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Male Dominant, 47, New Orleans, Louisiana
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Dominant Couple, 28, New York City, New York
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Male Dominant, 51
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About DomMFcouple
If you are a
female submissive or slave who wants to be trained to serve a couple as a BDSM submissive / slave
contact us after reading the following...
Serious inquiries only!
READ ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE SENDING US A MESSAGE!
We are real,
experienced in bdsm, very open minded & uninhibited,
poly,
clean, fun, and
adventurous.
Into various aspects of BDSM including:
Domination & submission,
Master/slave training,
Bondage,
Blindfolding,
Ass & breast worship,
Corsets,
Garters & stockings,
Collars & leash,
Foot worship,
Humiliation
(verbal and physical),
Latex fetishwear,
MFM, MMFM, FFM, GBs, etc.,
Obedience training,
Objectification,
Oral service,
Orgasm control,
Open to Poly relations,
Victorian household,
Spanking,
Talking dirty,
S/M
and indulgence in Sexual Debauchery associated with BDSM sex.
(look at our list of interests on the left side of this profile to learn more of what we are into)
Dominant Master,
Alpha Male
6'4", 210 lbs,
dark hair,
blue eyes,
Bi-Female sub/switch 5'6", 140 lbs, blonde hair, 36D
(Look at the additional photos on this profile to give you a clear idea of what we look like)
INSTRUCTIONS REGARDING CONTACT:
If you are a bi-curious or bi-sexual female submissive or a bdsm slave then contact us with the information requested below.
Send a clear face and body picture of you and tell us something about you that would create more interest on our part for us to consider you as a potential submissive or slave who wishes to
meet with us and have fun while exploring your submissive or slavery desires.
Include your :
1.) No. of yrs with BDSM experience
2.) what type of BDSM relationship you are interested in
3.) What are your hard limits
if any
Then...Tell us why you feel you would be a good candidate to serve as a submissive/slave.
IMPORTANT NOTE !
Any submissive or slave who is worthy of being considered will demonstrate her ability
to follow directions and
show her submissive character.
Paying attention to what we are seeking and responding appropriately with a clear face and body picture
as well as
your level of experience, interests and
hard limits is required.
If you cannot follow directions regarding contact and proving you are for real then don't bother writing us or wasting our time.
We look forward to meeting those of you who are seriously interested... |
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BDSM Principles & basics...
What is it to be a submissive or a slave?
In order to understand what it is to be a submissive slave then basicially what the submissive slave needs to learn are the basic priniciples of her existence (be it part-time or fulltime). It requires her to put total trust in her Master/Master Trainer without question (though yes, she may have questions or doubts while in training, but it is not her place to voice those. Rather she should develop her patience and wait for the answers to come in time or simply let go of the need to know the answers...as her Master may intend). The submissive or slaves role is to do and be as she is told and put all else aside in her mind. This is what the sub/slave is to focus on.
THEN comes peace of mind because the questions either will be answered or the questions she had she will find are no longer relevant.
As a female submissive i choose to give total trust and i do just that. Because i do so, i have that peace in my mind that comes from the absolute giving of myself, nothing else matters...it vanishes. To describe it is impossible.
In essence, the servitude, humbleness and ridding of the ego that we learn from Master and His teaching can only enable us to be a better person, to become a work of art rather than a piece of art.
When a Master potter is creating a vessel for his use, he molds it using clay and water and other ingredients. At first it has no shape and may appear to be ugly. It takes work to create and mold, more water, less water but even the ingredients the Master potter uses do not fight back...they become what the potter's hands make them into. In the same way you need to allow the Master to mold you, to shape you, to create you. That can only be done by getting your ego out of the way. Let Him mold you. Do not concern yourself with the questions that plague your mind. Don't worry about all that. It just creates havoc and chaos...something to be avoided.
Many submissives and slaves search for freedom from their everyday responsibilities and our lifestyle can be a tool. However, there is deeper freedom that can be experienced outside of the scene or when in BDSM play...our mind and soul can experience freedom.
But one cannot experience that unless one lets go of what they think they want (or thinking from your ego) and give up your desires to Master and to what He requests. To focus on pleasing and following His directions and doing it well.
Only then can a submissive or slave know what the freedom is...it will come to you through letting go.
Many times this girl has wanted to question Him. Many times this girls false mind (her ego) has gotten in the way. Many times this girl has fought it much to find disappointment and displease her Master. However, the times i did let go and just give myself over to His will and have said "Yes Sir Master Sir" not just with my voice, but with my heart, are the most rewarding and freeing for me (deep inside)....something i cannot quite put my finger on and it is something i don't need to understand either...it just is.
The same way as it "just is" that Master is the one i focus on pleasing...no questions.
Sometimes there are no answer's to the why's of our lives and our need to be submissive or slaves in this life....one just has to take they way things are as they come and not question. And sometimes, if we have patience the answers will come to us. But most of time those questions just bog down our minds and we worry and concern ourselves over nothing at all and upset ourselves for nothing. We make stuff up in our heads by creating the drama that the ego needs to feed itself from and find ways to attempt to take credit for
what is or is not to its liking.
Yet, we are not to serve our own egos but rather our Masters. Our role is to serve our Masters will and He takes care of us in return in the way He knows we need in order for us to develop and grow into our roles as sub/slaves. We must learn to let go and trust Him. Focusing on our roles as submissives or slaves in service to Him.
It is the Masters role... to handle those things we question and think about in our minds. It is up to the submissive or slave
to let go of the need to think,
let go of the need to control,
let go of the need to know then answers in order for her to discover the peace she yearns for inside. This is done by letting go of the ego way of thinking and trusting that Master knows best. If a submissive or slave does this then in time the she will come to understand His wisdom and share in this as well.
It is the submissive/slaves role to give in and let go of her minds resistence (her ego) to serving her Masters will.
His will becomes hers.
A submissive slave focuses her attention on listening, learning, following her Masters instructions, paying attention to any detail He gives and to immerse herself in selfless service kind of thinking, instead of, her thinking her own way as she may have been used to. It requires a strength most are not willing to use and giving up something (the ego) that wants to resist being given up.
Some say "this is too hard".
It is only as hard as the submissive/slave makes it ...for once she is in that place it becomes easy for the submissive or slave girl who truly wishes to fill her role in service. So simply doing what she is told and being what she is (a submissive or slave) is how she learns to let go of all that which keeps her separate from her true self and
Service to another is among the highest calling in a submissive or slaves life.
It is a step in spiritual advancement for her and her Master. For when she knows her role and is in her place she becomes an asset to the dynamic of the M/s relationship with her Master.
I have heard others speak of the M/s relationship as being impossible or close to impossible. The fundamental principles of this type of relationship are not just tangible and they are not meant just for this type of lifestyle. The principles we learn should take root in our soul, in our thinking and trickle out in our relationships with our children and the way we teach them, in our work relationships and how our work ethics are, and in our relationships with others and how we interact.
love and kisses,
Mistress C |
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LETTER FROM GOD TO WOMEN
When I created the heavens and the earth, I spoke them into being.
When I created man, I formed him and breathed life
into his nostrils.
But you, woman, I fashioned after I breathed the
breath of life into man because your nostrils are too delicate. I
allowed a deep sleep to come over him so I could patiently and perfectly
fashion you. Man was put to sleep so that he could not interfere with the
creativity.
From one bone, I fashioned you. I chose the bone that protects man's
life. I chose the rib, which protects his heart and lungs and supports
him, as you are meant to do.
Around this one bone, I shaped you....... I modeled you. I created
you perfectly and beautifully. Your characteristics are as the rib, strong
yet delicate and fragile. You provide
protection for the most delicate organ in man, his heart. His
heart is the center of his being; his lungs hold the breath of life.
The rib cage will allow itself to be broken before
it will allow damage to the heart. Support man as the rib cage
supports the body.
You were not taken from his feet, to be under him,
nor were you taken from his head, to be above him. You
were taken from his side, to stand beside him and be
held close to his side. You are my perfect angel.....
You are my beautiful little girl. You have grown to be a
splendid woman of excellence, and my eyes fill when I see the
virtues in your heart.
Your eyes......don't change them.
Your lips -- how lovely when they part in prayer.
Your nose, so perfect in form.
Your hands so gentle to touch.
I've caressed your face in your deepest sleep.
I've held your heart close to mine.
Of all that lives and breathes, you are most like me.
Adam walked with me in the cool of the day, yet he
was lonely.
He could not see me or touch me.
He could only feel me.
So everything I wanted Adam to share and experience with me, I
fashioned in you; my holiness, my strength, my purity, my love, my
protection and support.
You are special because you are an extension of me.
Man represents my image, woman my emotions.
Together, you represent the totality of God.
So man......treat women well. Love her, respect her, for she is
fragile.
Woman treat your man well, it is he for whom you were created, to serve and bring balance to His life. Without Him you will not be complete. |
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It never ceases to amaze me how the majority of women here on Collarme claim to be submissive yet they behave like their angry, are demanding and even dominant. If you are a submissive then take a look at yourself, how you appear to a dom and then learn how to act like a submissive would act to attract a Dom/Master. News Alert! when you post what you are not seeking as DEMANDS online, instead of the good qualities you have to the few quality Dominants or Masters who are seeking truly submissive or slave females you are not going to attract them! This is not to imply you cannot state your preferrences of what you seek in a Dom or Master. It is to impress upon you to learn how to present your submissive character without it coming across as demanding or worse....angry. Look at it this way...your on the interent with thousands of people who have no life,
no clue how to have a healthy relationship much less any healthy idea of what BDSM or D/s is about. So instead of acting like you are something your not and attracting those who also are not what they profess to be...why not simply share something true about yourself that would make you attractive to the opposite sex or to the real Doms/Masters on here? If your experienced then share that, if your not and willing to learn then share that as well. But tell (and show) as much about yourself that would make you attractive to what you seek. It's a shame that this simple obvious fact needs to be mentioned and so many need reminding of this.
Experience has proven that MOST women online here on CM are not being honest about themselves nor have a clue about BDSM, what a submissive or slave is, much less how to behave appropriately as someone claiming to be a submissive or a slave.
Wake up call! If you want quality Dominant to be interested in you then take the time to learn how to present yourself in a manner that would show a Dom/Master that you are someone who they would want as a submissive or slave. Be humble and most of all be willing to let go of your ego in order to learn.
Your on a BDSM personals site! If you act like a bitch then you will only attract more of what that behavour attracts. It's ridiculous to see all of the demands the so called "submissives or slaves" on this website make and then they expect a quality Dominant or Master to consider them as someone they would want as a sub or slave.
That is a waste of everyones time.
Being submissive means having the strength to be humble and let go of the need to be in control, the need to be heard or the need to be right, the need to have the last word and letting go of the need to express your frustration or anger. It means redirecting your attention on your desires to be a submissive or slave and to develop your good qualities and focus on them not on your frustrations and drama. |
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BDSM relationships and vanilla relationships differ in one important way. Since D/s unions have rigidity to them - and that is their beauty, a firm structure and real trust - they lack one trait that is integral to vanilla ones, elasticity, but I have allowed for that in more ways than one since I do not prefer a rigidly formal relationship but do want a D/s one. For example, if a vanilla wifey throws dishes at her hubby, calls him a "little-dicked butt boy" and then tells him to "go fuck himself," she can later apologize; they can have some make-up sex and, most times, all is well in the neighborhood. Try doing that to a real Dom or Master and see what happens. More than likely, you will not even have to ask for your release because the power exchange will be toast. Done. Finished.
Although every D/s partnership is different, they are all built on trust. If you cede power to another person, you trust that person in a myriad of ways. You trust him in play, you trust him with many important decisions (depending on your arrangement) and you trust him/her to be honest. Lying can be deleterious to vanilla relationships; and in BDSM it means the end of the relationship because trust is broken. After all, one definitive way of seeing if a person is trustworthy is to check if they are telling the truth all the time. If one never lies, the logical assumption is that they never lie. But lie just once, and the question, "how many times have they lied to me besides this one?" pops up in even the most trusting of Dominants and submissives.
Also, many people online claim to be submissives or slaves (there is a difference between the two by the way which I share with you)
but in reality they not and usually have no clue of what a true and well trained submissive or slave behaves like. The same is true for so called doms that are online. Most are just weak men who seek weak women or sadistic men who seek women with low self-esteem to release their violent tendencies or anger against women on.
You should know already from the extent of what I have shared on my profile on CM that I am neither a fake nor sadist. I am a Master because...I have invested time and extensive effort in becoming clear on who I am as a man, what it takes to be a true Master as well as a human being and also a Dominant Alpha Male in the realm of BDSM.It takes strength and discipline to become a good sub/slave and also alot of effort, wisdom and energy to be a good Dominant. Make no mistake here, I am not explaining myself for I should not and would not have to as a Dominant Master to any sub/slave. I am simply sharing insight with you.
You will not find another like me and if you take the time to be with me and win me over as your Master and are collared by me then I assure you that your every dream and desire with a D/s relationship can and will most likely come true for you.
I am very secure and confident as a Dominant Male and while I am not rigid in my everyday actions I do expect my sub to be obedient and someone who has a true desire to please and prove herself worthy of the love, protection, guidance and even provisions I will provide her in return for her loyality and service to me. |
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I know why you're here.
I know what you've been doing...
why you hardly sleep,
why you live alone and why night after night,
you sit by your computer.
You're looking for Him...
"The One" who you can follow and will guide you safely into the unknown.
You always thought that you would fall in love and that that man...that you would love would be the One.
I know you're out there.
I can feel you now.
I know that you're afraid... afraid of the unknown,
afraid of being vulnerable, afraid of exposing your self
afraid of possibly being hurt,
and afraid of change.
I don't know the future.
I didn't come here to tell you how this is going to end.
I came here to tell how it's going to begin.
If you join me I'm going to show you a world where anything is possible.
Where we go from there is a choice I leave to you."
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