Dominusperquiro

  So tired of the same silly game. More and more, people are requiring "proof photos", or cam to verify that the "potential slave" they're talking to is actually who they claim to be. I am one of these people.

   There are many potentials out there who seem to be very put off by this request. They put a "pic" of themselves on their page, but say it's "too dangerous" to send a proof picture... Think about it. Then there are those without a picture on their page, who claim the same thing. This makes a little more sense. But still, is it that hard to understand that while we're chatting here, or on YIM, or wherever, we are nothing but "words in a box"?

   Most potentials say they will be happy to send proof, but only after we've "talked a few times". What is the point?? If you won't prove you're real, how can you expect to be taken seriously? If you put up a page claiming to want to serve as a slave, to do anything and everything your master might wish, only to refuse them the peace of mind that comes from knowing you're not just another fake game player, then you're not being reasonable.

   Over and over, I see the same thing. Contact a "girl" on CM. She reads my profile (which clearly states I will ask for proof almost immediately), then we move on to chat on YIM. No matter how long we talk, five minutes, or five hours, when the idea of proof comes up, suddenly the whole climate changes. The excuses, and the explanations of why they can't, or won't show proof. "I don't have a camera.",  "I don't have time.", "It's too dangerous to show you my face.", "We only just met, why would I send you my pic?"

   Then, there are those who send you a tired old file photo that they send to everyone. That proves nothing. Only a personalized photo will do. I tell them that, and I get "You're paranoid. Why would I send you a pic that wasn't me??" Why, indeed...

    We are all here to find that certain someone. If you're serious, and real, you shouldn't have a problem proving it. If you really want to serve, why would you not be ready, even eager to prove yourself to your new master?? I know some people out there are so called "pic collectors". I've been called one many times. It's not about what you look like, or sexy pictures, or even seeing your whole face. It's about knowing the person you're talking to is actually the person they say they are in their profile, and not some middle aged dude jerking off in his boxers.

  As time goes by, you potential slaves will be faced with this again and again. If you want to be considered, you will have to realize that no one is going to waste much time talking to just "words in a box". Get a camera, and be ready, because eventually, a proof picture is going to be considered an essential part of any serious talks about real time service. If all you want is on-line play, say so right up front.

I just spent three hours chatting with a girl from CM who stopped talking to me, saying she had wasted my time because she didn't understand our profile. The third sentence in our profile is "We are a married couple living in eastern Indiana. I am the master of the house, she is the mistress."  The very first journal entry said this: "We have owned several slaves. Shortest time? One day. Longest time? Four years. No, we don't own any at present.".... But, this girl was under the impression that we were two "doms", each "owning" our own "slaves". She asked how many were living with us now. She said she didn't take time to fill out her profile accurately because she "didn't think anyone actually read them, they just look at pics".

I don't believe my writing skills are the problem, people...

It's come to our attention that no matter how clearly we write our profile, and no matter how much information we put in it, some people can't understand the situation here. We are a married couple. One man, one woman. We are both of a dominant nature. We consider ourselves masters. Some can't grasp the term master applying to a woman. Let's see. A lioness is a lion, so is a male lion. So, they are lions. A comedienne is a comedian, and so is a man. So, they together can be called comedians. An actress is an actor. So is a male actor. So, they are actors. It's not that hard to understand. A mistress is a master, just as her male counterpart is. So, they together are called masters. So, when I say we are masters, don't get confused. It doesn't (does not) mean that there are two men here. It means we speak English. A female master is called a mistress. Get it?

We've had a few people asking us about real life experience. Yes, we have real life experience. We have owned several slaves. Shortest time? One day. Longest time? Four years. No, we don't own any at present. If you want to know why none of them are still here, ask, and we'll tell you all the gory details.

I find it interesting when girls put pictures that are clearly not them as the lead photo on their profile. It's not that they are trying to make anyone believe it's them, it's just that if a man were to do the same thing, everyone would give him a hard time. Like, "here's a picture of this really hot guy that I think represents what I should look like, and oh, yeah, by the way, this other picture is what I actually look like".....What's the point?

"Dominate" is a verb; it's something you do as a dominant individual. You aren't "dominate", you're dominant. 

I Think it's interesting how many profiles I see with "warnings" about the unauthorized use of a person's info and/or pictures. People, this is the Internet. If you put something on it, it belongs to the world. You can't stop that. Who here has ever downloaded a picture, or a file of some kind, on-line and used it for their own entertainment, or profit? If you upload ANYTHING here, or anywhere else on the World Wide Web, guess what? It's not just yours anymore. Get over it. The silly "warnings" only make you look paranoid, and goofy.

Oh - My - God. Or whomever.

I have been reading the new best seller "Fifty Shades of Grey" It never fails to amaze me that authors go to such great lengths to portray dominant men as only being beautiful, rich, powerful business tycoons with the bodies of Greek gods, and genitalia of equine proportions. How are the subbies and potential slaves of the world ever going to accept normal, realistic situations when their heads are filled with all this fantasy? Sure, it's a good read, but as with the "Marketplace" novels by Laura Antoniou, unrealistic expectations can only lead to disappointment. Now, some people can read these works of fiction and keep their perspective. But, as I must admit I can say from experience, some take them as a goal to be reached, and will do literally anything necessary to seek out this kind of life, where money, power, and physical perfection are what matter, and the Lifestyle is but a means to an end. 

 If you wish to serve, you may come here. But if you do decide to come here, you must be willing to prove yourself to us.

 We are not here to have cyber sex, or to have an "on-line" scene. 

 We will answer any message sent to us, but if you want to establish a relationship with us, we'll want proof of your reality before long.

  To say you want to serve, and give up everything to us, but then refuse to prove you are who you say you are, is ludicrous. 

  If you can't or wont prove you're real, please don't waste our time.