DomOso

After spending more than 17 years in the life both here and in San Francisco I have a different view than most.

Too often the D/s M/s relationships are used as a vehicle for abuse by those who have minimal self esteem, label themselves as a Dom or Master and cloak their frail persona's in a veil of power with a false title. These individuals are no more a part of this lifestyle, then a Nun would be at a biker rally. They are shallow individuals with low self esteem who find their worth by abusing others.
In short, the bond between a Dom and his sub is forged in trust. For trust is the basis of the subs ability to truly submit to her Dom.

When I say submit, I mean when she truly submits, body, heart, mind and person. It is a gift, it should be cherished, nourished and used to explore the sub's / slave's current mental and physical capabilities, the depths of the sub's/slave's psyche and their physical and mental limitations. This is the journey I hope to embark on with a new sub.

Then we speak to the collar. I love it when a "cyber" or PTDOM immediately puts a "collar" on a witless pony. Here is a news flash...a collar is something that is EARNED. It is not some meaningless piece of leather or stainless steel thrown on a a new pony right after some velcrodom gets lucky enough to get his dick wet.

The collar is earned through training, trust and submission and is a symbol of the commitment of a sub t her Dom. It should be original, crafted by your hand if possible, and subtle enough for her to wear in every day life so she never forgets who she is accountable to.

And finally we speak to the sexual act. Sex is the icing on the cake. Domination is not about sex.....it is about release of control and submission to the will of another. A true Dom will only consummate a relationship AFTER the art of submission has begun. Submission extends far beyond the use of a subs body for the sexual pleasure of her Dom.

If you have read this far, it is only the beginning.

IF you are interested in walking a path that will challenge the very fiber of your psyche. Contact me... I am open...to those that are worthy.