domquixote2005

I am a single, 40 year old top dom male. I have been active in the scene on and off for about 8 years now.

I am open-minded, inquisitive, intelligent, and creative. I am also patient, and I have interest outside of bdsm. Overall, I see myself as a work in progress. I have come to see my acceptance of social mores and norms as something to challenge. This is not to say that I think all social mores are to be undone, but that I will choose which social mores I will accept based upon reflection, critical thought, and safe sane and consentual experimentation.

Accordingly, I've experimented with switching, but realize that I am neither a sub nor a bottom. I have also experimented with bisexuality, but find that I am much more attracted to women than men. I am now exploring my own hesitation about sadistic play and behavior, and am trying to decide my own stance on such activities based on experience.

I am professionally employed, financially I'm fairly well off, and I'm single. I'm looking for a partner to join me in exploring our limits. Ultimately, I'm looking for a ltr with a submissive woman who will accept my collar one day. But I realize that, if done right, such relationships develop at their own speed.