I am a Lifestyle & professional Domina. Currently I am NOT seeking lifestyle submissives in any way; Thank you none the less for the inquiries. Should this change, so will My profile.
I demand & assure discretion, respect & class at ALL times. It does not raise anyone's standards by someone else lowering theirs.
I am seeking good submissives that wish to experience a scene in My skilled hands in order to build a trust in a professional dynamic. Otherwords, clients that UNDERSTAND what going to a professional Domina means.
I do NOT offer sexual services of ANY kind! Ever, do not embarrass yourself or risk making Me angry by presuming or assuming otherwise.
I am not a switch, nor do I ever switch. I know what I enjoy, I know what I do not...
I have been in the lifestyle My entire adult life and have been in the professional scene almost as long. I do run a household & seek only those that truly understand what this balance of D&s means.
Professional Dominance Defined: providing a safe, sane, and consensual environment in which one can explore kinks without judgment or fear of reprisal with an experienced and skilled Dominant.
When initiating contact to schedule a phone interview Please do answer the following FIRST!
1. Name: 2. Age: 3. Profession: 4. Interests (A little more about yourself as a person outside of BDS&M): 5. How long you have held interest in the "scene": 6. What was your first scene experience: 7. Kinks, Fetishes, Desires & Curiosities: 8. Have you seen any Pro-Dommes? (who): 9. Health Condition(s) (All medicated and un-medicated ailments): 10. Would it be possible for Me to initiate a telephone call discreetly? 11. If so what is the # and when is the best time to call? 12. Include any and all questions that you may have, I will either reply on collarme or on the telephone when I make contact.
I am starting to believe this area is unkind to We pros... Lots of those that talk the talk, very few which can and do walk the walk.
As all good things must come to an end... I have released my boy. I wish him happy travels towards his future, for it is to be made alone.
I am not interested in "online" play of any sort. It bores Me...
Birthday Bondage- Predicament Style!
My boy's birthday came around, so first I began with a small
medical scene incorporating electrical play. Which his body reacted to
in a MOST peculiar way; first nothing what so ever... then ever so
slowly as if he had embedded clockwork he would make a "meep" noise. It
was as if the electricity slowly built up in his body then... "meep." I
being a sadist, giggled much like a school girl in watching his
reactions.
Then, after putting away the electro toys, I picked up My cupping
set and began. I loved watching his skin pulled, then slowly pop into a
deep purple which contrasted so very beautifully with his pale white
flesh. Tickling, taunting, and teasing after pulling all of the cups.
After all hyperemia leaves the skin so very sensitive!
Then it was time to change rooms, and the scene ENTIRELY. I first
blindfolded him, cuffed, shackled and brought him to his feet... Then I
carefully walked him into the other room of My playspace. I first let
him to My cage, and locked him inside. I gave him permission to "peek"
if he so desired... as I had never put him in My cage before this. I
felt one should feel the entirety of the experience. He peeked, but
carefully put his blindfold back on respectfully and sat quietly.
I enjoy watching new experiences unfold; they can only happen once
after all. I then began to fashion the rigging for My boy's impending
birthday predicament. I used My witch's cross, by suspending it from
the ceiling via pulley right in the center. I then carefully attached
nipple clamps to the top end of the witches cross and attached the
carabiner to the CBT parachute. I then pulled the implement up to
insure he didnt whack his bean when I layed him down upon the suspended
table where I had set up.
I quickly guided him blindfolded across the dungeon space, and sat
him on the table, tapping his right shoulder and explaining, your head
on this side. He followed My instructions and laid down, I snapped his
wrists into the witch's cross, and then grabbed his boy bits and
carefully bound him into the parachute... At first he thought it would
be a SIMPLE predicament... Then I attached the nipple clamps, which
forced VERY little room for movement... So when I explained, "legs bent
at the knees and held up" he made a small grimace. I laughed at the
look on his face and attached his ankle restraints to the bottom of the
witch's cross.
If he allowed his feet to go down then his nipple clamps would pull
hard, biting into his soft pink flesh. I also insured that if he
allowed his arms to fall too far down the parachute which was attached
to his balls would pull past the comfort zone... I left him in the
predicament for QUITE a while... finally when I witnessed his legs
beginning to shake, I took mercy. It was his birthday after all! :P
It was a LOVELY predicament!
If you contact Me for a phone interview, ANSWER the phone. Practical sense anyone?! (laughing)
I attempted to phone several of the potential clients that said it would be best to ring them in the evening. Alas, not one bothered to answer.
I do call block My number for VARIOUS reasons. 1. Its My decision, so I decided to do so. Once you have earned My trust, you will also earn My #. 2. I have several clients with wives, thus it is safer to call block to insure discretion on both ends. 3. A lady can NEVER be too careful.
I had a WONDERFUL weekend with My boy. It was his birthday weekend, and I did indeed make the best of Our time together! (smile)
I will update as soon as I get everything all written up!?
If you lack patience for a response needing immediate gratification, do NOT contact Me. I am a professional Dominant, I do not cater to the needy, disrespectful, or impatient.
I do this because I enjoy and it enriches My life. I am only seeking those submissives seeking a professional, discreet, safe, sane, and consensual atmosphere with a professional of My many skillsets. I use collarme as a tool to find these individuals.
As I have been kind enough to share in My journals, I have a REAL life, full of REAL
people that I will not take time away from to cater to anyone via
collarme. Seriously? What type of person would EXPECT this? I may take up to two days to reply to an email, this is because of My REAL life.
I was intially accused of abandoning cropped(insert # here) after not immediately replying after I read his email last night. After I replied explaining that I am not a slave to collarme and will reply when I want. he promptly called Me a bitch domme, in a bitch domme world and blocked Me.
Frankly, I do not need nor want this type of person ANYWHERE near Me. I live in REALITY, where those I love come 1st and foremost, and always will. Got it?
I had quite a long day yesterday, I met up with a new lifestyle friend for lunch first. Then met up with My photographer Michael to pick up the raw images from My last shoot. After that exchange of data, I had lots of photo editing & resizing to pull off. Around 8:30, I had managed to finish, I snatched up My boy & taking him to My lavender bedroom for some Happy stress-relief. After stripping My boy down naked, I inserted My ear buds My boys ears snugly & turned on one of My favorite play lists of mood music. Then taking the bondage tape from My bedroom toy box, I began wrapping it first around his neck, then around his head, over his mouth, around his eyes, over the ear buds, encasing his whole head, carefully leaving his nose exposed to breathe. My boy?s head was completely enveloped in the Barbie-pink bondage tape, I had constructed a makeshift deprivation hood on the fly, quite a deal of clever fun! I then carefully stretched him out onto My bed, insuring he was completely within My physical proximity of constant control. I placed a white plastic clothes pin on each of his little pink nipples then sat back to watch My little boy in his mental bondage. He held his arms stiffly, above his head, I watched his hard cock bounce to the rhythm of his beating heart and felt My own heart begin to pick up the pace in witnessing how very much control I had over this beautiful boy of Mine. I reached up and stroked his pink plastic covered face and felt Myself smiling proudly at his devotion to My instructions. I so enjoy the smallest things about My dynamic in Dominating him, his posture, his breathing, his hunger swelling up large enough to devour us both if I don?t stay on top of his passion. I felt My own sexual excitement grow a flame in the depths of My groin. I flicked one of the clothespins and felt My proud smile grow into a sadistic smirk. I then tickled, teased, and taunted him with My hands and mouth with the intimate knowledge I possess of his body & likes? He never wavered from My mental bondage. He held steady & strong, until I pushed his legs together then mounted him. I slowly slid on top of him as I carefully slid him inside. I quickly pulled the two clothespins from his nipples, pinching them hard in the opposite way than the compression had been. He bucked his hips from the sudden pain I induced. That jump sent him deeper inside Me, filling Me with pleasure & intensity. I rode him until My legs began to betray Me, caving slowly the imminent orgasm rising within. I began to unwrap his head hungry to see his eyes, I wanted to see that divine passion he holds for Me. First, seeing him squint from the swift removal of his ?blind fold? it took but a second for him to adjust to the low lights & I saw exactly what I wanted. Seeing those bright green eyes consumed I felt My lust swell up in force? I placed his hands firmly upon My ass & kissed him deeply? To say that I went to bed stress-free is by far a MASSIVE understatement. ~Purr~
Monday, Sept 14th, I will again begin offering professional scenes. Feel free to inquire to the steps of setting up an appointment with Me.
I must interview ALL new submissives via telephone prior to scheduling sessions to insure mutual understanding, expectations, & chemistry.
I look forward to playing with all those compatible submissives that pass through My interviewing process.
This picture is eye-catching because not only is it ridiculously
sexy, it?s an explicit gender role reversal: the woman is lasciviously
fondling the man. I love how the movement in the photograph is her leg,
forcing him up to the wall with that mirror, making him look at what
she sees when she?s dominating him. Her hand on his cock as she
whispers in his ear all the dirty things she?s going to do to him and
with him. How many times have I done that to my lover? Countless. And
it never gets old.
I happen to find it completely beautiful, erotic, and a MASSIVE turn
on. Now the irony is the extreme in "role reversal" is why I am drawn
to the photo in the manner of which I am. I am a FEMALE DOMINANT, I
enjoy brandishing a strap on to take My boy whenever the mood arises. I
love to feel that gender role being shredded when I strap on that
harness & pick out My toy of choice. I find it deeply comforting
& hyper rewarding for Me to buck the gender specific "role."
Does this make Me a brand of misogynist?
I feel some Dominant Females have a touch of penis envy, I know I do.
HOWEVER, Never once, would I ever be willing to give up My innie for a outtie... After all, we get to select Our outtie size! wink
Thoughts?
Nit pickings?
(evil smile)
My boy came over from work almost an hour or so ago... We did the regular things, straightened up, fed the pets, did the regular vanilla things which are required in Our daily lives and then he mentioned he was exhausted and wished to nap. He disappeared into My bedroom for less than 2 minutes then popped back into My company to ask if We could do a "kinky" nap. In the past, I have left My boy bound & hooded to sleep next to Me in bed. It's become a mutually rewarding experience. Per his request, We negotiated terms of the "kinky" nap and then went back into My bedroom upon Our mutual agreement & understanding. I pulled out My neoprene body bag & his matching hood from My chest of drawers. My boy stripped down quickly, already visibly excited. I carefully placed his arms in the binds inside the bag and slid him securely into the bag. Slowly I zipped him up soundly, insuring I didnt catch any "protrusions." Then straddled him to put the hood upon his head, I then kissed him hard against the mouth. I felt his erection grow even harder between My legs, I smiled. He asked if I would like to turn this kinky nap into a mutually rewarding sexual scene, which is NOT what We had negotiated. I nipped & bit him on the chest & shoulder, kissing him through the hood again. I then breathed hard into his ear, hidden behind the black hood whispering; "Welcome to the reality of tease & denial." As I pushed off the bed, I giggled. I left him erect, bound, and hooded lying on My bed... God, I adore that boy! (giggling) Poor baby wont sleep a wink, he will however be amped for sound when I head back in there for a REAL scene in 15 mins. (glee)
On a hysterical side note, I also came across this today: I think "he" is just showing off for the camera, because frankly his mate looks BORED! " target="_blank">
I have had a rather Unexpected visitor dropped into My lap today. Unfortunately, due to My mutual discretion policy this will disallow ANY scenes from being conducted until after this coming week end. I apologize to those that I have discussed scheduling this week, alas this kind of thing happens with the joy of family! (laughing) Thank the Gods, just not OFTEN... Thus I will overlook this event and appreciate you doing the same. I will still be able to conduct phone interviews during the day for future scheduling.
Collarme took My journals down... (sighs) I went on a short trip, have since returned. I will be interviewing new submissives for My professional offerings. Write to inquire.
