I Am a recently seporated male with to kids looking for a submisive female that is into D/s and not really looking for a masicist. I want someone that is looking for a long term relationship not just a quick fling. I am willing to put in the time to make the relationshi[p work and would like the same. I am also not into humiliation or pain and think that a submissive should give her submition it is not something that can be taken.