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Male Dominant, 34, New York City, New York
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Female Dominant, 48, ocean springs, Louisiana
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Female Dominant, 52, Houston, Texas
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About DommeDownUnder
www.mensubmit.com
DO NOT message me if you are from another continent. And do not message me and ask me if I will abuse you on cam. And do not message me if you have a partner.
I have been in Female Led Relationships for years and very much enjoy submissive men. Let me start off by saying that if you are in any way with another woman, I am not interested in you. That means married, living with someone, dating someone, separated, or any other encumbrance you might have.
I need a man who can excite my mind in addition to my body. Boys are a dime a dozen, but a man who is capable of taking responsibility for his life seems to be rare. I am equally comfortable dressing up for an executive party as hitting the nude beach. I am dominant and kinky, but relish the times that I can be intimate and touch and kiss, and just talk with the man that I love.
I am looking for a relationship. I understand that does not happen with everyone you meet, and that when it does it is something special. You should be 100% committed to the idea of entering a relationship if we were to click. If you have even a 1% chance in your head that you do not want a relationship, please do not contact me.
I spend too much time on the internet with this site. I don't like to sit in front of the computer any more than I have to, and I will want to meet you fairly soon if I think that there is anything there at all. If you have a history of not showing up for meetings, then we are not a match.
If you are at all interested, write me a message. It does not have to be profound, but do tell me why you are interested in me and what you are looking for.
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Sub Challenge:
Is there a single sub out there in my general area, between the ages of 35-55 who is interested in a relationship?? More than just kink play?
I want a man who I can come home and share my day with, as he serves me.? I want a man with whom I can travel and explore. And end the day with some kinky fun together.?
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If you are married, or all you want is play, why do you not use a pro-domme? ?
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Some sub men amaze me. I've met some great guys through this site. Not all of them are terrible players.? I have a really good one I have met through here.? However, I had a conversation with a sub today from this site.? He was all about 'me me me, kink kink kink'.? I like kink as much as the next person, after all, I am on Collar Me.? But he started off the conversation with the fact that he was interested in finding a woman he could connect with.? Then regaled me with 100 do-me questions, all 'cleverly' written in 'do you like...'
So after a bit of this, I tell him that that all of his chat with me has been about kink, and that if he is truly interested in a relationship with a woman, even though she is domme, he must impress the woman.? That he should discuss non kink things.? His response was that talking about filling up your car with gasoline is boring.? Evidently there is nothing in life between filling your car with gas and kink.? Which is after all a bit telling about him.
I explained to him that as there are quite a few sub men out there, and less domme women, that he should treat it somewhat like a job interview.? Granted, that is not the best metaphor, but it is not a terrible one.? You want to be at your best, you don't want to lie but you are trying to put your best foot forward, you want to learn about the woman, show her you are interested in her, and so on.
After I said this he went ballistic.? Told me that was whoring (the irony here being that was one of his kinks to be 'whored' out).? That he couldn't believe that I think impressions are important.? All he does in interviews is lie anyhow.? That all Americans just want to trade things, and that I am a dumb American.
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Let me start off my saying I have met some really nice men through this site.? Real men who are fun and reliable.
I have a pet peeve though, and that is men who have no intention of showing up.? Or perhaps they do have the intention of showing up but get scared and don't show.? Don't get me wrong, I understand emergencies come up.? I always give the guy a way to contact me and tell me if he can't make it for some reason.? I am a pretty reasonable person.
Here is the thing that most men don't understand.? Dominant women talk to each other.? And we tell each other who is flaky and won't show up.? I've personally passed on the ids of men on this site who have not showed for a meeting and not contacted me to tell me they are not showing.
I have two suggestions.? The first is that if you are one of those men who is not going to show, either because you just want to play on the internet, or because you are terrified, DO NOT schedule a meeting with a woman.? Be honest and tell her that you will not show up.? The second suggestion, don't contact me.? There are enough real men out here who show up.? Don't waste my time.?
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I received several responses back to my question on why men add you as an admirer without telling you.? One man said it is a good way to 'bookmark' you to see what you write in your journal.? A couple others say that it is in hope that I will contact them, and why don't I take a chance on them.
Here is the thing men need to understand.? As a woman, I get between 20-50 messages on collar me a day.? Some of those are scammers.? Some of those are men who live on other continents.? Some are married and just want you to get them off on the internet.? However, some of them are decent guys that are well worth talking to, and I have met some decent real guys through CM.
What I am trying to say is that it is rarely necessary for me to initiate contact on CM.? I typically receive enough legitimate messages from men that I don't have to initiate the conversations.
So guys, if you are interested in a dominant woman, you should take the time to message her.?
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Why do men add themselves as Admirers and not ever contact you??
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I am accepting applications for a housecleaning slave.? Send me a message with your experience. ?
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My old profile name was adomme.? CM doesn't allow you to change names, so I have created a new profile.
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