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The Submissives Rights

i have the right to set limits, and expect them to be respected.
i have the right to trust, providing I have earned it.
i have the right to expect You to believe I am an intelligent, caring and loyal person.
i have the right to ask for Your attention,without having to misbehave to get it.
i have the right to expect You to administer Your punishment on me with care and caution.
i have the right to question your motives,should You deny my requests, as long as I do so with the proper respect.
i have the right to speak up if I feel O/our relationship is not giving me what I need.
i have the right to tell You what I need in a respectful manner.
i have the right to expect You to understand my reasons for doing so, and the right to expect You to listen with an open mind and heart.
i have the right to walk away from our relationship if W/we cannot come to a common ground on these issues.
i have the right to expect tenderness, love and understanding after a scene is completed, should it be what I desire.
i have the right to ask You for that tenderness if I've had a bad day,or if I just feel the need for closeness, I understand that there will be times when You and I will disagree about this ~when You will want a scene and I will not.
i have the right to voice my opinion, and expect You to listen to and consider my reasonings, I expect You to have final word, but i expect You to wholeheartedly consider my feelings,whatever they may happen to be.

The Submissives Creed

I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and I from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm. I will not try to manipulate my Master. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not accustomed to or comfortable with and expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being. I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Master, and will do my best to fulfill His wishes and desires. I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused, I know that submissive does not equal "doormat".

I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives, I will share my knowledge and experiences with others in the hope that they will learn from where I have been I will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.

I will be responsive to my Master, I will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that I may assist Him in His responsibilities as my Authority, I know that Dominants are not telepathists, and will not expect my Master to know thought or feelings which I do not share.

I will never think myself a "better" submissive because I choose to submit on a different level than another. I will not be boastful of experiences I have had as a sub. I know that my actions reflect upon my Master, and will do my best to help others see him in a positive way, I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Master.

Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with honor, I will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub~human. I will take pride in who and what I am, and will never show myself in a negative way.

HAPPINESS IS A CITY IN THE STATE OF MIND

some people search and hope they dont find, and when they do find, they dont know what it is they found, nor what to do with what they find.

PROCRASTINATION IS ONE OF THE MOST COMMON AND DEADLIEST OF DISEASES, IT'S TOLL ON SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS IS HEAVY.

 ALL GLORY COMES FROM DARING TO BEGIN

 
On the day we meet,
you will want to be kneeling at my feet
lifting you chin, as you gaze into my eyes
knowing you belong to me, will be no surprise
you have yearned for me, for so long
now that you have found me, nothing can be wrong.
                        

if you plan to FAIL, you will SUCCEED.

we are not responsible for other peoples faults or their perceptions.

for all you REAL and GENUINE women here on collarme, who have unfortunately encountered "the elements".......which has given us SINCERE men, a bit of a challenge....

 I was chatting with this person, everything was going smooth......she said she liked my profile, and she is NOT married..........about 10 minutes later she types and I quote.........."sorry, I have to go, my HUSBAND is home"..........I am like........duuuhhhh!!!.........and proceeded to tell her the way it is, quite bluntly!!......she got upset.......oh, poor thing...

I AM STILL LAUGHING!!!!

for those who are seeking true inner happiness and contentment.....ponder the following"

 ALWAYS WANT AND FIND A WAY TO SAY YES, UNLESS THERE IS A COMPELLING REASON TO DO OTHERWISE