Dominant4Fun

Domination is about respect. Respect comes from trust. Trust should only be given to someone who earns your respect.

I am a creative dominant and while I do not need to use pain to inspire respect, I believe punishment must be dealt out to keep my girl in line and spanking can be a very enjoyable demonstration of respect. Being a dominant is also about protecting and providing for a sub's needs. Having a bully as a master does not make for long term relationship potential.

Being submissive to a dom is a privilege. Your life can be wildly unpredictable and exciting while at the same time having a dom take full responsibility for you. You may be expected to do vanilla things or spontaneously explore new methods of bondage.

I believe true submission is in the smaller day to day activities. Any hooker or wife can pretend to surrender their body for a couple hours, but to keep that attitude as you make small choices throughout your day shows a mental submission that is far more attractive and genuine.