they generally live their lives. That is what excites me about findom the most. Another thing is that I have realized in the past year or so, that there are a growing number of fake subs (paypigs, cashcows ect) as well. They just do not get excitement out of findom. I find it encredibly stupid that a person would look into the community if they were not at least willing to try. I find that I need to ask for a tribute directly after talking to a sub to tell if they are a real sub or are just wasting my time. This also scares off quite a few of my potential paypigs because they think I am one of those fake dommes. I am just at a loss for words right now and very angry about this. End rant.

“Remember that BDSM is pretend. It is. We pretend that you’re a slave and I’m the Master, and we like to live that lifestyle, but the only reason it works is because both participants choose to make it work. Out of love. Out of mutual respect. The love and respect is what’s real, the bondage is an illusion. A healthy BDSM relationship is a healthy mixture of fantasy and reality.

Case in point: If you decided you’d had enough, and you didn’t want to be with your master anymore, you could leave. And nothing he said could stop you if that’s what you wanted to do.
And you know what else?
Nobody would hold it against you if you decided to do this. Nobody would say, “Oh, what a bad sub, leaving her Dom like that.” No. That’s not what the relationship is.”

Who says domination and submission are taboo? Being sexually daring can boost your D/s life!

There is a stigma that being submissive is not empowering both from a health and a sexual perspective. This is actually not true. Being at the mercy of a partner can be very empowering, as it gives the space for both male and female to move into their own fantasy. 

Giving the reins to your partner to truly seduce you can do transformative things for your  life. You can connect at a much deeper level, as you're both entrusting your boundaries to one another. In addition, for a couple to experiment with domination and submission, in a FLR, they would have to have a conversation about their fantasies, which allows for intimacy to blossom.

 

 

Sharing your sexual space and experience with your partner will allow for both of you to open up and share something so intimate that it will allow for your connection to deepen. As the connection deepens, so will the trust between you, in this FLR.

 

 

If you are both creating the space to explore taking your experience to the next level, you are empowering your relationship.


DEAR FREAKS,
YOU BITCHES CAN'T GOOGLE SHIT. HERE YOU GO TARDS, a link of fetishes:

https://www.f-list.net/doc/tag_changes.

A PLACE YOU CAN FIND OUT WHAT FETISH YOU CAN TRY AND GET INTO.
ATTN: PROFILE, STALKING, HATERS; when reading my profile if you do not like what you have read, note that, before you message me with stupid opinions... do keep in mind, I purposely left "I GIVE A FLYING FUCK ABOUT YOU" 3000 miles back! :)

YOU CAN'T HAVE ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER:

Submissive: A person that enjoys being dominated and having a chosen amount of power exchange. A submissive maintains a degree of control (some would argue more since he tells the dom what they can and can't do but that's a whole other debate). A submissive has limits, choices, preferences, safewords, and most importantly the right to say no and leave at any time.

 

Slave: A person who choses to give up all control and rights and becomes an object. This object lives in TPE (total power exchange). A slaves opinions and preferences are still there but are ignored and the owner's wants are utalized. For instance a slave can be straight, however he will still lick and service any cunt he's told to.

I am really attracted to weak, for me, girly men who do what I want them to do. Pay my bills, clean my place, wash/bathe me, let me train you! Is there any out there that are attracted to black/Cuban born females? I'm waiting for you. :*
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