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Hetero Male Master, 52,  Upstate, New York
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Is there anyone real here?Every profile claims to be looking for something but yet no one ever everyone that rude or that fake? is there anyone that would like to talk to a real person that treats everyone with respect?

.Im an experienced,mature,single Dom.I love life and love to laugh.I am employed and responsible..I have been in vanilla relationships but have found I much prefer Ds.

I am intelligent and well spoken.....I might surprise you...take a chance what do i seek from a sub?Intelligence and common sense( I dont want a doormat)Someone that has an opinion but knows how to express it respectfully.High sex drive(only way were going to get along)Those are some basic requirements that are non negotiable....Rather than list everything, I prefer to talk and get to know someone rather than give a pre written speech here.I have a college education and I am demanding but reasonable...I am NOT a sadist( I dont mind giving pain but it is NOT what Im about)although if it is your thing I can be very accommodating!!!I would classify myself as more the loving daddy dom but i really hate to give labels..

Age play and Daddy play are often misunderstood to those outside of the kinky community. One can assume the role of DaddyMommy or boyboigirl regardless of their actual age or gender. The article below from guest author, Fetlifes WizarDavid, gives a very accurate peek into the relationship of a Daddy Dominant and Babygirl. This is part of a series of articles called Beyond 50 Shades of Grey that take a deeper, more realistic look at elements of BDSM. Get ready to go Beyond 50 Shades.

Just what is a Daddy Dom? Well, to start with, a Daddy Dom is first and foremost a Dom. He chooses the subcategory of Daddy within the lifestyle of dominance and submission (Ds). Lets get one thing out of the way right at the beginning. A Daddy Dom does not promote incest or pedophilia as the kink may be misunderstood by ignorant people. Rather, in this specific subcategory, the dynamic is set up for the male dominant to be called Daddy, and the female submissive (sub) to be called girl, little girl, or babygirl, etc. Rarely is she called daughter, as this evokes too many parallels to incest, which Daddies and their girls detest. And while some doms and some subs may have been victims of family violence, incest, or other abuse, Daddy Doms and their girls are not overrepresented in these categories any more than the general population.

The following are some of the fundamental characteristics, and indeed needs, that all Daddy dominants seem to share universally

1. Her Number One Fan, the Daddy usually believes in his girl more than she herself does, and often uses the wisdom of his age to see her not only for who she is, but also for who she can become. A Daddys eyes light up when his girl enters the room. He is proud of her and praises her for not just for what she accomplishes, but for what she attempts, and for who she is. He accepts her for who she is, flaws and all.

2. And he knows all her flaws because he is also her ultimate Confidant, allowing her to bare her soul to him beyond all others. She may have many different relationships and types of friends in her life. But Daddy will be her umbrella confidant. The one with whom she can talk about absolutely anything and trust that what she tells Daddy stays with Daddy. He is the one from whom she withholds nothing. The one who doesnt mind if she needs to call and talk at 3am.

3. He is the Protector of his girl against real or perceived threats, dangers, and bad people. Sometimes a little girl just needs to curl up in Daddys arms and smile at some of his bluster, and sometimes the Daddy may have to act on his protective instincts. Pity the person who messes with a Daddys girl.

4. Her Teacher and mentor shows her new things that come from a longer and possibly wider set of life experiences. Daddy likes to take his girl to places she has never been, feed her foods she has never eaten, and do activities she has never enjoyed before. He is never so happy as when he can look in her eyes and know he has given her something she has never had before. This also translates into sexual adventurism for some Daddygirl couples. He symbolically deflowers her on a regular basis, whether that be sexual or just in exposure to new life adventures.

5. He wants to be her Guide and advisor. As the girl makes her way in the world, Daddy wants to be there to answer her questions, calm her fears, make her insecurities go away, and give her sound advice based on his years of experience.

6. Anchor. The Daddy dom is an unyielding, unmovable anchor in the storm. No matter what happens in the girls life, she knows her Daddy will be right there where he has always been, and she can hold onto that even if she is blinded by her own tears. Daddies know the storm will pass, and she will be safe, but she needs something to hold onto that will not move.

7. Disciplinarian. When the girl acts badly, she expects to be disciplined or punished for the infraction. Most Daddy dominants find it occasionally difficult to keep this up, especially as the affection for their girl grows. They would love nothing more than to spoil their girls, but they realize this is the path to ruin. One a girl begins to believe she can manipulate Daddy, she no longer sees him as her dominant, unyielding anchor. A girl needs the stability and protection of a man who is more dominant than she is. To demonstrate that characteristic, Daddies must sometimes be excessively strict and rigid, more so than they would in normal relationships. The act of disciplining the girl may be used as part of a sadomasochistic activity.

I can be many things to right person. Dont be shy ...say hi.. I love to chat and welcome you,I will answer all mail












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