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Male Dominant, 39, Troy, Michigan
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Male Dominant, 23, Delhi
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About DomXM
Blanket Statement: WE (as in a couple, NOT simply a Domme) are not looking for a male of any shape, size, or situation. No Doms, switches, subs or slaves whether you are straight, bi, gay, or TG. Basically, if your equipment is an outtie you don't fit our needs. I'm sure you're a wonderful person, but we're strictly looking for a submissive/slave female with the corresponding parts. Best of luck in finding the right fit for your needs. If you've taken the time to read this, as many emails state, and still feel the need to send a message, clearly you don't follow instructions well. I've taken to deleting without even reading beyond gender if the puzzle piece don't line up.
If you DO fit OUR requirements thus far, let's see if the rest matches, shall we?
We haven't abandoned our search completely, but are not actively monitoring this site anymore. The members don't seem to change often enough to warrant constant activity on our part. Having said that, we will respond when we receive a notification that we have an email, so if you see our profile and are interested email us because we aren't sifting through profiles anymore. In a nutshell, this is what we're seeking:
We would like to share a hetero-flexible or bisexual woman between the ages of 18 and 34(ish). A fit body is preferred, but it's not necessary.
I'm a shoe whore and would love to have a life-sized dress-up doll with a similar obsession. We'd like to spoil a woman rotten with affection, discipline, objectification, unconditional love, and a safe, secure place to be.
We've been asked in the past to explain what we have to offer, but that's such a broad, general question that it's hard to answer. It's easier to explain and show through ongoing conversations and meetings than it is through a Q&A process.
Having been burned in the past, understand that the interview process may take some time if you do contact us. It's important that the fit is right for everyone involved. Headcases not wanted. We're not interested in "fixing" you, but understand that no one is perfect. A sense of responsibility and reliability is key. Don't be flakey. We hate flakey.
Due to employment committments, there will be no face pictures on this site. That's not to say we won't provide them if a connection is made through conversation. We do have a web cam as well for chatting purposes. At the moment, we simply require discretion with how much information we initially put out there. It's a trust issue, and if you can't understand the need for trust, then you're not what we're looking for.
Experience is not required. We'll teach you exactly what we want you to know, but if you come from a background already, we'll gladly work with what you've learned elsewhere if it fits our needs.
I (F) run the majority of communication, but He is accessible upon request. The most important thing to keep in mind when contacting me is to follow directions. If I give you my chat information and direct you to contact me there, don't wait for me to come to you again. If you're interested, SHOW IT. As such, if you ARE interested, be consistent. Also be accessible. We're not interested in an online domination.
Feel free to ask questions, but do so in as respectful, articulate way as possible. plz dont leave out letters & punctuation on purpose bcuz i h8 that & wont respond
It should also be noted that the Dom half of this equation is not your typical Dom. We're of different methods. While I'm more vocal and obvious, He is more reserved in his style. He prefers to command a situation with a look or a soft whisper in your ear. If you force Him to raise His voice, it's not a good thing.
Having said that, we are both extremely respectful and treat our toys well. We don't toss our floggers in a heap in the corner. Likewise, when we approach you it will be with respect because we don't own you. Once that relationship chances, so will our dynamic. Don't for one second think that because our emails are polite that either of us aren't "alpha enough," as one disrespectful person so callously put it. You don't know us enough to judge that with any kind of educated opinion. We have references that speak for our experience. |
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Having fully made the transition to Domme from switch a while ago now, I've decided this is definitely the place for me. Although I still occasionally bottom for my husband, we both agree that we really need a dedicated submissive woman to fill that role in a more full-time capacity. Playing around with borrowed subs is fun, but it's not the same as knowing something belongs to us. After picking up some really great new toys at the last Fetish Flea, we'd really love to have someone to use them on. >;) |
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So as not to confuse anyone, here is what I'm NOT looking for:
- A Dom of any sort. Don't think that just because I identify as Switch that it means I'm on the market. The ONLY person I sub for is my husband and it is out of respect for him that I even use the moniker.
- A Top, Switch, or other version of a Dom. Please refer back to item #1.
- Someone who has a hard time with honesty.
- Anyone who wasn't raised with an understanding of basic manners. I prefer to be polite in my refusals/declines/or otherwise. If you lack the simple skills to identify a polite letdown, then I have nothing further to say to you and you will be blocked.
The way I treat people is a direct result of how they treat me. It doesn't matter what your position or label is, everyone deserves respect on a basic human level. It's ridiculous that I even have to post this. Read the profile. If you don't fit into those margins, politely explain to me why I should give you the slightest consideration for a position at all. And if you can't be the least bit respectful about it, piss off. |
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