domme4youngsub

A dommes guide for the submissive male

As a domme in this lifestyle I am looking for the elusive young single male sub. 

What that means ...

That means that I am looking for someone with whom I am going to make a connection both physically and mentally.  I am looking for someone who tells me someone original about themselves.  Tell me how much you like service and obedience not how much you want me to fuck you with a strap on.  Don't get me wrong I will fuck my submissives anyway I want whenever I want to but that's the reward for serving not a god given right.  I have rules for my submissives that I expect to be followed but I also care for and treat my submissives like the gifts they are.   It's part of belonging to a domme.  In order to interest me you must be original, fun, funny and smart.  I want my subs to have their own lives .. job, friends, family.  I want to spend time with you but not at the cost of your independence.  My expectation of my submissives is to attend lifestyle parties and events.  As my submissive its my choice to hand you over to a domme who is interested in topping you.  That will happen and I expect you to smile and say "Yes Mistress".  I will always protect you and make sure no harm comes to you.  I think I am pretty safe in saying that what every domme wants is a submissive who is interested in her.  How can you serve a domme if you don't take the time to know her.  Her like, dislikes, turns ons etc.  It will pay off big if you just stow your little head.  I require time and in return I give my time.         

What it doesn't mean ...

I have no intention of talking about sex with you from the first sentence.   If you interest me and we'll talk about sex, limits, lifestyle.  If your seeking to shock me that's pretty hard.  I've seen a lot I know what I am interested in and what I'm not.  Let me shock you all now ... almost every male sub is interested in anal play, is bi curious, and wants to be fucked with a strap on.  I get it.  Let's move on and talk about how your going to handle rules, chastity and obedience.  Please stop yourself from sending me random cock shots that are unasked for.  When I want to see your goods I'll ask and at that point you can assume I am pretty interested.  If your married or involved and playing on the side be honest.  Domme's are not stupid and you will get caught. If you are approaching me and thinking that we are going to spend 1 hour together once a month and I won't know your attached I'll save you the time .. I'll know.  If I choose to speak with you it's purely a courtesy and a getting to know you thing its not a committment.  D/S is not instant just add water.  I'm sorry it just doesn't work that way.