Just an ordinary guy who happens to be dominant, sadistic and a caring individual. I enjoy micromanagement, cuddling, affection and being playful. I am pretty possessive and territorial also What curls my toes is younger, petite to avg females that are submissive first and have baby girl qualities. She is also playful and affectionate, wants to give up control and once established doesnt look to dictate. She is looking for a long term relationship not play time. She is intelligent, confident, shy, sexy with a little bit of sluttiness to her. But she is also ok with being slutty for one. She isnt into age play, diapers, scat, knives or needles but everything else you may think of is up for discussion. I am a truckdriver so location isnt an issue east of the Mississippi River but my area of focus is Minnesota, Columbus oh, the Carolinas and Georgia. It would also be great if she as able to travel..
Damn out of no where...guess when they say when you least expect it good things happen
Idle thought... Maybe it was the pussy. I miss the pussy but I don't miss her
I wonder why I am seeing profiles from female sklavin now? Which is German for slave. But the profiles are supposedly fro. Here in the states
Sitting here in california with the day off wishing I had a sub. Bed needs making, floor needs sweeping and paperwork needs doing lol
It always makes me chuckle when a sub or slave starts off with how extremely submissive they arex there isnt a dominant bone in their body and then gives a list of demands and rules to abide by in order to contact them and what they want a dom to do for them in a relationship to please them
Wishing I had a gace to fuck and a pussy and ass to spank right about now. Its been way to long
Am I the only one thay is noticing profiles showing up doubled on the list of people online?
If what they say is true about unicorns I think I may have already had mine after talking to and getting to know some of you
Just read where the actor Ice T and his wife are in a m/s relationship. She says she has beennhis slave for 15 years. Who would have thunk it?
Why is it I see so many sub's post they accept punishment with pride? Wouldn't avoiding punishment and when punishment is dished out learn from the mistake be something to be more proud of? Girls personally it doesn't impress me that you can take punishment with pride. Makes me think that you think punishment is some kind of enjoyment
When did being a submissive turn into all about the submissives pleasure and what she or he will require from the dominant? Something that makes you go hmmmmm
This site acting like its on 20 century dial up is frustrating to say the least. Anyone wish to chat they can find me on that other site that begins with an f and has life at the end. Screen name over there is _DT_
I could use a throat to fuck and an ass and pussy to beat.
If we start talking and you disappear for a couple of days that to me is a sign your not really as serious as you profess to be. If we are talking and in the middle of the conversation without saying you have to go or good bye and then try to pick up the conversation the next time your online with no explanation that is just plain rude
Sometimes if you want something the best way to achieve it is to look in the mirror and make changes within yourself. That's not always the easiest thing to do. That reflection isn't always the prettiest thing you will see. It's gonna be a long road to hoe but I'm up for the challenge.
Still trying to figure our why a submissive or a slave thinks being difficult,stubborn or a brat is an endearing quality. Someone please help me with this. Me personally sees that and ask myself why would I walk into a situation knowing she is gonna be a headache and pain in the ass instead of how can she be a pleasure
Why is it someone who describes themselves as a submissive or a slave thinks that being demanding, derogatory, defiant is going to attract a dom worth anything? Why wouldn't he or she think that behavior is what the person is really is and would be like that in a relationship which last I checked isn't being submissive but more like topping from the bottom
The true test of a submissive? Doing what she doesnt like to please her Dominant
I was asked recently if love was enough to sustain a relationship and I'm gonna answer here. The answer is no. Love is probably low on the list. A relationship needs commitment thru good and bad. It needs devotion and it needs honesty and it needs loyalty and most important it needs communication. Without these components its a breeding ground for a lack of trust. If the desire to commit and be devoted isn't there then where's the incentive to trust and if not loyal or honest do you deserve trust? And finally if you don't communicate, share your thoughts or feelings how would your so no if anything is wrong or right? If desires and needs are being met? One last thing this is a 50/50 deal. Don't just lean back waiting for your partner to give it first. If its what you want the best way to get it is to show it.
psa... if you are trying to pass yourself of as a submissive or a slave the first question shouldnt be would I let my trucker friends use you. being used sexually is not being a submissive or a slave... its being a slut. if that is your first question then pleasing a dom isnt your priority pleasing yourself is
if you have no trust then you are blind and deaf in a relationship. No matter what is said or showed it wont be believed. If you or someone your with has trust issues they really should evaluate whether this life is for them
lesson of the day: be careful of what you ask, you just may get it
Consistency? What Does that mean. Pretty much to be the same, to do the same, to think the same. As far as the lifestyle to be the same regardless of the situation or mindset. To be able to be counted on to be the same person day in day out. As a dominant it could.mean be consistent in your expectations, to follow the rules you put in place etc. To make sure the submissive is not confused so she can serve to the best of her ability. If one asks for consistency whether its from the dominant or the submissive they also have a responsibility to be consistent or the relationship is doomed to failure
how can someone have limits for online play? Cant you just say you did it and no one would know the difference if you didnt?
how come so many people post they will not respond to any one liners? Don't they realize that most conversations between strangers starts with a question or a statement and then it takes off from there?
Before you engage me in conversation please understand a couple of things about me and what I am looking for so there is no misunderstandings
Domination and submission extends beyond the bedroom door... Its not a physical act but a mental state of being.... If your thing is confined to the bedroom or kink motivated you are not a Dominant or a submissive...... your kinky and there is nothing wrong with that just not what I am looking for. Real time means exactly that..... Online is only a forum to introduce one another and to get a feel....Not a means of ongoing emails and being Dominated online..... just like any relationship it takes all five senses to succeed. Once again if being submissive online is your thing.... nothing wrong with that but not what I am looking for. As stated in my profile I will be looking to move away from emails and im's quickly... if your not prepared for that then do not engage me in conversation looking to change my mind.
curious minds wanna know.... if you are seeking a real time relationship why do you just put the state and not an area of the state your in or put something like its a secret? Dont you think that what area of a state might be fairly important when a person is deciding if you may be a match for them?
Skinny Dipping > An elderly man in Louisiana had owned a large farm for several years.. > He had a large pond in the back. > It was properly shaped for swimming, so he fixed it up nice with picnic > tables, horseshoe courts, and some apple, and peach trees. ... > One evening the old farmer decided to go down to the pond, as he hadn't > been there for a while, and look it over. > He grabbed a five-gallon bucket to bring back some fruit. > As he neared the pond, he heard voices shouting and laughing with glee. > As he came closer, he saw it was a bunch of young women skinny-dipping in > his pond. > He made the women aware of his presence and they all went to the deep > end. > One of the women shouted to him, 'we're not coming out until you leave!' > The old man frowned, 'I didn't come down here to > watch you ladies swim naked or make you get out of the pond naked.' > Holding the bucket up he said, 'I'm here to feed the alligator.' > Some old men can still think fast.
Think about this next time you think that older gentleman is to old lol
There is a difference between a Dominant and a pimp.... Im proud to say I am a Dominant
I am only interested in females... not males that think they are females, dress like females or been made that way by a Doctor.... only in females that fell out the womb as a female
Whats with all the female Dominants looking at my profile all of a sudden and why are all their profiles dating from as far back as 2005?
It may be the first impression that attracts but its the 20th, 30th or 40th impression that keeps ones attention
Has anyone else noticed that a vast majority of the fake profiles demand that you are real and honest?
What is so attractive about a sub with a defiant attitude and acting bratty?
must be my lucky night..... the last two subs to view my profile weighed a combined 107 lbs and one was a native american from Md with blue eyes and the other was an asian from australia...... Im a popular one huh?
Does enjoying kinky activities make you a Dom or a sub?
thinking I need to become a dick and asshole and start sending disrespectful messages.... being nice sure isnt appreciated lol
Why does so many here think that showing their ass or pussy.... stating how much they enjoy sexual activity makes them a submissive or a slave? It does not make you either... it makes you kinky? Submission is a mindset. It comes from the soul and delivered from the mind. And this goes for you so called Dominants too... Being able to throw a whip or a flogger, Being able to bark out orders does not make you a Dominant. smh
Im bored.... anyone wanna chat? not rp or sex just regular ole adult conversation
Im not gonna do anything for you... Im not gonna show myself naked on cam for you, Im not gonna type sweet nothings in your ear to help you masturbate and for all this non service I will gladly accept any tributes sent my way. Hey I figure if half the female subs and Dommes can charge for a non service I should jump on the band wagon too
P.s. I am selling some used smelly sweat socks and slightly used boxer briefs if anyone is interested
3 out of 4 profiles showing at the top of my list has three different pictures from 3 different cities advertising this cupid.net stuff. smh
am I the only one that has noticed that the avg weight of subs and slaves with "lil" in their name is north of 200 lbs? Folks if you weigh 200lbs you are not lil
New years eve was an eye opening experience and as such I am single again. never make one a priority when you are an option
And He whispered to me in the darkness as we lay together,
Tell Me where to touch you so that I can drive you insane;
Tell Me where to touch you to give you ultimate pleasure,
Tell Me where to touch you so that we will truly own each other.
And I kissed Him softly and whispered back,
Touch my mind.
The author of this piece seems to know what D/s is all about... wouldnt you agree?
Punishment leads to fear. Fear leads to obedience. Obedience leads to freedom. Therefore punishment is freedom.
Interesting concept isnt it?
lmao... I was just told to play my role and to stop taking things so seriously when I requested voice and visual verification. Another one playing games on this site I guess or am I taking things to serious when wanting to verify that a person is who they say they are?
just a quick note all mail from over 50, under 18 and from another country and male submissives goes into the bulk bin.... I read them on occasion but reserve the right to respond to them as I see fit
The more I explore this site the more I believe 2 more categories should be made on this site... I see many people confusing what being a Top is and being a Dom and confusing what being a bottom and a sub is... for the record... a Top or bottom enjoys playing ie: kinky games in the bedroom and then they go back to normal vanilla life outside the bedroom while a Dom and sub carries D/s beyond the kinky games and employs their mind and feelings and soul into their D/s. In other words... Tops and bottoms are all about the physical pleasure and Doms and subs get not only the physical but the mental pleasure out of it
is it me or is the what seems like real people on here being out numbered by the scams and fakes? This is getting ridiculous it seems for every 10 submissive profiles I have been looking at lately maybe 2 of them has the potential to possibly be real
whats up with the rash of prostitutes passing themselves off as subs that are available for rent by there Doms or better known as pimps and why isnt cm doing anything about it?
How come it seems 8 out of 10 "submissives" on this site requests no demands a picture before they respond yet think showing their back or their torso constitutes them showing a pic? I would assume that if I was to send a pic showing my belly or better yet a pic of my truck that its not what they are looking for
If you are in Nigeria with a family tragedy I am not interested. If you need a check cashed because your bank is closed and the country you are in won't accept it...I am not interested
