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About DommeZen
Mature Feminization Domme
I have been on collar me and other fetish websites for 20 plus years. ?My fetish is very specific, so I prefer to deal only in subs with feminization fetish. ?I am knowledgeable about subjects related to feminization and cross gender role play like verbal humiliation, discipline (spanking, paddling, cropping, flogging), strap on play, anal play, cuckolding, bisexuality, faggotry, ?age play, sissies, tease and denial, chastity, shopping trips, taking you out dressed, dress up at home, fantasies of hormonal transition. ?
I am a sensual Domme not a sadistic one. ? Those people I choose to spend my time with appreciate my nurturing type personality which is more like a Mommy Domme than a Mistress / slave dynamic. ?
I have transsexual, transgender and crossdresser friends. ?I label my orientation as "queer" rather than heterosexual, bisexual or lesbian although I have spent several years using each of those labels and in relationships consistent with those orientations. ?My orientation really does not fit within the bounds of traditional labels. Neither does my gender. My appearance is more like an androgynous lesbian than a femme woman. My husband is female to male trans. If that bothers you, look elsewhere. I am only looking for those submissives who have an open mind.
If you are a pain slut, you should look elsewhere. ?My Zen approach to domination will frustrate you and you won't feel chemistry with me. ?Don't assume I'm into your thing. ? If your thing is drama, then move along. I got over game playing a long time ago. ?
There are lots of types within the BDSM community. ?Just because I am not into your thing doesn't mean I'm not aware of it. ?I've talked with lots of people and I've heard lots of fantasies. ?Nothing shocks me at this point. I am also very selective, so don't make an assumption that because you have a lot in common with me as far as fetish interests that I should give you my attention. I KNOW WHAT I WANT. ?
That being said, I am easy to approach. ?I am kind and intelligent and imaginative. ?I respond to politeness and straightforwardness. ?If you are respectful, then that is 9 tenths of the way towards having a positive interaction with me.
Woburn, Winchester, Reading, Medford, Everett, Salem, Peabody, Somerville, Arington
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I do not want you to try to mold yourself into the sub that I want. I do not want you to deceive me about your interests in order to try to win my attention. I would prefer that people are authentically who they are and portray themselves honestly.
I am very clear that what I like is feminization. Many people have sent me messages saying they liked this or they liked that, but they would try the feminization if it pleases me. Let me put it a little more clearly. If you haven't been fantasizing about feminization for years and if you do not long for that more than any other BDSM act that you do, then I will feel like my knowledge is wasted. There are so many out there who are longing for someone who understands feminization and too few of us who like it, that I feel like it is unfair to them to bestow my attention on someone who is not really into it.
Please understand also that I am not a heterosexual woman. If you are heterosexual then we probably have nothing in common. I relate better to bisexual men, gender non conforming and transgender people. If you are heterosexual, you probably have not the slightest clue how to please me or even what turns me on. I lived too long in the lesbian world to even relate to men in the same way that I used to when I was a young woman. I really have no attraction to straight men. |
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I do like tasty buns! Love to spank them til they glow a nice pink color. |
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I live in the North Boston area. I used to live in Illinois. I am kit sure why the Illinois people are still looking at my profile.
I am also married. Although we are poly we have not really found that special person for a third. We are both bi. |
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My main interest is feminization and spanking. If you do not have one of those interests you should look elsewhere. I have lots of experience with gender play. |
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