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Dominance is not about who can shout the loudest, or handle the roughest. True dominance is about understanding the needs and, dare I say, desires of the submissive.

You will never have me write to you making supercilious demands like “Kneel Bitch” or “Let me tell you what i will do to you....” I leave that to the fakes and players of which this site has numerous examples.

Let me tell you what I believe. Your submission is your gift. A gift given freely to the one person who touches your mind, heart or even soul. You should be as choosy as I am when making that choice or gift. I will only want you if we connect on more than one level. I am not talking of love at first ‘bite’ here, but adopting a more realistic approach to finding a long term partner.

I don’t want casual, or pretend, or online or cyber. I expect you to not want that either. I seek a slave or submissive (they are different you know) who wishes to put their trust in me, as I would in them. I would expect to disuss their needs and examine their limits. I am egocentric enough to want to give them pleasure.

As a retired teacher of history, I have opinions, views, love of many things outside of D/s. Whilst I want 24/7, I sure as hell know that there are times when other things become important. As two adults (or possibly three) we should be able to work this out.

I seek the right one, not anyone I want you to seek the same. I am free to go where I wish, so I have absloutely no worries about crossing the ‘pond’ or travelling to the other side of the world.

Be real and realistic. Be ambitious and a seeker. I have so many years experience that i know I can fulfil your ambitions and help in your search.

So much more for us to know, but time to know it well.....

DORIAN (not Sir or Master, just my name)