DomTA

It's my birthday today and noone to spank :(

Sometimes I feel like I'm in the black hole for finding lovely ladies who have a submissive side. There are lots of beautiful, intelligent women here but all are over 50 miles and sometimes hundreds of miles away from me. WHat's up with that? Noone closer to me?

I have questions, sometimes a lot of them, sometimes a few. You should have questions too. How else can two people on a site like this know more about each other? I take what you write in your profile at your word. I must see if it's true and will ask. I will not ask for YIM right away. Deleted unread messages are like a slap to the face in cyberland. Do you women know that? If I make an effort to contact you, the least you could do is read what I wrote. You might not want to talk to me and thats fine, please just say so.

I still have optimism that I will find the right one for me. I will keep trying and hope to meet you soon. I know you are out there and will respond to me when I finally find you.

Because I don't read my own profile much (if ever) a typo was there for quite a while that was just brought to my attention. Thanks sweetie for having the ability  and confidence to point this out to Me.

Stepping out into the brisk night

Gazing towards the heavens

My eyes fix upon my old companion

His mighty sword pointing at the seven sisters

A slight smile warms my face

Remembered pasts, thoughts of the future

I always feel better in the company of my old friend

Night.

I have never been hurt by what I have not said.

Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe.

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.

Just a few quotes that make me think.

I am becomming increasingly despondant with this site, more specifically the women on this site. I consider myself a nice guy who has a Dominant personality when it comes to the women I like or find attractive. I am always kind and try to be humorous when contacting women on here but repeatedly find my messages unread or deleted unread. I have met a very interesting lady on here and had some conversations with her even to the point of exchanging personal e mails. I know the nature of todays women are to stay busy with work and having to do more and more to be succesful, but I cannot understand the non-answered e mails. I know you are busy but if you are not interested, just say so. My feelings will not be hurt by honesty. I feel it's essentual and I expect it.

Just a note to all you women on here: if you have preferences on race, age or anything else, state them in your profile. If I come across a profile that I find interesting and want to start a conversation with her, and I read she is not interested in men my age, I do not send a message to her. Simple. If there is no such disclaimer and My messages are deleted unread, that makes me wonder why she is on here in the first place. Go find a vanilla site and post there, don't waste my time here.

New Year's! What to do, what to do? Hmmmmmm.......................................................

Does anyone have any suggestions?

Pro switches, paid cam whores, fakes, liars. A few(very very few) real people.

Conversations started, never finished.

Unanswered Quick notes.

Feeling lonely. (yes a Dom can feel, and feel lonely too) I'm a person first, Dom next.

Let Me first say Merry Christmas to all, and especially to those I have had conversations with. I hope you all Find happiness and what you are seeking this comming year. Keep your spirits up and remember that you are all special in your own ways. I still believe that there is a perfect match for eveyone and we have to seek them out. While noone IS perfect, we may be perfect for someone else, seeing the faults we all have as great traits and the great traits as blessings.

Everyone have fun and be safe, keep smiling and have faith in yourselves.

T

Have you ever heard of not judging a book by it's cover? lol I guess most women on here have not. I messaged a woman today to have her respond in a nasty mannor.  I replied with a tc and have fun only to have it deleted unread. I guess since she was nasty that I would respond that way too.

I'm finding that so called" slaves" have no concept of the term. Maybe there should be a "bitch" category.

Ok, first journal entry.....so I've messaged a few lovely ladies here on CM only to be "deleted unread" read without a response , not read or a short message exchange that ends very quickly. What is wrong with the women here on CM? Is there that many losers on here tormenting women that an honest man can't have a conversation with anyone? If I don't fit into what your "perfect idea of a Dom" is, just a quick note stating that and I will gladly leave you alone.

I must say there has been 2, yes only 2 that have been honest and responded in a similar manner and guess what? I haven't contacted them other than a thank you note saying I wish them well.

I know its not me or what I write, if you were thinking that. I am a gentleman. I don't call women slut. whore, or any such derogatory remarks on a first contact. And, for that matter probably never will. That's just my nature.

Oh well, just ranting a little so you women will be a little more cautious in the future to the Men who don't degrade you in a message and are looking for a ltr with a true submissive woman.