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Male Dominant, 44, Orlando, Jax, Florida

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Female Dominant, 29, Lincoln, Illinois

Time wasting submissives REALLY cream My corn

Hard muscles combined with slutty fem wear....My own personal weakness.I lay blame on Tim Curry as Frankenfurter all those years ago!"I'm just a sweet transvestite..from Transylvania"yum yum

Any real pain sluts out there wanting a heavy session?Feeling the need for some heavy beating and cbt...dont apply unless you can really take it!

STOP SENDING ME GENERIC FUCKING MESSAGES!READ MY PROFILE...THEN TELL ME WHY YOU WANT TO SERVE ME.IS IT SO BLOODY HARD

Any nice subbie wish to drive Me to Playspace next Friday evening?

New years eve...the time we look back on the past year and forward to the coming one.This Mistress is hoping for a 2016 filled with love,joy,respect and pervery

What part of"Write a personal message as to why I should consider you"is hard to understand?Dont think much of your chances of being a good submissive if you cant even do that!

This Mistress is now actively seeking new submissives,male or female as have been really missing Kink in My life.Pain sluts,service subs,a boy to escort Me to events.Non smokers only.I require that you drive or are willing to learn.Please apply by writing a personal message to Me.All replies that show effort will be replied to.

Well that's another Christmas over with...at the risk of sounding like a total"bah humbug"I cant say I'm sorry.The total excess of the festive season seems to bring out the worst in people.I have spent My day today attempting to write the'blurb'for My website,I am a Reiki healer.It is proving to be a lot harder than I thought to get across exactly HOW I feel about healing and the right of everyone,rich and poor,to access treatment.Living where I do,in one of the richest towns in the UK it is not hard to get all sorts of health treatments IF you can afford it.However living in Henley doesn't necessarily mean you have money.That's the reason for Me setting up My practice..affordable treatment for all.But how to market it?I'm finding it surprisingly difficult to articulate My feelings.Ho hum.

If you wish to see a very recent photo of Me,please visit The hourglass photography website and click on their calendar for 2015.I am Miss May

Continuation of My entry on mental health; However some submissives can crave bad treatment because its what,deep down,they think they deserve.My Mistress spidey senses always quiver when I come into contact with this.I am not here to play into anyone's self-harm.I see it as an essential and enjoyable part of My role as a Dominant to foster healthy self-esteem and respect in any who serve Me.Growing as a person,taking on challenges,which,when over-come,give a sense of "yay,go me!What can I do next?",that REALLY floats My boat.Trogg has done so much since I took ownership of him,his previous life was one of being constantly put down and told he couldn't do things.His ex wife,a totally vanilla woman who gave lip service to loving him,spent their whole married life,knocking every bit of confidence out of him.She often did this in the guise of "doing it for his own good"....Trogg loves to write poetry and wanted to go to an open mic night at a bookshop and read some out...he was told"Your poems are so amateur,people will only laugh,I don't want you to be embarrassed"or,even more bluntly"who wants to listen to that rubbish!"All this from a woman who reported Me to the police when Trogg moved in,saying I was abusing him.Giving Trogg back his self-respect has been one of My proudest achievements.I see ownership as not only a great privilege,but also a responsibility.People often look askance at Me when I say training in any form,be it subs,pets or children is basically the same thing.Focus on the good behaviors,praise and reward effort rather than achievement and be consistent. So,back to E.How is this lady,in her late 50's,all she took for granted now gone,to rebuild her life?She told Me tearfully that what chance did she have of getting a job like her old one,of being able to support her grandchildren through University or form relationships again.She vehemently stated that she would NEVER trust anyone again after being so badly let down.I tried to help her see that even if she couldn't go back to the job she had,the fantastic qualities she had that had made her so successful were still there,inside.That only people like she and I,who have stared into the face of despair can really understand and help others in the same situation.I am proud to be an ambassador for people with mental health issues,to stand up and give workshops to professionals about services and enabling people to recover.I will never earn a fortune or have a fancy house,but My life has purpose.I remember listening to Doreen Virtue,a lady who works with Angels and writes on many spiritual topics.She said,when life wasn't going too well she would sit and ask herself a simple question."How may I serve?"and by simply doing something to benefit someone else she was often lifted from her low mood.Im not suggesting that all depressed people need to do is good deeds,but focussing on another's needs instead of our own is definitely a factor in recovery to wellness.Maybe some may think it odd that a Mistress should feel this way,after all,don't Dommes want people to do things FOR them...well I have always been an enigma,wrapped in a riddle.So if you have read this far..."On your knee's bitch,and don't dare look Me in the eye!"

MENTAL HEALTH AND BDSM Yesterday I was asked by the mental health education and training group I work for to go and talk to a severely depressed woman,to try to convince her that recovery from mental illness is possible.The poor lady was so incredibly distressed,she has made concrete plans to end her life very shortly.All paperwork sorted and loose ends tied up,she has just had enough of the struggle.I was asked to take on this tough job because I had been in that place...My life was so unbearable,the depression and anxiety so acute and over-whelming that I did not feel I could carry on.I too had a plan,and a date.I look back now,from a place of recovery,and am so glad I didn't carry out My plan.My life now,though far from perfect and still with many of the same problems,has meaning and purpose and many moments of contentment and even joy.If somebody had told Me this would be the case back when I was in the darkest pit,I wouldn't have believed them.Thats the trouble with clinical depression,its really hard to believe things can change,that it wont always be this way.I hope I managed to convince her to hold on a bit longer,to give the medication she has been put on time to kick in,to lift her just enough to see the possibility of a brighter future. Talking to the lady,lets call her E,brought some things into sharp relief for Me.Two years ago,she says,she had it all.A great job that she lived for,financial security,a husband,healthy grown up children and much loved grandchildren.Then,suddenly,like a house of cards,it all collapsed.Her husband left,she lost her job,the nice house had to be sold.As a result of her distress,she behaved recklessly whilst in charge of her grandchildren and hence is no longer trusted to have them.She finds herself alone,unemployed and without the family support she so badly needs.Her life has gone from Happy ever after to disaster,none of it her choosing.Its no wonder she feels life is intolerable. Why am I writing this?Because this story has highlighted something that has become more and more clear to Me...if we do not know how to love and care for ourselves,we are totally vulnerable to this kind of thing.When all is said and done,we only have ourselves...everything and everyone can be taken away.The world of bdsm attracts many,many,damaged souls.Not in the stupid"50 shades of twaddle"way,in which a beaten and abused child grows up knowing only how to beat and abuse,but in the sense that the scene is very inclusive and accepting and therefore can be attractive to folk who may normally not be accepted.Fet clubs are full of semi-naked people with the kind of bodies,mine included,that wouldn't normally be on such open display in'vanilla'nightclubs.Its ok to admit to desires that are not generally accepted in polite society.So,in this way,its fair to assume that many scene folk may have issues with self esteem,self love and self care.I am always wary of submissives who have a desperate desire to be belittled and humiliated.I have had several subs with extremely healthy self-esteem,highly respected work lives and financial security.For them,being humiliated,cuckolded,degraded even,was "time off",a healthy release.

I have been accused at times of being a dinosaur,of living in the past,because I live by"old fashioned"values such as truth,dependability and personal honour.If that's the case,I proudly accept My dinosaur status...for the standards most seem to accept as the norm these days are certainly not an improvement.I have returned to this site after a lengthy gap hoping to meet new submissives as have felt the lack of any kink in My life keenly.It appears you really cant"cage the kink"if you are,at heart a Fet person.Since being back I have remembered just WHY I used to find it so irritating. I am a Mistress,seeking subs.Those that reply to Me(with the exception of fellow Dominants)are therefore,one would suppose,interested in serving.So,if you are offering yourself to somebody,can you not take the time to actually READ that persons profile?How is one to take a request to serve seriously if it is obvious that sub hasn't even got enough interest to spend two minutes learning a bit about the Mistress they are supposedly SO very desperate to "do anything for"? PLEASE do NOT send Me cut-and-paste messages.I find them insulting.Its almost like any Mistress will do.We are NOT generic,whip-wielding creatures just there to cater to your fantasies.We are flesh and blood women with individual quirks,personalities and preferences.I want someone who reads My profile,see's something in Me that makes them desire to serve Me,Mistress Marina,not just any Domme that will have them. So,if you read My profile and wish to be considered,please take the trouble to write Me a personal,individual message of introduction.Anything else will not be answered.

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